She needs to see it

... from anyone other than me. without giving my own perspective, please give ur honest one. girl has fwb with guy is the scene.
- he has been demanding more of her time (being more assertive). seems to want increase of her presence.
- he doesn't play push/pull, hot/cold. always hot and getting hotter.
- sexual intensity and passion keeps increasing.
- he caters to her needs often. i.e. if she spends the night he'll make breakfast in the morning, shower her with affection, drives her to wherever she needs to go, etc.
- has been turning down sex from others to be with her (even if they don't have sex) for the past 2 months.
- hasn't turned down a moment to see her even when it's spontaneous or last minute. he'll have other plans, cut them short, and spend the rest of the day/night with her.
so what do u gather from this?

Why would you even have to ask this question?



If you don't know and have to ask .. then I would tell him to run away quickly because all of this has flown over her head.

Don't you get enough from him?


You need more?


This is the reason for making this thread .. to get even more?





Or, is it that you need convincing? If you need convincing then again he should run, go find a woman who is appreciating it, rather than spending time in dxp attention-whoring over it.

i think she might be thoroughly confused by ur response, p-angel, but it's always enjoyable reading what u have to say. seriously, i'm not trying to come off sounding condescending.

she's not a dxp-er. it's just that we're both going through a similar situation. she's in total denial, and won't listen to anyone she knows, so i thought it'd be a lark to come here to get completely unbiased ppls' take to show her.

attention whore? let's leave that title for me, eh? 😉

In denial?


Is this a joke?




What women would be in denial of love and only accept meaningless fucks?


You are talking about you .. so the title was directed towards you.

I must add .. it is very Gemini of you to shrug off his heart once you obtained it.


When the time comes that he bails on you because he tires of waiting ... then in Gemini fashion, you will suddenly have the epiphany that you loved him and then terribly upset because you now want him.

So, what planet is Gemini?


Venus? Mars?

It is Mercury P-Angel.

One of those "too good to be true" scenarios.

aw, c'mon, p-angel. u should know better than that. i have no problem talking about myself openly on here. if it's about me i'm very up front about it. then again, u thought i was a gem so i shouldn't be assuming u know much about me or have followed/read any of my posts, yeah? many of the old-school crowd here know that this is the place i indulge in my self-absorbed inclinations.

more or less, she's in disbelief. i haven't extracted enough information to get all the details but from what i know they have not had ''the talk'' yet. we've known each other since we were 8 so she usually tells me every little thing in vivid description.

btw, she's a taurus (aries cusp i think) and he's a cancer (leo cusp possibly). i'm a leo or leo/virgo cusp however u wanna look at it.

it's cool. i'm quite familiar with her. she's harsh, and i don't always agree with her, but for some reason i like her. can't put my finger on it... respect maybe?

wanna know something? she was actually the reason i decided to sign up to be a member here. i googled, browsed, came across a heated discussion she was involved in, and i was hooked. no joke!

"u thought i was a gem"



excuse me?


Have you learned to read yet?

The guy wants a girlfriend.

Who ever the girl is thats involved better hurry and make up her mind. If she wants to be single, be honest with the guy. And if she just wants sex, she should tell him that too and give him the option whether or not he wants to stay or move on to something else.