should i follow?

Hi all,

I need advise. I went dancing with this girl one friday night. We were definitely not dating, but in the initial stage of knowing each other. Anyways, she needed to use the washroom but the club's toilet line was too long. So she told me she's stepping out and pee in the back. I asked if she wanted me to come in which ahe replied 'If you want to.' I didn't go cause I didnt know what she meant by it.

Should I have went—

You should have followed her.

Just to be clear, the tone she used was not in anyways seductive or anything like that. Its more like a If you want to, almost like saying It doesnt matter to me.

Posted by janvier10
Hi all,

I need advise. I went dancing with this girl one friday night. We were definitely not dating, but in the initial stage of knowing each other. Anyways, she needed to use the washroom but the club's toilet line was too long. So she told me she's stepping out and pee in the back. I asked if she wanted me to come in which ahe replied 'If you want to.' I didn't go cause I didnt know what she meant by it.

Should I have went—

yes, you definitely should have went

to stand nearby and "protecting" her, if needed... I mean, standing nearby and watching, if somebody is coming

peeing outside for girls is a bit more "vulnerable" then for boys, because she has to drop her pants and generally is more "exposed", know what I mean 🙂

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Posted by janvier10
Hi all,

I need advise. I went dancing with this girl one friday night. We were definitely not dating, but in the initial stage of knowing each other. Anyways, she needed to use the washroom but the club's toilet line was too long. So she told me she's stepping out and pee in the back. I asked if she wanted me to come in which ahe replied 'If you want to.' I didn't go cause I didnt know what she meant by it.

Should I have went—

yes, you definitely should have went

to stand nearby and "protecting" her, if needed... I mean, standing nearby and watching, if somebody is coming

peeing outside for girls is a bit more "vulnerable" then for boys, because she has to drop her pants and generally is more "exposed", know what I mean 🙂

Girlfriends exist for this kind of butter. 🙂

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"Girlfriends exist for this kind of butter. 🙂"

yes, but if there was no other female friends of hers? we dont know

or if it was a well-known area for her, so she knew its safe to pee outside

if there were any other girlfriends, then I would ask them, sure

but if they were already together at the moment, its just kinda more natural to go outside with the OP, than looking for other female friends

on the other hand, it could be a bonding experience (nothing sexual), but establishing something like we are close

Posted by AerialView
You should have followed her.

No doubt 😄