Staying with a sagittarius

So I've been back and forth with a sag, I'm a virgo through n through. Not in full definition but def most traits... It's a little exhausting trying to figure out how to get her to open up any suggestions—

Patience..
You don't get her to open up till she sees what your intentions are and that won't happen without time and patience.
She gets to decide how and when not you.
If your not authentic don't expect anything but a door in the face.

Patience I can do.. Thx!

Why have you been back n forth

Long story, she had just ended a pretty destructive relationship with her ex and she came after me, i just went with it,i the I found out she was a sag and it made sense, she was showing alot of interest and made it known she wanted me but I think I pursued too hard, didn't think about the facy that she had just got out of a relationship

Just be her friend.

A Virgo and a sag, quite the combination... Sometimes I feel like she's just using me when it's a benefit to her, is this common with the sign. It's my first sag but not my first fire sign... There's also the wholr thing I failed to begin with. She's an addict and alcohlic, she was most strongly drawn to me because of my sobriety. So that changes the story with quite a twist, not to mention, she's been in jail the past 4 months, i had three weeks of a wild ride before that.. 1st date, amazing, after that the ex would constantly torture her and she wouldn't do anything but shut down, 2nd week she's back in full blown addiction and I joined 😢 but immediately left and told her I couldn't be a part of her life of she continued, 3rd week I painfully watched as she fell deeper.. then goes to jail

Essentially you have to chose long suffering if you care enough. They grow out of the whole self destructive tendencies. But you will have to be a loyal friend who is always there. Even if it hurts you in the process.
They don't need support but they do need compassion.

You're so right but sometimes it's so hard to do. Thank you for your words, they're helping alot!.. I know giving love to ppl who need is why I was created and oh wow does that pic express so much!...

why would you date a girl with so many issues?

youre asking for it, imo.

dont be surprised if your xbox comes up missing or your car.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
lol you're crazy and i bet you left a nice normal chick who has her stuff together to attempt to captain this addict.

i wonder if virgos go for these types because they feel that normal sane chicks will leave their asses.

Omg +1000

Wow! Lol, ok, I'm not sure what to say.. Ok so no I didn't leave any chick for her, not that kinda person and yea I think a sag and Virgo is one heck of a combo!.. I've been in recovery and clean for almost 3 years, whether this becomes a relationship or not I know I helped someone take a look at the way they're living and can only pray that they can be who they were born to be. thank you all for the feedback.

I think on tv, they definitely say that ppl in recovery shouldnt be around addicts.

Ok

Posted by Weeds

Essentially you have to chose long suffering if you care enough. They grow out of the whole self destructive tendencies. But you will have to be a loyal friend who is always there. Even if it hurts you in the process.
They don't need support but they do need compassion.

hmm

Posted by DMV
I think on tv, they definitely say that ppl in recovery shouldnt be around addicts.

What about alcholics anonymous?

Posted by Weeds

Posted by DMV
I think on tv, they definitely say that ppl in recovery shouldnt be around addicts.

What about alcholics anonymous?

click to expand

yes support groups

Whoa, wait I'd love nothing more than a true loving relationship.. she came for me, i didn't pursue but she kept giving attention so I tried. Major life changing circumstances can alter the caricture of a star sign

Virgo9133, I know a lot of Virgo men and women.

Never been into one romantically though I've been pursued by 2 Virgo men. Something about them or lack of something just never got me past the friend zone.

If you have any specific questions, feel free to PM me.

I got your message but replies are not sending out. Do you need to change your settings?

Maybe, I'll check

I think it was because I wasn't following you, should work now, thx again

Did it work?