tell me what do you think

What's up everybody i just got out a commented relationship on Feb 28. I really loved this boy to man i really did. and guess why we broke up. One day i was sitting on the couch and i heard my phone my going off he sent me a text message saying i'm sorry baby but i want to go with your sister and get this me and my sister are twins man i was so damn hurt on the inside you all don't understand. Because i thought me and him were going to be together for a long time. I never nagged this boy. i stayed smelling good looking fresh. rocking all the lastet gear. i kept my hair and nails did. so i just could not understand what did i do. so can somebody plz tell me what are your thoughts no negative. I Kinda think my sister and him had a lil thang for eachother

Well one, the first problem is this...We have learned that in today's society a woman can be perfect in a man's eyes and still get her heart broken. Don't try to blame this all on YOU. Alot of women attempt to look sexy, & keep themselves up physically but that alone does not KEEP a man. It may ATTRACT him, but KEEPING him requires more than just physical beauty. The Proof of this? Hell, even Halle Berry got cheated on & according to Forbes she is named in the top 10 as most beautiful women in the world!!! You're right, more than likely he was having some type of relationship (mental or sexual) with your twin sister, but honey, some men will hurt you regardless of how much you put out. Women sometimes think that if they do everything right, they are safe from being hurt. That's not true. What you need to do is let him go, trust me, just let him go. I know it's hard, & it's easier said than done & all that BS, but you shouldn't ever hold on to something that wouldn't hold onto you if their life depended on it. I don't know what kind of relationship you & your sister have but let the truth be told, anytime someone hurts you (especially when they get scandalous enough to leave you for YOUR own family membeR) they are doing you a favor! Let him have your sister if he wants her. If you've already given him 100% & he's determined that it wasn't good enough for him then it never will be good enough for him. You can't FORCE a man to be mature & do right by you. All you can do is do your part (which DOES in part way involve keeping your appearance up to par) & if doing your part still gets you hurt, then you've already got the answer to your own question

And you can also look at it like this....So he says he wants your sister, but do you HONESTLY believe that a man scandalous enough to hurt you would be loyal to everyone else in their world? NO! Let your sister have him & the best revenge you can get for the both of them is to sit & watch him do her the same way he did you.

"i stayed smelling good looking fresh. rocking all the lastet gear. i kept my hair and nails did. so i just could not understand what did i do."


What you did was .. try to secure him with the outside of you and not the person you are inside .. for your description above is mentioning how you appear on the outside, and no mention of any kind of emotional bonding regarding deep feelings.

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