@808sandmilkshakes
13 Years
When expressing your feelings for someone
I generally don't. Capricorn to a fault. ::shrug:: I play things so cool, men generally don't have a clue where they stand unless they understand how I act towards them versus others.
The few times I did talk about it, I put it in writing so there was no misunderstanding. Can't say I would go about it the exact same way now, I would probably try to do more face to face interaction if I could, but I actually think my emotions are clearer to understand in text rather than verbal.
Posted by 808sandmilkshakes
How do you usually go about it ?I've had my friend laugh while confessing he had feelings for me while we were on the phone so I didn't take him seriously the whole I have feelings for you, I wanna marry you, have kids one day with you, etc. but he was laughing in between so I didn't take him seriously.
Is it weird that now I'm ready to tell him how I feel? But not laugh in the process & do it face to face
How long has it been since his declaration?
Like most people I used to tell them straight away without even knowing if they'd like me back..
Now when someone clearly wants me to be theirs I give a slight hint of serious interest, I'll act like I'm not sure and leave them wondering as long as possible. When it's been long enough and I'm completely sure I'll tell them 😛
Posted by 808sandmilkshakes
How do you usually go about it ?I've had my friend laugh while confessing he had feelings for me while we were on the phone so I didn't take him seriously the whole I have feelings for you, I wanna marry you, have kids one day with you, etc. but he was laughing in between so I didn't take him seriously.
Is it weird that now I'm ready to tell him how I feel? But not laugh in the process & do it face to face
How long has it been since his declaration?
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it's been about 2 weeks...
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How do you usually go about it ?
I've had my friend laugh while confessing he had feelings for me while we were on the phone so I didn't take him seriously the whole I have feelings for you, I wanna marry you, have kids one day with you, etc. but he was laughing in between so I didn't take him seriously.
Is it weird that now I'm ready to tell him how I feel? But not laugh in the process & do it face to face