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Why Men Often Sabotage Good Situations
Men may create conflict when things go well due to fear of vulnerability or loss of control. They might also struggle with expressing emotions directly, leading to misunderstandings. Understanding underlying insecurities can help explain why some men act defensively or disrupt harmony in relationships.
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉
smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
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Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??
I know back when I was younger,I used too start stuff just to shake the relationship up,like act kinda jerky too make the girl mad...then they would try and fight me,I would grab them from hitting me,then some sexual tension would start!! 😉 but the other question about disappearing ..you must be messing with cancer guys..🙂
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
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aquarius with cancer moon....and as far as ur comment about my pic its irrelevant (moving on)
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
aquarius with cancer moon....and as far as ur comment about my pic its irrelevant (moving on)
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Don't mistake that for me saying your unattractive ..that's not what I was saying...just mean attractive .. 😉
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
aquarius with cancer moon....and as far as ur comment about my pic its irrelevant (moving on)
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Who is aqua with cancer moon? You or him?
Posted by Caplove
Where's your sun and moon, HighlyClassified?
Rising Sign is in 18 Degrees Aries
Sun is in 18 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 29 Degrees Pisces.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 29 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Saturn is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 01 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
aquarius with cancer moon....and as far as ur comment about my pic its irrelevant (moving on)
Who is aqua with cancer moon? You or him?
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he is
Posted by AVG
Blame it on Eve!!! 😉smdh can u respond with some logic or a real answer not to be funny but this is serious
Mean as you look on that profile picture,your probably scaring them away..lol 🙂
aquarius with cancer moon....and as far as ur comment about my pic its irrelevant (moving on)
Don't mistake that for me saying your unattractive ..that's not what I was saying...just mean attractive .. 😉
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im sorry and thank you and its not like hes ugly hes very very attractive so i dnt think its that
Posted by Caplove
Where's your sun and moon, HighlyClassified?Rising Sign is in 18 Degrees Aries
Sun is in 18 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 29 Degrees Pisces.Mercury is in 00 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 29 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Saturn is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 01 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
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Aries rising too ...Nice..😉
Because men are DUMB!!!!
Thats what my therapist tries to explain to me EVERY week she comes to visit.
All jokes aside. I just think they act like that when they're NOT ready. Instead of just saying they're not ready they keep it open for when they want to come back.
Posted by Caplove
Where's your sun and moon, HighlyClassified?Rising Sign is in 18 Degrees Aries
Sun is in 18 Degrees Capricorn.
Moon is in 29 Degrees Pisces.Mercury is in 00 Degrees Capricorn.
Venus is in 10 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 29 Degrees Libra.
Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Sagittarius.
Saturn is in 14 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 11 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 29 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 01 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 15 Degrees Gemini.
Aries rising too ...Nice..😉
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go on??
Women usually mature a lot faster then men,so if he's your age...nine times outta ten,your probably way more ready too be in a long term relationship then he is right now...but the disappearing thing without a word,I don't know what that's all about..especially with social media big as it is!! Good Luck* 🙂
Posted by starlover
Not too many men want the C word (commitment) but just interested in the *other* C wordSadly
Sorry
What? Cuming?
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. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...lol 🙂
Posted by AVG
Women usually mature a lot faster then men,so if he's your age...nine times outta ten,your probably way more ready too be in a long term relationship then he is right now...but the disappearing thing without a word,I don't know what that's all about..especially with social media big as it is!! Good Luck* 🙂
lol how do u know that this thread is about me??
Posted by AVG
Women usually mature a lot faster then men,so if he's your age...nine times outta ten,your probably way more ready too be in a long term relationship then he is right now...but the disappearing thing without a word,I don't know what that's all about..especially with social media big as it is!! Good Luck* 🙂lol how do u know that this thread is about me??
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Don't forget I have a scorpio 8th house too....psyche...😉
lol ^^^
Posted by highlyclassified
lol ^^^
🙂
well i guess the moral of this is i was a good woman to him and he didnt appreciate it o well i kno i didnt do anything
Posted by highlyclassified
well i guess the moral of this is i was a good woman to him and he didnt appreciate it o well i kno i didnt do anything
Well I think somebody said it earlier,men are dumb,stupid or something like that!! If you treated him good,and the relationship was good,then he just up and did a magic trick! It's his lost,it's men right now,all over the world,regretting letting the woman that gave them her all go like they did...if it was just leaving not saying nothing like your guy did..🙂 or treating the woman badly!! Etc...when he gets with a woman that treats him like shit,he'll look back and think of sweet highly" 😉 now move on and get back out there..haha
Posted by highlyclassified
well i guess the moral of this is i was a good woman to him and he didnt appreciate it o well i kno i didnt do anythingWell I think somebody said it earlier,men are dumb,stupid or something like that!! If you treated him good,and the relationship was good,then he just up and did a magic trick! It's his lost,it's men right now,all over the world,regretting letting the woman that gave them her all go like they did...if it was just leaving not saying nothing like your guy did..🙂 or treating the woman badly!! Etc...when he gets with a woman that treats him like shit,he'll look back and think of sweet highly" 😉 now move on and get back out there..haha
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o trust me i already have its just not easy when ur feelings are involved i go out on dates and talk with guys noone clicked yet and im also afraid because im tired of playin games with men i dont think noone is ready smdh
Posted by highlyclassified
well i guess the moral of this is i was a good woman to him and he didnt appreciate it o well i kno i didnt do anythingWell I think somebody said it earlier,men are dumb,stupid or something like that!! If you treated him good,and the relationship was good,then he just up and did a magic trick! It's his lost,it's men right now,all over the world,regretting letting the woman that gave them her all go like they did...if it was just leaving not saying nothing like your guy did..🙂 or treating the woman badly!! Etc...when he gets with a woman that treats him like shit,he'll look back and think of sweet highly" 😉 now move on and get back out there..haha
o trust me i already have its just not easy when ur feelings are involved i go out on dates and talk with guys noone clicked yet and im also afraid because im tired of playin games with men i dont think noone is ready smdh
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You have too think positive,jupiter,the good luck planet is in our 5th house...this is your year too have some luck in the relationship department..😉 Njoy ..
Posted by Gobshite
Because they learnt it from the best: women.
Posted by exoskeleton
real/mature men don't do that shit.click to expand
Those two answers ^^^. TRUTH.
Posted by Gobshite
Because they learnt it from the best: women.
Whennnnnnn are you gonna give that Avi some teeth?
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??
He's Aquarius, commitment phobe doesn't even begin to describe...
Thats what my therapist tries to explain to me EVERY week she comes to visit.
When she comes to visit ^^^^^^^^^
You didn't say when you go to see her ... you said, when she comes to visit you.
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??He's Aquarius, commitment phobe doesn't even begin to describe...
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Sumbody else said that to on this thread but worded diffrently yea it was strange maybe he was feeling it to much then started acting strange it was weird to me because my feelings hadnt grown yet i was just gettin the feel of feelin him out
Posted by Gobshite
Because they learnt it from the best: women.Whennnnnnn are you gonna give that Avi some teeth?
Why so superficial, my dear?
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It's not superficial, it's creepy damnit, and is hard to look at with my morning coffee! Lmao!
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??He's Aquarius, commitment phobe doesn't even begin to describe...
Sumbody else said that to on this thread but worded diffrently yea it was strange maybe he was feeling it to much then started acting strange it was weird to me because my feelings hadnt grown yet i was just gettin the feel of feelin him out
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I hate to break this to you but my Aqua ex is 50 and still single with absolutely no desire to settle down. Lol You have to admire the persistence they have for staying single which is equal to their persistence at getting a first date/getting in your pants/turning that into a regular shag/not ever allowing it to go further.
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??He's Aquarius, commitment phobe doesn't even begin to describe...
Sumbody else said that to on this thread but worded diffrently yea it was strange maybe he was feeling it to much then started acting strange it was weird to me because my feelings hadnt grown yet i was just gettin the feel of feelin him out
I hate to break this to you but my Aqua ex is 50 and still single with absolutely no desire to settle down. Lol You have to admire the persistence they have for staying single which is equal to their persistence at getting a first date/getting in your pants/turning that into a regular shag/not ever allowing it to go further.
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Yea unfortunately i hated i had to b one of his dummies to fall into the mix
Don't consider yourself a dummy. I didn't know this either and wouldn't have even questioned it given his persistence. I got wise, just like you, and now we both know. 🙂
Its just sad certain men just never grow up
Thats what my therapist tries to explain to me EVERY week she comes to visit.
When she comes to visit ^^^^^^^^^
You didn't say when you go to see her ... you said, when she comes to visit you.
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She comes to my house P! Is that okay with you? She comes to my house to give me therapy LOL
Posted by highlyclassified
why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??He's Aquarius, commitment phobe doesn't even begin to describe...
Sumbody else said that to on this thread but worded diffrently yea it was strange maybe he was feeling it to much then started acting strange it was weird to me because my feelings hadnt grown yet i was just gettin the feel of feelin him out
I hate to break this to you but my Aqua ex is 50 and still single with absolutely no desire to settle down. Lol You have to admire the persistence they have for staying single which is equal to their persistence at getting a first date/getting in your pants/turning that into a regular shag/not ever allowing it to go further.
Wow, 50 yrs old— :S Jesus Christ, that's scary. I guess we all just need to learn to spot them better. I suppose some men just don't want that commitment, which is fine, I just wish there was more honesty about that. It's just a shame that women can get trapped into this, thinking that he'll change. Ugh.
**ponders**
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Sooooo scary!!! SMH the man that doesnt want to commit, with no intentions to ever! SMH u must leave those alone ASAP!!
I've noticed that women with children have a tough time in the dating game.
Most men just aren't looking for ready made families.
Sad, but true.
Posted by Wynter
I've noticed that women with children have a tough time in the dating game.Most men just aren't looking for ready made families.
Sad, but true.
if a guy cannot accept my child then he can go im not hard up for a guy my capricorn sun trait im a loner even tho having someone or falling in love would be nice buts its very hard i narrowed it down mentally in my mind based on men with to many babymamas or women drama or just not having certain qualities i need in a guy the ratio is slim to none
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why do men always start shit when shit goes good and cant just allow things to flow or disappear without telling the person if its over or not leaving them absolutely clueless??