Rules of no contact

Hey I'm on day 7 of limited/no contact with my ex, I've moved out 4 days ago. I was wondering if playing mobile games like trivia Crack is a violation of no contact? We don't talk on there just play but i don't want to defeat the purpose.

No I'm doing it for me, he still text me and tries to be friendly.

Posted by Taureye

Posted by Starrylady07
No I'm doing it for me, he still text me and tries to be friendly.

Well do you want to not talk to him anymore?Any contact in this case means that he's gonna linger in your life. If you wanna go no contact it means they literally don't exist. Trust me when i say this it gets easier with each passing day. (well for me it did)



I want to talk to him after some time has passed and we have time to get over the break up and clear all the negativity. By then i will know if i really want to build something new with him or just carry on completely. I'm going on a date Saturday so I can get back to me.

Posted by Taureye
@starrylady07 Scientifically, it takes the human brain about 30 days to forget and refresh feelings. That means on average it can take a month for people to clear their heads. I would do a clean break, take it month by month and when you feel ready reach out to him. But you MUST complete atleast 1 month of no contact if you are serious about going this route.

Thank you i was kinda hard doing a complete break st first because we was living together and saw each other daily still so we've talked about bills and separating stuff like them cutting off the Internet and collecting the trash compactor from the home. I'm still on his phone line for however long that will last. He said post break up not to worry until upgrade time which i got on his line in September. I want to do no contact completely but i don't want to be rude because I am using his phone service for now. I know now that playing mobile games with him will never alow us to heal so i guess I'll start over.

Thank you that's probably the best advice i have gotten 🙂