What Does He Wants?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by toastedjelly on Sunday, July 31, 2016 and has 8 replies.

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@Anjo
10 Years

Wow...I'm so sorry you are going through this. How dare he!!! I know you are hurt, but obvious he's playing mind games. Don't try to reach out to him...Don't try to communicate with him through his friends. Let him hear crickets. Once he realize you are moving on, he might try to reach out to you as he did before..don't accept him. I dont care what he says, thats not love. Take the relationship as a loss..his loss. He's an asshole. You are so much better so don't accept that bs. If you do, it will be neverending. I can't get over the part about his mom and not contacting you for 6 weeks...what the hell? Make sure you block him from everything and don't look back.

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@toastedjelly
10 Years

Posted by Anjo
Wow...I'm so sorry you are going through this. How dare he!!! I know you are hurt, but obvious he's playing mind games. Don't try to reach out to him...Don't try to communicate with him through his friends. Let him hear crickets. Once he realize you are moving on, he might try to reach out to you as he did before..don't accept him. I dont care what he says, thats not love. Take the relationship as a loss..his loss. He's an asshole. You are so much better so don't accept that bs. If you do, it will be neverending. I can't get over the part about his mom and not contacting you for 6 weeks...what the hell? Make sure you block him from everything and don't look back.

thanks.. it really hurts 😢

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@toastedjelly
10 Years

Posted by pinkbird03
What was the argument about that caused you to break up?

a silly conversation that i got upset about, and he got annoyed that i was getting upset constantly.. its so stupid really. i should stop finding answers but i can't help it. i know i need to move on but it is hard.

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by toastedjelly
Posted by pinkbird03
What was the argument about that caused you to break up?

a silly conversation that i got upset about, and he got annoyed that i was getting upset constantly.. its so stupid really. i should stop finding answers but i can't help it. i know i need to move on but it is hard.

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Well, why are you getting so upset lately? Just trying to get to the root of the problem so I can understand you better.

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@Anjo
10 Years

Posted by toastedjelly
Posted by Anjo
Wow...I'm so sorry you are going through this. How dare he!!! I know you are hurt, but obvious he's playing mind games. Don't try to reach out to him...Don't try to communicate with him through his friends. Let him hear crickets. Once he realize you are moving on, he might try to reach out to you as he did before..don't accept him. I dont care what he says, thats not love. Take the relationship as a loss..his loss. He's an asshole. You are so much better so don't accept that bs. If you do, it will be neverending. I can't get over the part about his mom and not contacting you for 6 weeks...what the hell? Make sure you block him from everything and don't look back.

thanks.. it really hurts 😢

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I know. I feel so bad for you..here's a cyber hug ?. Over time it will get better. Please don't dwell on him. Hang out with friends, find something to keep you occupied and from thinking of him. It's easier said than done I know. Please don't accept him back. Over time you will meet someone who will love and cherish you. He's very immature and it seems that he has done all he could do to hurt you.

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@toastedjelly
10 Years

Posted by Anjo
Posted by toastedjelly
Posted by Anjo
Wow...I'm so sorry you are going through this. How dare he!!! I know you are hurt, but obvious he's playing mind games. Don't try to reach out to him...Don't try to communicate with him through his friends. Let him hear crickets. Once he realize you are moving on, he might try to reach out to you as he did before..don't accept him. I dont care what he says, thats not love. Take the relationship as a loss..his loss. He's an asshole. You are so much better so don't accept that bs. If you do, it will be neverending. I can't get over the part about his mom and not contacting you for 6 weeks...what the hell? Make sure you block him from everything and don't look back.

thanks.. it really hurts 😢

I know. I feel so bad for you..here's a cyber hug ?. Over time it will get better. Please don't dwell on him. Hang out with friends, find something to keep you occupied and from thinking of him. It's easier said than done I know. Please don't accept him back. Over time you will meet someone who will love and cherish you. He's very immature and it seems that he has done all he could do to hurt you.

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thanks for your support, really appreciate it.