LittleMissPerfect
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What would you think?
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Posted by LittleMissPerfectWhat was your reply?
If the day after a first date a guy sends you this text?:
"It was so lovely to see you at last! I had an amazing time 🙂 I hope you have a safe trip home and chat soon ?"
Background: we live in different countries, we have been talking for months, I went to his city for work and he invited me for dinner and send me that message the day after when I was on my flight back.
My thoughts are that is his polite way to say that I will never see or hear from him again... what are your thoughts dxpners?
I think it's pretty nice... like @Kilgore said: enthusiasm.
JFC
I think you're here to just brag.
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Post his chart so we can better decide how to interpret his words.
Posted by KilgoreI agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.Posted by LittleMissPerfectMaybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.click to expand
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
Posted by ForeverlovemeOh no, he asked me to text him when I landed which is what I did. He knew I was flying and the minute I landed and saw his message I replied to him. I didn't wait because I was playing games, as a matter of fact I didn't wait at all! I reply at 5 am his time.Posted by LittleMissPerfectHe didn't respond because you didn't respond until Saturday morning...almost a day later from friday afternoon.
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
If a guy did that to you...you would thinking, he's uninterested, playing games, full of shit...all these double standards smhclick to expand
Posted by KilgoreI'm working on them, I have been in therapy the last 7 months. But I honestly don't think anyone would be attracted to the insecure ball of nerves that I'm but running away doesn't seem right either. Hence me venting on the internet ?Posted by LittleMissPerfectNo problem. You don't have to stop dating to deal with insecurities - you can do them at the same time. I am married and have insecurities. I don't leave my wife to deal with them; I just work on themPosted by KilgoreI agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.Posted by LittleMissPerfectMaybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
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Posted by ForeverlovemeNo, when we parted ways he told me "text me when you land" before I landed when I was in flight he send me the text that he had an amazing time, when I landed and saw his message I reply that I had an amazing time too after that nothing.Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by ForeverlovemeOh no, he asked me to text him when I landed which is what I did. He knew I was flying and the minute I landed and saw his message I replied to him. I didn't wait because I was playing games, as a matter of fact I didn't wait at all! I reply at 5 am his time.Posted by LittleMissPerfectHe didn't respond because you didn't respond until Saturday morning...almost a day later from friday afternoon.
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
If a guy did that to you...you would thinking, he's uninterested, playing games, full of shit...all these double standards smh
Oh ok...maybe since it was 5am his time is why he didn't respond further...i mean he responded to your initial text of you landing
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Posted by KilgoreI'm trying, really. Thank you, you really made me feel better ?Posted by LittleMissPerfectYou just do your best like everyone else does. Obviously I don't know you. But isolating yourself isn't necessarily the answer.Posted by KilgoreI'm working on them, I have been in therapy the last 7 months. But I honestly don't think anyone would be attracted to the insecure ball of nerves that I'm but running away doesn't seem right either. Hence me venting on the internet ?Posted by LittleMissPerfectNo problem. You don't have to stop dating to deal with insecurities - you can do them at the same time. I am married and have insecurities. I don't leave my wife to deal with them; I just work on themPosted by KilgoreI agree with dating being confusing and stressful, I really should stop dating until I work on my insecurities. After this one I will take some time off.Posted by LittleMissPerfectMaybe he just didn't want to respond right away - same as you. I wouldn't worry too much. I always found dating confusing and stressful
Thank you kilgore, I appreciate your kindness
We met Thursday night, he sent me that on Friday afternoon and I reply on Saturday early morning "thank you for an amazing time 🙂 hope to chat soon ?" he read it but didn't said anything afterwards.
Yes I'm insecure and overthink things, that's not news, that's why I asked what other people thought. My question was what to think of him not what you think of me.
Anyway: thank you again, for your kindness and understanding ?
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Posted by ForeverlovemeThat's the plan, but being and insecure ball of nerves is definitely not helping.
Oh ok I understand now. Give it a couple days & go from there
Thank you for your help too ?
Some of these comments are petty and unnecessary -.- Anyway I agree with Kilgore-- I can't say that the message is a sign of his feelings bursting at the seems, but it is definitely enthusiastic. There is potential there. But try to relax and avoid overthinking things in these early stages 🙂
Posted by WallFlower422Just like her reaction to a non issue text message.
Some of these comments are petty and unnecessary
She's her own enemy.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI actually agree with that
She's her own enemy.
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"
Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"
Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!
That was kind of rude 😢 How do you know he didn't actually leave his phone at work? It happens to me more often that I'd like to admit :/
Aw I feel really bad for the guy!
Posted by KilgoreExactly.Posted by LittleMissPerfectMaybe that was an overreaction? But that is as an outsider. If you were getting stressed about it, maybe best to leave it, especially bc he lives far away
Update: I couldn't help myself and texted him, he was all "oh I left my phone at work, how are you?" I didn't bought that and said "whatever bye"
Like I said I think I need alone time to work on me, but thanks to all the nice comments!click to expand
And he is and will be okay guys. He doesn't have to deal with crazy me anymore. It was for the best.
What's your mars OP
Posted by HarleyTwinFlamePisces... Hate it, always back and forth
What's your mars OP
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"It was so lovely to see you at last! I had an amazing time 🙂 I hope you have a safe trip home and chat soon ?"
Background: we live in different countries, we have been talking for months, I went to his city for work and he invited me for dinner and send me that message the day after when I was on my flight back.
My thoughts are that is his polite way to say that I will never see or hear from him again... what are your thoughts dxpners?