i am not married so don't know first hand, but how would it feel if your spouse or SO was very good friends with someone (or more than one) from their opposite gender who was also single. would it bother you? now friendship is fine, catching up is also, but if they regularly call each other for general talk and talk in front of their partner or even when alone, would it bother you? i rarely pick up the phone and call my married male friends, most who are living far away i have even grown out of touch with, sometimes catch up briefly on social media. others who i meet daily like at work i talk while there but not outside of work. is it just a sign thing? i am an earth sign and have seen fire, air signs being more receptive to this friendship dynamic.
