@LittleMissPerfect
12 Years
What would you think?
Interpreting a Post-Date Text in Astrology
This message suggests genuine interest and positive feelings, indicating he values the connection. It is likely a friendly gesture rather than disinterest. Astrology can reveal how individuals express affection and communication style based on their zodiac signs, helping you understand his intentions better.
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Posted by LittleMissPerfect
If the day after a first date a guy sends you this text?:"It was so lovely to see you at last! I had an amazing time 🙂 I hope you have a safe trip home and chat soon ?"
Background: we live in different countries, we have been talking for months, I went to his city for work and he invited me for dinner and send me that message the day after when I was on my flight back.
My thoughts are that is his polite way to say that I will never see or hear from him again... what are your thoughts dxpners?
What was your reply?
I think it's pretty nice... like @Kilgore said: enthusiasm.
JFC
I think you're here to just brag.
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Post his chart so we can better decide how to interpret his words.
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindnessWe met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Maybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
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I agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindnessWe met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
He didn't respond because you didn't respond until Saturday morning...almost a day later from friday afternoon.
If a guy did that to you...you would thinking, he's uninterested, playing games, full of shit...all these double standards smh
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Oh no, he asked me to text him when I landed which is what I did. He knew I was flying and the minute I landed and saw his message I replied to him. I didn't wait because I was playing games, as a matter of fact I didn't wait at all! I reply at 5 am his time.
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindnessWe met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Maybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
I agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
No problem. You don't have to stop dating to deal with insecurities - you can do them at the same time. I am married and have insecurities. I don't leave my wife to deal with them; I just work on them
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I'm working on them, I have been in therapy the last 7 months. But I honestly don't think anyone would be attracted to the insecure ball of nerves that I'm but running away doesn't seem right either. Hence me venting on the internet ?
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindnessWe met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
He didn't respond because you didn't respond until Saturday morning...almost a day later from friday afternoon.
If a guy did that to you...you would thinking, he's uninterested, playing games, full of shit...all these double standards smh
Oh no, he asked me to text him when I landed which is what I did. He knew I was flying and the minute I landed and saw his message I replied to him. I didn't wait because I was playing games, as a matter of fact I didn't wait at all! I reply at 5 am his time.
Oh ok...maybe since it was 5am his time is why he didn't respond further...i mean he responded to your initial text of you landing
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No, when we parted ways he told me "text me when you land" before I landed when I was in flight he send me the text that he had an amazing time, when I landed and saw his message I reply that I had an amazing time too after that nothing.
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindnessWe met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Maybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
I agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
No problem. You don't have to stop dating to deal with insecurities - you can do them at the same time. I am married and have insecurities. I don't leave my wife to deal with them; I just work on them
I'm working on them, I have been in therapy the last 7 months. But I honestly don't think anyone would be attracted to the insecure ball of nerves that I'm but running away doesn't seem right either. Hence me venting on the internet ?
You just do your best like everyone else does. Obviously I don't know you. But isolating yourself isn't necessarily the answer.
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I'm trying, really. Thank you, you really made me feel better ?
Posted by Foreverloveme
Oh ok I understand now. Give it a couple days & go from there
That's the plan, but being and insecure ball of nerves is definitely not helping.
Thank you for your help too ?
Some of these comments are petty and unnecessary -.- Anyway I agree with Kilgore-- I can't say that the message is a sign of his feelings bursting at the seems, but it is definitely enthusiastic. There is potential there. But try to relax and avoid overthinking things in these early stages 🙂
Posted by WallFlower422
Some of these comments are petty and unnecessary
Just like her reaction to a non issue text message.
She's her own enemy.
She's her own enemy.
I actually agree with that
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"
Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
That was kind of rude 😢 How do you know he didn't actually leave his phone at work? It happens to me more often that I'd like to admit :/
Aw I feel really bad for the guy!
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
Maybe that was an overreaction? But that is as an outsider. If you were getting stressed about it, maybe best to leave it, especially bc he lives far away
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Exactly.
And he is and will be okay guys. He doesn't have to deal with crazy me anymore. It was for the best.
What's your mars OP
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
What's your mars OP
Pisces... Hate it, always back and forth
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If the day after a first date a guy sends you this text?:
"It was so lovely to see you at last! I had an amazing time 🙂 I hope you have a safe trip home and chat soon ?"
Background: we live in different countries, we have been talking for months, I went to his city for work and he invited me for dinner and send me that message the day after when I was on my flight back.
My thoughts are that is his polite way to say that I will never see or hear from him again... what are your thoughts dxpners?