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How You End Your Relationship Before It Begins
How to End Your Relationship Before It Begins
Ending a relationship early can be necessary if your values or feelings do not align. Recognizing red flags and being honest about your intentions helps prevent emotional pain later. Clear communication and setting boundaries are key to ending things respectfully before they develop further.
Aries
You end it by playing it cool. Too cool for the other person to understand that you’re actually into them and you’re interested. You treat them like you treat any other person and you don’t make them feel special because you don’t want to reveal your real emotions.
Taurus
You end it by being too calculated. You pay too much attention to what they say, how they say it and the tone of their voice and you read too much into every little thing they do which makes you focus on what you don’t like more than what you do like.
Gemini
You end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Cancer
You end it by being too sensitive. You take everything they say as a direct insult to you. You take their slow pace as a sign of disinterest and you give up when they’re not as passionate and romantic as you are in the beginning.
Leo
You end it by talking more than listening. There’s no doubt that you live an interesting and adventurous life but you talk so much about yourself and your adventures that you end up outshining whoever you’re with and that makes them feel like what they have to say is not as important as what you have to say.
Virgo
You end it by neglecting it. It’s the last thing on your list and maybe on your mind. You’re so invested in all areas in your life but when it comes to relationships, you tend to fall short because you think there are better things for you to worry about.
Libra
You end it by expecting too much too soon. You want it to be perfect. You want them to understand you right away and you want them to feel the exact the same way about you, which is unrealistic and puts too much pressure on the other person to get on your level.
Scorpio
You end it by trying to have the upper hand. You always want to be the one in control. You want to be the one who cares less. The one who is less vulnerable. When you feel like the other person is trying to lead the relationship, you back off and walk away without really giving them a chance.
Sagittarius
You end it by needing too much space. You always want to travel and switch off your phone, you’re not good at texting back on time so the other person always feels neglected or maybe even rejected by you because you don’t make enough time for them.
Capricorn
You end it by being too practical. You like things in order and done in a certain way. So if you can’t really understand where someone is coming from and if they can’t agree with you on most things, you let them go.
Aquarius
You end it by turning it into a project. You want to fix people, you want to change people and help them become better. You love broken people and you want to fix them but you end up hurting yourself and falling for people who are not ready to be in a healthy relationship.
Pisces
You end it by taking your sweet time. You’re romantic but you always think that people will wait for you because of your heart. So you take someone’s interest in you for granted and you disappear for months finding yourself then come back when you’re ready expecting to pick up where you left off. TC mark
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TaurusYou end it by being too calculated. You pay too much attention to what they say, how they say it and the tone of their voice and you read too much into every little thing they do which makes you focus on what you don’t like more than what you do like.
WOW!!! this shit is sooooo me!
my moon is strong af!
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Yeah I relate most to the moon one too.
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CancerYou end it by being too sensitive. You take everything they say as a direct insult to you. You take their slow pace as a sign of disinterest and you give up when they’re not as passionate and romantic as you are in the beginning.
true....
*prepares to die alone* 😆 😆
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ScorpioYou end it by trying to have the upper hand. You always want to be the one in control. You want to be the one who cares less. The one who is less vulnerable. When you feel like the other person is trying to lead the relationship, you back off and walk away without really giving them a chance.
Maybe when they are 12?
Mine told me 'you can tell me what to do'
and 'I should have listened to you'
and when I tell him 'no you do it this way' - he telling me next day I was right and things work out.
So...you have to know your ropes with each one you dealing with.
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
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How do you explain your husband then?
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
How do you explain your husband then?
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I post and counted 1-2-3 and notification gor RED! ?
Consider 23 years of pure devotion and fidelity! When you reach that point - we will talk!
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
How do you explain your husband then?
I post and counted 1-2-3 and notification gor RED! ?
Consider 23 years of pure devotion and fidelity! When you reach that point - we will talk!
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But you said you do one clean cut. Or does that only apply to relationships that don't end in marriage.
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
How do you explain your husband then?
I post and counted 1-2-3 and notification gor RED! ?
Consider 23 years of pure devotion and fidelity! When you reach that point - we will talk!
But you said you do one clean cut. Or does that only apply to relationships that don't end in marriage.
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When it's time - it will be one clean cut!
Until now - I am not braking up yet - so there is no cutting!
Your title didn't say 'divorce' - it says break up so...dismissed!
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
How do you explain your husband then?
I post and counted 1-2-3 and notification gor RED! ?
Consider 23 years of pure devotion and fidelity! When you reach that point - we will talk!
But you said you do one clean cut. Or does that only apply to relationships that don't end in marriage.
When it's time - it will be one clean cut!
Until now - I am not braking up yet - so there is no cutting!
Your title didn't say 'divorce' - it says break up so...dismissed!
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Wrong, the title doesn't say that. Look again.
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GeminiYou end it by being indecisive. One day you’re into them, one day you’re not. One day you show them you care, one day you’re so distant. Your hesitation is reflected in your actions and it pushes the other person away.
Bullcrap! If I am into them - I don't hesitate and they are only one! And I always care.
And if I fall out - one clean cut and no games.
How do you explain your husband then?
I post and counted 1-2-3 and notification gor RED! ?
Consider 23 years of pure devotion and fidelity! When you reach that point - we will talk!
But you said you do one clean cut. Or does that only apply to relationships that don't end in marriage.
When it's time - it will be one clean cut!
Until now - I am not braking up yet - so there is no cutting!
Your title didn't say 'divorce' - it says break up so...dismissed!
Wrong, the title doesn't say that. Look again.
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I did. Relashionships 'before it begins'?
How is it even near marriage?
And it's crazy - end before it begins—
So...what to end? It haven't began!
Eyeroll
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VirgoYou end it by neglecting it. It’s the last thing on your list and maybe on your mind. You’re so invested in all areas in your life but when it comes to relationships, you tend to fall short because you think there are better things for you to worry about.
Nope.
I'm a Aqua Venus and I can honestly say that's true... I think it implies for Venus signs, Pretty Dope.
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AriesYou end it by playing it cool. Too cool for the other person to understand that you’re actually into them and you’re interested. You treat them like you treat any other person and you don’t make them feel special because you don’t want to reveal your real emotions.
No, that doesn't describe me. Sun and Venus in Aries. I read the Capricorn one, too, because I have Moon and Mars in that sign, but it doesn't apply to me, either.
I feel like this is super true more so for the venus placements.
I can relate a lot to the post about Taureans.
The aries one seems accurate too but I always attributed my aloof approach to
the Taurus Venus ( reserve), aqua merc.
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I relate to neither my sun or moon tbh.
Same here. I also didn't relate to my rising sign. This might be why, at least for me: if something has potential for a relationship but never goes beyond potential, then all of those people would have to agree about why it didn't. That's not likely to happen, because each person, your dynamic with them, and the set of circumstances are different. And that's not even factoring a person's age.
Yes for cancer and for Libra.I was just about to make a post about sabotaging relationships when I saw this. So me and my Aqua (who has Libra moon. I have Cancer moon/Libra Sun) got into the stupidest fight last night because he did the passive aggressive libra by saying "don't get offended but are you one of these people who asks for advice and don't take it or do you just like venting your feelings. So went off I was like don't pretend like you're asking me a question say this how you feel! I didn't ask for advice! I was merely confiding in you about my situation which means I was trusting you which is hard for me to do. It is hard for me to just tell someone I'm dating that I'm dealing with something and you freely offered suggestions which were odd fucking suggestions which kind of annoyed me because they seemed like suggestions that weren't ideal. So when I tried to tell you logically how those would not work you got mad that I don't want to take your suggestion. And from his point of view he has been supportive all day which he has and I'm grateful for that but you want to get all self-righteous on me when I didn't ask for your opinion. I just said this is what I would have to do to fix the situation and you turn around and offer a solution that seems selfishly based so it pissed me off! Then he doesn't know how to handle me telling him that I am annoyed that he is upset that I didn't take a his suggestion when his suggestion wouldn't better my situation. Then he says I am exhibiting queen behavior and he doesn't want to be dragged around like that. Then hell maybe we are both too sensitive maybe we shouldn't fucking be together then!
The Pisces description doesn't really relate to me ..... probably a couple others mixed together. maybe closer to Aqua.
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Is it true for you??
(got this from thought catalog btw)