Please forgive me

For i need to rant. I feel so many things right now. The primary emotion is anger. I am furious and i fucking feel guilty about it.

I have just gotten home and my 8year old son blurts out that my grandmother has cancer. My aunt in south africa phoned my mother today to let her know the following:

Spoke to my grandmothers doctor and doc told my aunt the that my grandmother is riddled with it. She will never survive an op and treatment will have no effect, basically she can die anytime from now on.

Wtf am i pissed about you ask

According to my mum. The gp broke patient confidentiality and informed my aunt about this rather than my grandmother who is none the wiser she is dying. Not only that the kids have decided not to tell my grandmother or grandfather.

Who the fuck do these people think they are? They not god to decide what to and not to tell her. What fing unethical doctor has the right to break confidentiality and then the kids do same ontop of that.

I have never had much love for my mother. For various unforgiving things. But this will be the last straw if she does this to her own mother.

So sorry😔

It's good to go through the emotions.

I'm very sorry for what you're going through

so sorry gurl - will you tell her so your conscious is clear ? not sure of all the deets but you are correct about the doctors and should call the facility where they work and file a complaint