Yay I'm single again!

So last night I lit some candles and asked my ex libra to sit down with me to discuss why he didn't celebrate my birthday and he gave me this lame excuse . And I presented a chance for him to be sorry and he wasn't to my surprise so I broke up with him on the spot and said he needs to move out. Well that's when he turned nasty and it was really quite interesting to watch really but it did hurt though not as much as I thought. Some of you might think I'm vain but he stood me up two years ago on my birthday and I threw him a bash last year. I also did the 5 love languages quiz with him and he knows that a sentimental gift on my birthday is all I need toI feel love and all I get is burger king breakfast .and he insulted me. I ended up going to the mall by myself and buying myself a cake and ate it alone after singing myself happy birthday. He didn't think and for that I was hurt but he claims that the 5 love languages is bullshit and I'm making it up just so I can get shiitty at him lol

Word of advice guys look up the 5 love languages of love and find someone who speaks the same as you

Welcome back to the singles club! Party time!

Im so glad you got out of that!! Good for you!

I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

Yay. 🙂 I'm happy for you. I've read your posts about things that he's done and not done and totally understand why it has to be over. I felt particularly angry when I read about how disrespectful he was on the day of your show.

Good for you. The entire situation sounded like garbage for you. Between his family and his half assed attempts of being a decent human being, it was ridiculous.

Posted by Astrobyn
I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

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Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

You really, REALLY need to stop making up excuses for shitty behavior and telling people to stay in shitty situations because you view it through delusion. The bf's family are druggies, they stole the OP's money, and the bf treats him like shit, etc.

WHY are you excusing this behavior? Just because you believe in being a beaten doormat that's desperate to keep bad men around doesn't mean you tell other people to do the same. You need to look out for the OP's best interest, not being an enabling asshole pos.

Wow yea i hear u its the little things a massage a letter cook me dinner rub me down. Not always about gifts but show me you care otherwise. ...this is true find someone who loves like u love.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
So last night I lit some candles and asked my ex libra to sit down with me to discuss why he didn't celebrate my birthday and he gave me this lame excuse . And I presented a chance for him to be sorry and he wasn't to my surprise so I broke up with him on the spot and said he needs to move out. Well that's when he turned nasty and it was really quite interesting to watch really but it did hurt though not as much as I thought. Some of you might think I'm vain but he stood me up two years ago on my birthday and I threw him a bash last year. I also did the 5 love languages quiz with him and he knows that a sentimental gift on my birthday is all I need toI feel love and all I get is burger king breakfast .and he insulted me. I ended up going to the mall by myself and buying myself a cake and ate it alone after singing myself happy birthday. He didn't think and for that I was hurt but he claims that the 5 love languages is bullshit and I'm making it up just so I can get shiitty at him lol

I am super happy for you. I'm going to pay that the next one is the one that's going to make you fart rainbows and poop Strawberry and chocolate. ...

After the Pisces and libra you getting closer to your soul mate. whoop whoop

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by Astrobyn
I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

that would have made me hella happy

do i have low expectations

damn

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We tried a date thing, by doing a painting and mimosa class together. Then we went grocery shopping, ran some errands, put together some furniture. The V-day was surreal because I got an idea of what Pre-Domestic and Post-Domestic V days were gonna look like........

Moral of the story. Don't settle for philly cheese steak if you want pasta.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
So last night I lit some candles and asked my ex libra to sit down with me to discuss why he didn't celebrate my birthday and he gave me this lame excuse . And I presented a chance for him to be sorry and he wasn't to my surprise so I broke up with him on the spot and said he needs to move out. Well that's when he turned nasty and it was really quite interesting to watch really but it did hurt though not as much as I thought. Some of you might think I'm vain but he stood me up two years ago on my birthday and I threw him a bash last year. I also did the 5 love languages quiz with him and he knows that a sentimental gift on my birthday is all I need toI feel love and all I get is burger king breakfast .and he insulted me. I ended up going to the mall by myself and buying myself a cake and ate it alone after singing myself happy birthday. He didn't think and for that I was hurt but he claims that the 5 love languages is bullshit and I'm making it up just so I can get shiitty at him lol

my daddy always said if a n***** dont celebrate your birthday, he aint shit.

Posted by Astrobyn
I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

did he think you were a Taurus?

Posted by ElTigre25
Well good riddance. Wow, that holiday must've shown people's true colors and or opened some eyes.

it certainly did for me. I dropped my 2 best friends. Virgo n Aries

Posted by DMV

Posted by Astrobyn
I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

did he think you were a Taurus?

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lol I am. But I've never cared for red meat that much and never cared for Philly cheese steak sandwiches particularly, for like 6 years i never ordered one politely declined them. But they were his favorite, and that's what he brings home to me.

I could understand if it were IHOP pancakes.my favorite

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

What?

No, that isn't a good example of 'different ways of showing love.'

To know exactly what it takes to make the person you love happy,

and then NOT doing it, when you're perfectly capable, is just lazy.

No one should settle for that kind of indifference.

Good for you eleventh! You shouldn't be with anyone who makes you feel like shit and takes you for granted. Forgetting your birthday after you threw a bash for him ...

Okaaay

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

What?

No, that isn't a good example of 'different ways of showing love.'

To know exactly what it takes to make the person you love happy,

and then NOT doing it, when you're perfectly capable, is just lazy.

No one should settle for that kind of indifference.

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It's strange. I've seen this moronic justification around the board on and off when people come here, upset that the S.O. didn't do whatever for whatever occasion. This slew comes in and uses the same stupid fuck logic.

The reality is that if that person knows you, loves you, and cares for you, they'll do what's in YOUR "love language" because they know that's what works for you. I don't care if S.O. is indifferent to holidays/birthdays. That's how they treat THEIR own thing. Doesn't mean they should treat others' occasions the same.

It's one thing if someone's like, "meh, whatever about my own birthday." But when it's "meh, whatever about yours too because I'm not that into them" is just a selfish way of thinking. It's also pathetic when others justify this nonsense. Do we really have that many enabling, doormat bitches around this forum?

It's why I get so freaking irritated in my responses because it's so fucking sad and pathetic to see other human beings here, the same who throw out advice, being passive about crappy behavior toward others.

This easily explains 5 loves briefly ,its abook that should be studied

Thankyou all for listening tome xoxo

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

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That was my exact reaction. I'm also not a gift giver, I kinda suck at it. But at least my BF got a not too sappy card, and his favorite reeces peanut butter cups for V-day.

Posted by starlover
It reminds me of a friend of mine who was so desperate to get a man she told me *anything is better than nothing*

😱

She was a Libra too

That's because some Libra women are pathetic as fuck when it comes to relationships. No dick in their hand means they surely shrivel up and die!!!1one

A former Libra friend of mine settled with her (now) husband. She admitted she was whatever about him, but because of her insecurity and weight issues, she didn't go anywhere. Some of the shit she said about him was so cruel and callus, yet she married him...

This chick in particular started polluting the Libra forum with this stupid drivel of pathetic expectations and tolerating shitty behavior... likely because she does it herself. It's really depressing to see women do that to themselves- settle with bad behavior because their self esteem is so fucking sad that they stay in situations for the sake of being the dreaded "s" word. DUN DUN DUN. THE EARTH WILL FLY INTO THE SUN IF THAT HAPPENS OMGHERD. *cough*

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

What?

No, that isn't a good example of 'different ways of showing love.'

To know exactly what it takes to make the person you love happy,

and then NOT doing it, when you're perfectly capable, is just lazy.

No one should settle for that kind of indifference.

It's strange. I've seen this moronic justification around the board on and off when people come here, upset that the S.O. didn't do whatever for whatever occasion. This slew comes in and uses the same stupid fuck logic.

The reality is that if that person knows you, loves you, and cares for you, they'll do what's in YOUR "love language" because they know that's what works for you. I don't care if S.O. is indifferent to holidays/birthdays. That's how they treat THEIR own thing. Doesn't mean they should treat others' occasions the same.

It's one thing if someone's like, "meh, whatever about my own birthday." But when it's "meh, whatever about yours too because I'm not that into them" is just a selfish way of thinking. It's also pathetic when others justify this nonsense. Do we really have that many enabling, doormat bitches around this forum?

It's why I get so freaking irritated in my responses because it's so fucking sad and pathetic to see other human beings here, the same who throw out advice, being passive about crappy behavior toward others.

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It IS sad and pathetic... !

But shooting the wounded is something p-angel does, because

she never took the time to heal the rot in her own soul.

I think your anger is fully justified, just misdirected-- like asking

the blind Why don't you just do what everyone else does, and LOOK.

lol

I brought home barbeque last night, and I thought of you when I found

two little ramikens of Ranch at the bottom of the bag.... wtf?

They went in the garbage 😄

Posted by Montgomery

But shooting the wounded is something p-angel does, because

she never took the time to heal the rot in her own soul.

I think your anger is fully justified, just misdirected-- like asking

the blind Why don't you just do what everyone else does, and LOOK.

lol

I brought home barbeque last night, and I thought of you when I found

two little ramikens of Ranch at the bottom of the bag.... wtf?

They went in the garbage 😄

Bwahaha. Fucking ranch. It's hilarious to me that places give it away regardless of the food. "I see you ordered chocolate cake. Would you like ranch with that?"

P would probably be less cranky if she gtfo of her situation. She never did and it just continues to fester and in turn we get a middle aged dxper, cataloguing info about every other user on here so she can use it against them at some point in time.

...I lose track of who's who way too easily haha. I thought I was responding to someone the other day who was a previous user who had frequented that forum. Turns out it wasn't. Just usernames that both had the same sign in them haha.

I may get cranky and brash like she does, but a majority of what I say isn't based in malicious intent, which is her spin a good portion of the time.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

Some of you might think I'm vain but he stood me up two years ago on my birthday and I threw him a bash last year

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^You rewarded him for treating you like shit...what did you expect—

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

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I am yep...he gives me everything ive ever dreamed of and more-he's just not good at dates and stuff 😉 as I am...I dont expect from others what I dont strictly offer...
I got diamond earrings this year...for my 30th 🙂 I drive a damn fine sports car, live in a beautiful apartment and holiday where and when I like so I tend not to complain too much for the odd slip up here or there

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

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Oh and this happened once, lol. We've been together 10 years so yeah. We are still together 😄

Posted by starlover

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

I am yep...he gives me everything ive ever dreamed of and more-he's just not good at dates and stuff 😉 as I am...I dont expect from others what I dont strictly offer...
I got diamond earrings this year...for my 30th 🙂 I drive a damn fine sports car, live in a beautiful apartment and holiday where and when I like so I tend not to complain too much for the odd slip up here or there

Does bling and a sports car make you happy ?

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haha, was waiting for that 😉

Posted by starlover
It is just that you didn't mention love

Because love I feel it most days from him, birthday or whatever, as I suppose a healthy relationship should be. I was just staying within the topic from the OP about birthdays, gifts, and what people can see as occasional thoughtlessness. I "get it" because I can be like that. Im not big on staying strict by dates. I never have been.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

I am yep...he gives me everything ive ever dreamed of and more-he's just not good at dates and stuff 😉 as I am...I dont expect from others what I dont strictly offer...
I got diamond earrings this year...for my 30th 🙂 I drive a damn fine sports car, live in a beautiful apartment and holiday where and when I like so I tend not to complain too much for the odd slip up here or there

It's like you need to prove your worth to us after ppl be all like "he did that?!"

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She's a libra. They're shallow and superficial about shit like that. Of course she'll gladly be "happy" when he buys her expensive shit.

No wonder her advice is so fucking stupid half the time....

"WELL HE BUYS ME STUFF!" So fucking what? Yay for you, but so what?

But, in line with the topic, that's apparently her love language, which is why her advice is total shit for the OP. The OP even admitted his love language is not like the (now) ex's and this is what caused a big part of the issues they were having. But the OP is expected to settle because this silly ho can't fathom not holding a dick in her hand in typical Libra fashion (dun dun dun, single means I will surely die!!!).

Sorry, I just have zero respect for someone who encourages someone else to stick around in a shitty situation that's not changing and that makes them unhappy.

i will never understand how ppl can say that one whole sign is bad just couse they met a few ppl of that sign that dont act the way they would want them to...we are all diferent and act acording the situation we are in, or how life has tought us....

every sign has bad and good qualities...

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by starlover
It reminds me of a friend of mine who was so desperate to get a man she told me *anything is better than nothing*

😱

She was a Libra too

That's because some Libra women are pathetic as fuck when it comes to relationships. No dick in their hand means they surely shrivel up and die!!!1one

A former Libra friend of mine settled with her (now) husband. She admitted she was whatever about him, but because of her insecurity and weight issues, she didn't go anywhere. Some of the shit she said about him was so cruel and callus, yet she married him...

This chick in particular started polluting the Libra forum with this stupid drivel of pathetic expectations and tolerating shitty behavior... likely because she does it herself. It's really depressing to see women do that to themselves- settle with bad behavior because their self esteem is so fucking sad that they stay in situations for the sake of being the dreaded "s" word. DUN DUN DUN. THE EARTH WILL FLY INTO THE SUN IF THAT HAPPENS OMGHERD. *cough*

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whenever i hear someone smack talk or talk bad /shit about their SO, i think...huh?? why are you with them? 😕

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Different people show love in different ways. Some guys just dont do the whole gift giving thing, it doesnt mean u are not loved

What?

No, that isn't a good example of 'different ways of showing love.'

To know exactly what it takes to make the person you love happy,

and then NOT doing it, when you're perfectly capable, is just lazy.

No one should settle for that kind of indifference.

It's strange. I've seen this moronic justification around the board on and off when people come here, upset that the S.O. didn't do whatever for whatever occasion. This slew comes in and uses the same stupid fuck logic.

The reality is that if that person knows you, loves you, and cares for you, they'll do what's in YOUR "love language" because they know that's what works for you. I don't care if S.O. is indifferent to holidays/birthdays. That's how they treat THEIR own thing. Doesn't mean they should treat others' occasions the same.

It's one thing if someone's like, "meh, whatever about my own birthday." But when it's "meh, whatever about yours too because I'm not that into them" is just a selfish way of thinking. It's also pathetic when others justify this nonsense. Do we really have that many enabling, doormat bitches around this forum?

It's why I get so freaking irritated in my responses because it's so fucking sad and pathetic to see other human beings here, the same who throw out advice, being passive about crappy behavior toward others.

It IS sad and pathetic... !

But shooting the wounded is something p-angel does, because

she never took the time to heal the rot in her own soul.

I think your anger is fully justified, just misdirected-- like asking

the blind Why don't you just do what everyone else does, and LOOK.

lol

I brought home barbeque last night, and I thought of you when I found

two little ramikens of Ranch at the bottom of the bag.... wtf?

They went in the garbage 😄

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naw it's not that, she doesn't want to see too much stupid. aries energy doesn't like too much of it. at least that's what i get from it, and it's not from other placements, or it's a combination. but basically and mainly can't stand stupid.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Astrobyn
I hear yeah, I knew things were over with my Libra when he brought me home a Philly cheese steak sandwich on Valentines day.

did he think you were a Taurus?

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😆

what happened to FINE DINING?? 😆

This:

@lisabethur8

There's stupid and there's damaged.

Both can be covered but really its all in

the delivery... thats why we have Libras.

Posted by Montgomery
@lisabethur8

There's stupid and there's damaged.

Both can be covered but really its all in

the delivery... thats why we have Libras.

well they do say, water seeks its own level....sooooo...

*shrug*

Posted by hera
i will never understand how ppl can say that one whole sign is bad just couse they met a few ppl of that sign that dont act the way they would want them to...we are all diferent and act acording the situation we are in, or how life has tought us....

every sign has bad and good qualities...

I will never understand why people cannot grasp reading comprehension on this site and miss important context clues going on in the conversations. They're all there to read, yet so many just cannot grasp basic comprehension skills around this site.

It's amazing that so many here know how to even turn on a computer or mobile device...

@rockyroadicecream
I'm sorry if I misunderstood something, english is not my first language..
I just gpt bothered with those comments about Libras, i see that very often.. As I said, every sign has its good and bad

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by LibraLovesHim
My bf told me one year oh its your bday tomo while ur at the mall pick a card and bring it home for me to write lol!

Wow! You still with him?!!!

I am yep...he gives me everything ive ever dreamed of and more-he's just not good at dates and stuff 😉 as I am...I dont expect from others what I dont strictly offer...
I got diamond earrings this year...for my 30th 🙂 I drive a damn fine sports car, live in a beautiful apartment and holiday where and when I like so I tend not to complain too much for the odd slip up here or there

It's like you need to prove your worth to us after ppl be all like "he did that?!"

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I didnt understand you sorry...