I know this is pathetic as fuck, but

How do I keep from suffocating the person I'm dating?

Deep in my heart I know that this is stupid, but I keep being so posessive again and again. Very immature. It ruined and still ruins amazing chances, while I don't want to be like this.
Girls are often very attracted to me, but as soon as this starts they run from me like the plague.. Every time. I just forget about myself.
I want to give freedom, instead of taking it.

Awwww.

🙂

work on yourself OP. Maybe improve on your self-value.

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Maybe you just need to find a lady that is more on the same page as you. Someone who isn't able to be suffocated, someone who just enjoys spending time with you.. We do exist 😄

that doesn't work either although it sounds logical as fuck

It doesn't work? Have you had some experience in this sort of situation?

Do tell.. 🙂

yes you just get suffocated yourself. kind of like a dose of your own medicine i suppose and that could alter your behavior when you see how unattractive a habit it is but it could also do absolutely nothing.

What do you guys mean by suffocating? Like spending all of your time together?

I spent ALL of my time with the Libra, and I never once felt suffocated by him.. And we fought a lot and my feelings were always in the dumps.. yet I still wanted to be in his presence.. So to conclude OP.. I guess you just need to find a crazy fucker like me.. LOL

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The thought of her can be more suffocating than the actual presence.

I guess it works similarly for both genders.

Posted by risesafterall
How do I keep from suffocating the person I'm dating?

Deep in my heart I know that this is stupid, but I keep being so posessive again and again. Very immature. It ruined and still ruins amazing chances, while I don't want to be like this.
Girls are often very attracted to me, but as soon as this starts they run from me like the plague.. Every time. I just forget about myself.
I want to give freedom, instead of taking it.

Can you define suffocating a wee bit more? We talking texting, calling, "where u at?" behavior, or just expecting them to hang with you 24/7 where you are on their ass when they piss? The scope of the question is too vague to give decent feedback

He's looking for someone to keep his spirit high all the time, so he drying her out like a junkie smoking a joint. That's how some pisces men work.
You can't really do anything against this OP, except find a girl that's at least as crazy or mentally restless as you are.

Posted by risesafterall
How do I keep from suffocating the person I'm dating?

Deep in my heart I know that this is stupid, but I keep being so posessive again and again. Very immature. It ruined and still ruins amazing chances, while I don't want to be like this.
Girls are often very attracted to me, but as soon as this starts they run from me like the plague.. Every time. I just forget about myself.
I want to give freedom, instead of taking it.

Find someone more possessive and needy than you are.