My ex Virgo gf and Gemini ol Me

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by AlantheGemini on Sunday, June 26, 2016 and has 11 replies.

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@AlantheGemini
10 Years

So my ex and I have been broken up for a year and6 months now and I was making terrific progress throughout the time. She had found herself a new bf while her and I were talking about us. In short terms, she basically kept me as her 2nd option, and when she found the guy she wanted she tossed me away. Throughout the one year and 6 months we had been broken up she was going out with her new bf but replied to me when I wished her a happy new year. Then in the beginning of this year we started to slowly talk more and more until we finally met up in person. Well she had told me that she was still with her new bf so we agreed to not see each other. Then she contacted me layer and we met up, talked, and then she told me that this was the last time we were ever gonna talk or meet because she was gonna start a famity with her bf. I respectfully told her I accept her decision and just hugged her and left. Then recently, she called me from a private number (which is how she contacted me before). Funny enough though, I had been thinking about her too so I was kinda shocked when I picked up the phone and heard her on the other side. Well, again we met up and she basically told me she had NOBODY she can confine in, and that she had been dreaming about me, thinking about me, and that she would catch herself almost calling her bf by my name. We only got to talk seriously for like an hour but the matter at hand was that when I asked her why she called, she basically told me that she missed me, she realizes that she took me for granted and that she is tired of her relationship because her bf is an marker to her and never wants to do anything. But weirdly enough, she told me that even if she were to break up with her bf, that she wouldn't go back out with me. So I'm fairly confused how she can ell me that I'm always on her mind but that she's not willing to give us another shot. Can any Virgo women give me some insight. I've tried to contact her but she still has me blocked off every social media app and I don't remember her ##

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@AriesLovesMe
10 Years

She wanted to apologize for hurting you. It was killing her conscious. That's the only way she feels her new relationship will work.

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@AlantheGemini
10 Years

I guess I was a fool to believe I'd get to be with her again. In all honesty I don't even know what I see in her anymore. I've bee screwing myself over just to help a girl that's too childish to know what she wants

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@AlantheGemini
10 Years

@Busyeyes88

I never knew how easily manipulated I was. Tha KS you for the advice, it sucks for me to let her but I should wake up and see her for what she is.