Do view intimate relationships as life long commitments?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by 777 on Sunday, March 24, 2019 and has 18 replies.

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@Vitale
7 Years500+ Posts

No I view marriage as life long commitments... cuz you know... till death do us part

But intimate relationships, I do take them seriously

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Black-Mamba

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I want that, but reality is harsh

U the type to be mad at ur husband cuz he died b4 u. Like, "Why would he leave me lonely & all alone like that"

Nigga!!!!!

WTF

You know me too well

Lol i can get very attached, especially if i invest in a person and they've invested in me

Take a chill pill. No one is dying lol

Im too intense

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Too intense with other peoples lives lol jeezus

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@Mhmmm
8 Years500+ Posts

I’m married and I do see it as a life long commitment. But I know life happens and people change so I try not to assume that just because I’m married it’ll be for life.

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Black-Mamba

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I want that, but reality is harsh

U the type to be mad at ur husband cuz he died b4 u. Like, "Why would he leave me lonely & all alone like that"

Nigga!!!!!

WTF

You know me too well

Lol i can get very attached, especially if i invest in a person and they've invested in me

Take a chill pill. No one is dying lol

Im too intense

Sigh

Too intense with other peoples lives lol jeezus

Just my life and my interests

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Good luck attaining those interests

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@bricklemark
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I honestly don't know...when l was ypunger l just wanted sex, l got into relationships for that goal only...then l realised women get attached...a lot... So l started thinking...and growing feelings too. And started getting used to the idea of love = for life. But now it seems like women are scared of such commitment too so idk..

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LittleStar

Never. Commitment is a day to day choice and life is short. Same way in that if our relationship ended or I died I’d want them to not be trapped for the rest of their life living in the past.

Shit happens and whatever you prepare for you won’t know what’s coming.

This ^^^

We need to have realistic expectations...relationships change and sometimes people need to move on to experience life. If ever there was a difficult lesson for me...it's this

"Happily Ever After" is a fairy tale. The reality is relationships are hard work, especially after children come along.....they change everything.

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@saggurl88
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Posted by 777

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Yup. I don't want to waste my pot of gold on trolls

What if it's a cute troll?

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I don't want to sleep with a guy just once. I want it over and over again and that means a relationship. I'm not wasting my energy to have stranger sex with no connection. It's worthless and no fun. I want to do everything under the sun when it comes to sex. I can't do that with a stranger.

He can eat my kitty though and I'll say thank after I cum in his mouth 🙂

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@777
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by saggurl88

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Yup. I don't want to waste my pot of gold on trolls

What if it's a cute troll?

I don't want to sleep with a guy just once. I want it over and over again and that means a relationship. I'm not wasting my energy to have stranger sex with no connection. It's worthless and no fun. I want to do everything under the sun when it comes to sex. I can't do that with a stranger.

He can eat my kitty though and I'll say thank after I cum in his mouth 🙂

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Ur nasty

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@saggurl88
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Posted by 777

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Posted by saggurl88

Yup. I don't want to waste my pot of gold on trolls

What if it's a cute troll?

I don't want to sleep with a guy just once. I want it over and over again and that means a relationship. I'm not wasting my energy to have stranger sex with no connection. It's worthless and no fun. I want to do everything under the sun when it comes to sex. I can't do that with a stranger.

He can eat my kitty though and I'll say thank after I cum in his mouth 🙂

Ur nasty

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Yes I am 😄

Edited to add:

This is exactly why I like it in the realms of a relationship. I need to be free sexually without judgement.