Dating a guy about 20 years younger

I am curious...what do younger guys think of dating a woman 20 years older than him? What would you do if someone older showed interest and was interested in you?

Posted by DonAmanMarat
You REALLY wanna hear what I think about cougars?!

Ok, here we go...

Cougars are desperate sluts tryna imitate fertile 21 year olds because the only worth they got left at that point is take a header off the cliff!
The hermit life ain't appealing so they invest all their receptionist/help desk cash on plastic surgeries, but who are they fooling?!
We hook up, fuck them because it makes for high fives and good laughs with the bros...nothing more.

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Oh please...no one is looking for anything serious here. And I'm none of those things written above. Just wondered....Also, here's an FYI for ya-women don't like guys that act and dress younger than they are. It makes them look like idiots.

Posted by piscesgirl18

I am curious...what do younger guys think of dating a woman 20 years older than him?
What would you do if someone older showed interest and was interested in you?

"DESPERATION"

"I'm getting a free lay"

Nothing more..unless you have money.

A 20 year spread is a bit much.

At 30, I may have gone to 40.

Now that I'm knocking on the door of 40, a 50 year old seems too much for me.

I'd need that number to be in the 40's somewhere, and I've never had a problem dating someone older, just not too damn much older.

I almost never hear of relationships working out where the guy was even slightly younger than the woman...much less by 20 years.

It's always the woman who ends up heart broken, too.

Just my observation.

Thanks for the honest opinions all--I was just wondering. I don't know if I would feel weird or not, but I must feel uncomfortable about it, or else I wouldn't be questioning it...right? I like that I always get an honest answer when I pose a question. I just want to have a good time, not a relationship.

If it makes you happy, go for it! My mom's 50 and hot for her age. She's dating a guy 10 years younger than her but they're happy. That's all that matters.

Dating a toddler.

By 40 a man begins to become limp ... some stay hard, but, most begin their dwindling down to become a limpy noodle by 50.

I find it funny that a 24 yo says an older woman has no value left based on sex .... when it's actually the men of this age group that can no longer fuck.

to topic ..... depends

When two people come together to share a part of their life .. it can be beautiful or ugly ... and that all depends on what the two people are looking for.

My friend is with a man 14 years younger than her, he's 37 she's 52. Together 16 years married 7 and very happy together, leo and aqua.

Posted by P-Angel

By 40 a man begins to become limp ... some stay hard, but, most begin their dwindling down to become a limpy noodle by 50.

I find it funny that a 24 yo says an older woman has no value left based on sex .... when it's actually the men of this age group that can no longer fuck.

I was going to mention something like this.

Women at 40, 50 are still in their sexual prime, but the men are way past their's. So a woman in this age bracket with a much younger man is obviously looking for someone with stamina, etc.

AND if a woman can get a severely younger guy, that means she must still be hot and sexy.

You go girl!!!

Thanks for all the lighthearted comments...they made me laugh! In the end though, I will just let whatever happens happen...

Posted by P-Angel

By 40 a man begins to become limp ... some stay hard, but, most begin their dwindling down to become a limpy noodle by 50.

I find it funny that a 24 yo says an older woman has no value left based on sex .... when it's actually the men of this age group that can no longer fuck.

What are you talking about? have you fucked many old guys to find out? or are you just go by all the erection ads you see and people who tell you—_..Ive been with heaps of old guys and they had nothing wrong??_.and its nothing that viagra can't fix anyway.

An older ladie's flower begins to wilt at 35 and by the time they're 50 they're running for the toilet any chance they get and pissing their panty liners

I say if your an older lady and u meet and young stud that wants to bonk you then do it??_..but make it classy and not desperate??_make sure you know what your doing and do it with conviction lol

Not yet. I definitely don't want to push the envelope, just let things progress. I think there is interest there for sure.

He seems shy, but he makes eye contact a lot and chats with me. So it's not like he avoids me or anything. I just know that if I take it easy and slow it won't spook him.

Note to P's post:

Limpy noodles are cured with the magical pharmaceuticals...so my advice would be to the 20 something year old women: get the guy's medical history, make sure he doesn't have a heart condition before you fuck him.

The last thing you want is a limpy noodle and a limpy body on you when you're done!😱

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I don't know. I am a Pisces after all. We do like to not embarrass ourselves whenever possible. But it is definitely there, and if I had him alone, and it was obvious, yeah, I would go for it.

He's interested....

Let's say a 40 year old man wants to date a 20 year old woman.

I'm not sure if them being on the same maturity level is actually a good thing lol There's no reason a 40 year old man should have the maturity level of a 20 year old woman

And I say that b/c there's certain things that have to be in place in order for age gap relationships to work: 1. Both have to be on the same page 2. Both have to want the same things and 3. Both have to share the same maturity level. This is true for all age relationships, but especially important in age gap relationships. Hell, 1 big reason for why age-gap relationships don't work out in the 1st place is b/c 1 or all 3 of those aspects are missing. It can work though. But only if all 3 aspects are there.

So when you actually sit & think about it, I'm not so sure if a 50 year old having the same maturity level as a 25 year old is actually a good thing lol

I get that she may think she's as mature as him, but na I doubt it. Experience plays a lot into maturity. It's not the only factor, but it's def. a big factor.

OMG just go for it 🙂
I know 3 guys that prefer older women, it's just how they are made, they are turned on by experience. They are good looking guys and younger girls adore them, but they are just not interested sexually in younger women. We are all wired differently and if a younger man finds he is only able to be seduced or aroused sexually by an older woman that is his prerogative. One of those 3 guys had a 2 year live-in relationship with someone his own age (very pretty)and found he just couldn't get it up for her so they broke up. He is happily married to a woman 14 years older than him and his sex life couldn't be better. When they first got together everyone went 'Ughhh' because he is so hot and she's very average, but seeing the way he looks at her, it just made sense, he's so in love, they married after 8 months together, he had to chase her, she wasn't having it at first. They have been happily married for 4 years now.

Thanks all--I think I will go for it. Why not.
Will keep you updated

UPDATE the guy in question was chatting me up today and told me I was totally gorgeous.

Posted by piscesgirl18
UPDATE the guy in question was chatting me up today and told me I was totally gorgeous.

Lol just bang him already!
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Posted by starlover
I meet lots of younger guys when i am out and some of the show an interest in me and i say to them *go chase the younger ones* most of them say they are not interested and find older women much hotter. Seems to be a growing trend?

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I agree, I think social media has a lot to do with that, young girls post pics trying to look sexy and hundreds of guys like their photos, they in turn like hundreds of guys photos (especially the topless ones) and I think mature guys (no matter how young they are) are looking for a bit more substance and loyalty. Older women tend to be more reserved and nurturing and actually care about what you think and how you feel.