Aquastic007
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red flag ...?
Red flag.
sex flag
And visit him— FOH, what happened to actually taking you OUT for a date? What does he wanna do? Netflix & chill? I hate that phrase actually. Who made that bullshit up...
Yep red flag.
At least you know where his head is at
At least you know where his head is at
3 weeks? My did that on meeting 2 haha but we were long distance
I love posts like this. 3 weeks and someone is complaining that someone wants face to face interaction instead of a keyboard relationship? What in the hell is he thinking?!
I'm saying this with all assumptions that he's a decent guy.
I'm saying this with all assumptions that he's a decent guy.
Hmm.. Idk. Maybe like a purple flag because I'm not sure.
Wait no. It would be a yellow flag. Proceed with caution.
Posted by AriesLoveWe met at a mall , he approached me and asked for my digits, then we started chatting.Posted by AquasticHave you guys been out at all yet? Have you seen him in person?
A guy I met 3 weeks ago is asking me to visit him at his place. I mean it's only been 3 weeks but he's already sending me "I miss u " messages.
What game is he playing at
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Is this a red flag or paranoia?
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I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling him I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Posted by AdmiralYou are right , I need to loosen up and be frank, and not too much.Posted by AquasticBut why play games? Would you like it if he did such things? He may be doing it now but just tell him straight you don't want to have sex right now. What are you afraid of? It's not like you're in a real relationship. Don't stress about something that hasn't even started. Just enjoy the moment and if your intentions don't align tell him and split. You can't control him you can only control your expectations of him. Keep it simple, lighthearted and fun. The only thing I can suggest is to see how much he talks the talk and how much he walks the walk. Don't let him use those words to confuse you. One last thing don't get soo damn invested in the beginning.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Have fun.
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Posted by AdmiralYou are right , I should just loosen up and have fun but also ensure that I don't fall for any tricks.Posted by AquasticBut why play games? Would you like it if he did such things? He may be doing it now but just tell him straight you don't want to have sex right now. What are you afraid of? It's not like you're in a real relationship. Don't stress about something that hasn't even started. Just enjoy the moment and if your intentions don't align tell him and split. You can't control him you can only control your expectations of him. Keep it simple, lighthearted and fun. The only thing I can suggest is to see how much he talks the talk and how much he walks the walk. Don't let him use those words to confuse you. One last thing don't get soo damn invested in the beginning.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Have fun.
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Posted by AquasticWell d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.
Posted by PhoenixRisingWell I don't , decided to cut him out. If only I was desparate... So...Posted by AquasticWell d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.click to expand
Posted by whatthecrabYou not alone on thatPosted by HouseCleaningLearn something new on DXP every day
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Posted by GetMistedMaybe m damaged
What's the issue here, really?
When I first started dating the Ex Aries, I invited her over to my place for an afternoon of lunch, beer, and coloring on the sidewalk with chalk.
No sex was involved.
I think the real issue here, is that you assume all men are attempting to nab the taco. Either because of ego, or horrible choice of men in the past.
Posted by cheekyfaerieIt's hard when u've been through the same thing before only to find that they are after one and one thing onlyPosted by AquasticBut he was good enough to chat with for 3wks?Posted by PhoenixRisingWell I don't , decided to cut him out. If only I was desparate... So...Posted by AquasticWell d*mn you did more than "sense his intentions". His peen probably shrunk up a few inches.
I tried to sense his intentions by telling I hate sex, then he started saying we won't do anything he promises.
Meh. If you don't feel comfortable, don't go. Doesn't matter what his intentions are.
Nobody here knows the nature or frequency of those interactions and you should definitely go with your gut, but you don't hafta be rash either.click to expand
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What game is he playing at?
Is this a red flag or paranoia?