So when does the "other women" hold responsibilty

When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him... At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?
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  • When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...

    At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?


  • Arkansassy
    Morality Police
    I take no responsibility in her cheating..

    She gonna do what she wants to do.
  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.

    However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. cookiemonsteres like those, need to jump off a bridge.
  • LadyNeptune
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    Posted by PayMeek_NoMind
    When it comes to relationships and cheating while I do agree with all the cliché's about why you shouldn't blame the other women blame him...

    At what point do these women take some responsibility for their part in KNOWING?




    If the other woman is your mother, sister, cousin, or friend then they owe their loyalty to you. By treetrunking with your man they have betrayed you.

    Otherwise you can't blame the other chick. After all they didn't agree to terms of a relationship with you...your man did. Yes their behavior is thot worthy and morally lacking. But they don't owe you anything, your man does.

    However I will say if you suspect something and reach out to her to ask about the nature of the relationship between her and your man and if they don't come clean...then they take on responsibility for the lies and deception.



  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    Posted by DeleterNerd
    Posted by nikkistar
    I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.

    However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. cookiemonsteres like those, need to jump off a bridge.

    That other woman owes you nothing. Stop knocking women who are players while single if youre not even going to knock men who are players while in a relationship.
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    First, this thread is directed at women, not men. I hate men that do this as well. But given the direction of this thread, I answered it in that fashion.

    I feel the exact same way as I would regardless of them having a penis or a vagina.

    And "That other woman owes you nothing" is rhetoric that absolves both men and women unaccountable, and speaks more about what you condone, than what I would.
  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    Posted by DeleterNerd
    Posted by nikkistar
    I hold no fault with the woman who unknowingly engages with a man/woman that is in a relationship.

    However, there are those women that do know, and annoy me with statements like "I'm not responsible for their relationship" and excuse themselves that drive me up the wall. They literally have no remorse, and talk themselves into corners justifying how they aren't responsible, even though they knew. cookiemonsteres like those, need to jump off a bridge.


    So out of curiosity, do you think Dazed should jump off a bridge or are you a female misogynist?
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    If Dazed knowingly slept with someone in a relationship, where the significant other was unaware that cheating was occurring, yup, he should.

    Swingers and couples that are in agreement to open relationships, are not part of this discussion. I am talking about any relationship where monogamy is expected.
  • Astrobyn
    Dezra Vapa Pirate Patch
    Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.

    So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that cookiemonster in the treetrunking throat.
  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    For the record, I don't absolve the dude or girl in the relationship cheating. Let me clarify that. I would Lorena Bobbit him, because he should keep his dick in his pants, if he made the monogamy deal with me.
  • Sucks

    OP wrote "other women"... Not "other woman"

  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    Posted by DeleterNerd
    @nikkistar so you arent a libra then! Leeb doms would just shake the other womans hand and say thank you for removing this person who turned out to be shady from my life 😂 and then passive agressively kill them both in a freak accident a few years down the line.


    Yea... I have my Scorpio moments.

    This topic actually hits close to home for me. I've told the story a time or two, but my ex husband cheated with a married co-worker that knew all about me. She was perfectly aware that he was married with a child, just as she was aware she was married with several children and called herself a "Christian".

    So I am fully aware of how biased I am in regards to women who sleep with men that they know are in committed relationships. If I could find her at that point in my life, I would have treetrunked her up, as much as I treetrunked up my ex's butter. lol
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  • Astrobyn
    Dezra Vapa Pirate Patch
    Posted by Cvurkoo
    Posted by Astrobyn
    Look she's not responsible at all, she never made a promise or commitment that was broken, that's all his bad.

    So not at all her responsibility, but its still extremely risky life style , when I go and stab that cookiemonster in the treetrunking throat.


    One could easily argue that we are all morally binded not to participate in such a degrading situation that is deemed amoral by society and therefore goes against the values of the group.

    This syllogism leads me to conclude that the general principle should be that a certain responsibility is held by the one being cheated with. As every general rule, there are exceptions that relieve the subject from responsibility, such as the fact that the subject acted unknowingly.

    I'd include a supplemental obligation that rests with the third party to make a reasonable effort to know the situation of the eventual intercourse partner.

    Big Grin i guess its good im not a legislator Big Grin
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    The general rule of how humanity works is you do whats in your own best interest. If not getting stabbed in the neck is the best option for you, then you don't treetrunk my man. If treetrunking my man serves your interest and you think you can take me, then you do you.

  • ColdFire17
    Music is all I understand
    At their own risk, innocent people get hurt and killed in the heat of passion all the time. Once you're knowingly part of a love triangle means you are also prepared for the heat you cause by activating someone's triggers, shifting responsibility holds little value to the hurt ones.
  • I always felt like a ho and a player is not the same, players are single mingle and aren't worried about a commitment or even trying to be up in nobodies bed that is committed. It's called play for a reason you don't want drama you just want to play.

    Ho's like drama, so you have to be mad at the man for dealing with a ho that goes without saying. But she gets a turn too! I just don't agree that a ho should get a pass it's part of a ho life style to catch hands from ppl. I am a women before anything so I could never do to another women what I don't want done to me.

    You have some women that know they are dealing with a man in a relationship. They'll troll the mans life, finding out who his girl is then start doing the most for her attention.
  • Posted by Caramel_Princess
    If I’m going to be critical and self righteous trying to live rightly and selfishlessly I’d say she’s to blame, but to get down to the real world and technicalities?

    She’s not responsible for someone else’s happiness but her own, and that’s how MOST people live... their own desires and happiness first. Just look at how people act in parking lots! They won’t give someone else a parking lot space, but they’ll give someone else their happiness? Put their desires before theirs?

    I’ve never been involved with a man who is taken and I never will, but it drives me mad when others expect that the other woman must be this innocent righteous person who needs to sacrifice her own happiness for someone she doesn’t even know. It’s not realistic. She’s not the one cheating, she’s not breaking vows, and she’s not the one throwing her partners happiness away, the guy she’s with is the one doing all of that.


    These ho's don't be happy they be in competition with women who don't even know they exist. I've seen ho's do the most when their agreement it to stfu and stay on the side. They will go out there way to troll the girlfriend get close with any mutual and try to place themselves in the girlfriends atmosphere to slowly expose the thing they agreed to keep on the low. Again a ho don't owe anyone anything it doesn't mean the disrespect has to be tolerated from some ho bit who's idea of happiness is creeping with men in relationships and exposing like that's going to make him be with her by default, that's not a happy life it's a deadly one IMO
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