What does it mean if you text and ask what he’s doing and he says he’s laying in bed..??

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Dreamy007 on Wednesday, March 20, 2019 and has 41 replies.

Interpreting His Response When He Says He’s Lying in Bed

When he says he is lying in bed after you ask what he's doing, it may indicate he is relaxing or avoiding deeper conversation. It does not necessarily mean he likes you, but his response can suggest he is comfortable or not eager to share more details. Consider his overall behavior for clearer insight.

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7 Years

Posted by -Damous

Be like oh were you thinking about me again? And you’ll have your answer lawl

I’m to shy I was gone off the bottle and it took me like an hour to push the send button to ask what he was doing lol

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Posted by Dreamy007

Posted by Lionheart917

Lol is this for real?

Yes lol 😂 it’s silly but I’ve liked him for ten years and I think he likes me but not sure and I don’t want to be rejected lol

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you don't want to be rejected but it's ok being alone while fantasizing about him being in bed liking you ? get your answer so you know which path to take next . otherwise you'll just be in the snoozone

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7 Years

Posted by tctaap

Posted by Dreamy007

Posted by Lionheart917

Lol is this for real?

Yes lol 😂 it’s silly but I’ve liked him for ten years and I think he likes me but not sure and I don’t want to be rejected lol

you don't want to be rejected but it's ok being alone while fantasizing about him being in bed liking you ? get your answer so you know which path to take next . otherwise you'll just be in the snoozone

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I’m actually embarrassed that I wrote him now lol and don’t know how to proceed

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Posted by Dreamy007

Posted by tctaap

Posted by Dreamy007

Posted by Lionheart917

Lol is this for real?

Yes lol 😂 it’s silly but I’ve liked him for ten years and I think he likes me but not sure and I don’t want to be rejected lol

you don't want to be rejected but it's ok being alone while fantasizing about him being in bed liking you ? get your answer so you know which path to take next . otherwise you'll just be in the snoozone

I’m actually embarrassed that I wrote him now lol and don’t know how to proceed

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well if it's night time and he's laying in bed that would be normal - tell him to have a good night ?

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@Dreamy007
7 Years

if You didn’t like a girl I don’t think you would tell her you are in bed lmao I’m desperate but at least I shot my shot

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@Dreamy007
7 Years

But if you was disgusted with a girl you wouldn’t tell her you’re laying in bed lol so he ain’t disgusted with me haha

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8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dreamy007

But if you was disgusted with a girl you wouldn’t tell her you’re laying in bed lol so he ain’t disgusted with me haha

Why would he answer you, if he was disgusted with you?

And the opposite of being disgusted is not that he likes you.

How old are you? What sign are you? Something about this reminds me of myself in my early twenties.

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7 Years

Posted by PurplePassion38

Posted by Dreamy007

if You didn’t like a girl I don’t think you would tell her you are in bed lmao I’m desperate but at least I shot my shot

Are you going to reply? What have your previous texts been like? Is he flirty?

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I drunkenly tried to articulate that I have dreams about him and he said “what kind” and I never wrote back

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@starlord
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dreamy007

Posted by starlord

I REALLY want to know, wether or not the dude likes her now.

Please find out girl!!!

Still haven’t wrote back I’m still embarrassed and now it would be weird

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Well just write him! What the hell have you been waiting for for 10freaking years!!!!!!!!!

Are you close friends? How long have you liked him? Are you afraid of rejection and the friendship ending, since you haven't asked?

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7 YearsLeo

Wait, it’s been 3 months.... you should know by now...

I’ve been texting with a guy and it was kinda late and I asked if he had to go to bed soon and he said he was already in bed, but didn’t have to get up early. So we continued texting for like 2 more hours. If I was trying to read something into this, I would say he chose to rather text me than get some sleep.

There were also times we texted when we were both getting ready for bed and it kinda is a nice feeling to “go to bed together” (sounds super dumb, I know). But knowing the other person is in their PJs, laying in bed and telling you good night is kinda sweet.

It really depends on the other circumstances. Like, was he just in bed in the middle of the day because he lives in a studio apartment and has a couch/bed— Was he about to go to sleep but decided to rather talk with you? Don’t read anything into it. He’s just stating a fact in my opinion. Just appreciate the information he’s sharing. Guys usually aren’t that deep and he probably didn’t think anything by it 🤣