Man leaving and returning...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Thursday, June 8, 2017 and has 6 replies.

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Friends husband who is way better looking than her announced his possible departure from the family.

He said they have to wait on his decision. He had decided to stay. It happened about 6 years ago.

Few weeks ago he said he is leaving and left.

Today he has returned and begging her to take him back.

They are in 50th. 2 grown up children.

Someone asked me - what is he doing?

So what is he doing? Idk

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Posted by Gemitati
Friends husband who is way better looking than her announced his possible departure from the family.

He said they have to wait on his decision. He had decided to stay. It happened about 6 years ago.

Few weeks ago he said he is leaving and left.

Today he has returned and begging her to take him back.

They are in 50th. 2 grown up children.

Someone asked me - what is he doing?

So what is he doing? Idk

What an ungrateful idiot, Gemitati! lol

He thinks his looks = personal merit.

Maybe he actually realized that HE is the lucky

one being married to her, instead of HER being

lucky to have married him.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Gemitati
Friends husband who is way better looking than her announced his possible departure from the family.

He said they have to wait on his decision. He had decided to stay. It happened about 6 years ago.

Few weeks ago he said he is leaving and left.

Today he has returned and begging her to take him back.

They are in 50th. 2 grown up children.

Someone asked me - what is he doing?

So what is he doing? Idk

What an ungrateful idiot, Gemitati! lol

He thinks his looks = personal merit.

Maybe he actually realized that HE is the lucky

one being married to her, instead of HER being

lucky to have married him.

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This was my reply:

He is a moron! And he will do it again...but of course she will take him back and it will continue until he will be old and nobody will want him!

He is looking for fun! And apparently those women are fun BEFORE he moving in. Then it's the same old but with new problems. So he doesn't want problems. Godspeed!!! —

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Posted by Scorpio123
Maybe he's just really unhappy.. you didn't say how their relationship is like. Is she loving and understanding, do they fight?

It takes a lot for a man at this age to want to leave, I mean women are the first ones who file for divorce but this seems like it's been on his mind for so many years, I feel a little sad for him.

Perfect family! Loving, fun, easy going. But who knows what is happening inside?

Btw he had been accepted back and I hope he will be greatful!

My daughter said on their old pictures she looks gorgeous. Thin. Beautiful. Happy!

She let herself go and looks unkept.

I think he is trying to make her realize that but she is apparently not getting it!

So who will tell this woman to put herself back together? Idk...

He is apparently looking for sexual relashionships but loving her and unable to cope with her a-sexual looks.

Isn't it sad? ?

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Posted by Teena
They have to wait on his decision—

What is *he* *he*here? Why is it all bout him?? Boy bye!

Yep! That what ticked me the most!

If you leaving - go!

But telling his family that he will leave but he isn't sure yet...maybe it was soul scream?

I am still very much miffed by that phrase!

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Posted by breterpan
umm when he first pulled that 6 years ago I wouldn't have put up with him making me wait for an answer

I know!!! However it's a life long story...kids, home, memories...

You don't just say 'don't come back'.

I was feisty like that when I was younger.

Later in life I had realized I could forgive.

It's when you had never had 20-30 years of relationships you can say 'I would never'...try have some and then tell me.