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This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Blackvirgo on Wednesday, September 17, 2014 and has 4 replies.

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

I can't angry for and with other women who get cheated and played by men who really have no good intentions.. I've met really nice giving women who continues to get hurt.

Although the thought of a relationship sounds good I doubt I'll ever be in one ..way to much mess ....

My rant is over.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Those women need to learn to finely tune their bullsh*t meters.

If it's too good to be true, it probably is.
If he says he doesn't want a relationship, he doesn't.
If he isn't all in, he's all out.
If his actions don't match the words, the words mean he's full of sh*t.
If he has more than one story/version for the same incidence, he's a liar.
If he he has no follow through, he's out.

I just don't understand how hard it is to set up boundaries against bullsh*t.

*shrugs*

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Blackvirgo
I can't angry for and with other women who get cheated and played by men who really have no good intentions.. I've met really nice giving women who continues to get hurt.

Although the thought of a relationship sounds good I doubt I'll ever be in one ..way to much mess ....

My rant is over.

I too feel for women and men who get cheated on, used, played etc.. It's unfortunate, but it happens. What really pisses me off is those same women and men who get played choose to stay or continue to go after those who have hurt them. I don't get that at all.

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Blackvirgo
I can't angry for and with other women who get cheated and played by men who really have no good intentions.. I've met really nice giving women who continues to get hurt.

Although the thought of a relationship sounds good I doubt I'll ever be in one ..way to much mess ....

My rant is over.

I too feel for women and men who get cheated on, used, played etc.. It's unfortunate, but it happens. What really pisses me off is those same women and men who get played choose to stay or continue to go after those who have hurt them. I don't get that at all.

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Yeah I don't get stalkers either