Why Do Men Like To Be Treated Like Garbage?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Sag898 on Tuesday, March 26, 2019 and has 27 replies.

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@Sag898
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Almost every man I've ever met idealized some woman who treated them badly. Ignored them, cheated on them, never had sex with them, was an alcoholic, couldn't commit. Is it the bad girl thing that just gets your motor running or what?

I mean they like want to marry this people. Honestly you won't see this as much with women because they are biologically looking for a stable provider and someone to have children with.

( my opinion )

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$ 1 million in the bank, you feel secure. $ 1 million in a duffel bag, you protect it and worry about it. The risk of losing something makes you appreciate it more and want to hold onto it. When something is secure, you don't care and take it for granted. You'll appreciate it when it's gone, but it's always too late by then. I think that's how relationships when awful people work.

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Posted by Sag898

Almost every man I've ever met idealized some woman who treated them badly. Ignored them, cheated on them, never had sex with them, was an alcoholic, couldn't commit. Is it the bad girl thing that just gets your motor running or what?

I mean they like want to marry this people. Honestly you won't see this as much with women because they are biologically looking for a stable provider and someone to have children with.

( my opinion )

1. You are looking at it from the wrong perspective. Most men get treaded like crap by most women. Most men will never have sex with the majority of women they meet anyway, no matter how much they cry and beg and most of these women will never commit either. Those who do though will drink, cheat and leave.... 😢

2. The provider thing, really? It's like you left out your teen years and 20s ....maybe even 30s. 🙂

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I think both men and women suffer from this at some point in their lives, and I boil it down to emotional immaturity. The "abusive" partner, usually is able to manipulate the other into operating in an emotional capacity that veers towards scarcity thinking. The long term effect of that, will leave residual emotional fallout, that will make a person obsess about it until they are completely emotionally healed and then can look at it in an objective light.

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Posted by Librasetting777

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Posted by Librasetting777

I expect to be treated like the venusian king that I am or ill push you down and pee in your butt.

oo kinky... not me but R. Kelly would say lol

who is R. Kelly? Serious question

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really? He's a famous R&B singer... came up from nothing, very talented but is facing multiple child sexual abuse allegations etc. He had a court case prior that got dropped but now has resurfaced due to documentary called "Surviving R. Kelly".

Here's one of his famous songs lol

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Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Librasetting777

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by Librasetting777

I expect to be treated like the venusian king that I am or ill push you down and pee in your butt.

oo kinky... not me but R. Kelly would say lol

who is R. Kelly? Serious question

really? He's a famous R&B singer... came up from nothing, very talented but is facing multiple child sexual abuse allegations etc. He had a court case prior that got dropped but now has resurfaced due to documentary called "Surviving R. Kelly".

Here's one of his famous songs lol

click to expand

lol sorry I dont lizten to that kind of music nor do I watch TV

..I only listen to metal

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I don't think it's -> treat like garbage -> man likes you.

I think it's more like -> person of superior intellect/looks/quality -> creates attraction in lesser person....-> treats them like crap.