I love him he loves me not

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by ladylibra21 on Sunday, August 9, 2015 and has 18 replies.

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@ladylibra21
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If someone were to end things with you and you never got to tell them you loved them would you tell them anyways to get it out of your system or would you hold on to it forever. It's not like I think it's going to change anything but I just wonder if it would ruin a future friendship or delay when that friendship starts.

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No. Do not contact him while your judgement is clouded by pain and frustration. You'll make a fool of yourself. It's not going to make you feel better, and his most likely response will add to your misery.

Besides, he doesn't need ego strokes from you. He's got someone else. He moved on. Leave it alone.

Mark a date on your calendar, two months from now. This will be the day when your pain will come to an end. Every day you will be closer to it.

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Posted by Undine
No. Do not contact him while your judgement is clouded by pain and frustration. You'll make a fool of yourself. It's not going to make you feel better, and his most likely response will add to your misery.

Besides, he doesn't need ego strokes from you. He's got someone else. He moved on. Leave it alone.

Mark a date on your calendar, two months from now. This will be the day when your pain will come to an end. Every day you will be closer to it.

Thanks I needed to hear that and thank you for giving an actually answer

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Posted by scorpiothebadass
Please get a life

Looks like you're the one who needs to get a life since you're the one clicking on thread topics you already know you dgaf about just to waste time making pointless comments

This is my job to make stupid people smart

If you actually believe that you REALLY need to get a life..

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Why should i get a life when i already have so many

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Posted by ladylibra21
If someone were to end things with you and you never got to tell them you loved them would you tell them anyways to get it out of your system or would you hold on to it forever. It's not like I think it's going to change anything but I just wonder if it would ruin a future friendship or delay when that friendship starts.

I would def tell him regardless if it will ruin a future friendship or not. It's important for him to know.

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no i wouldnt tell them anything. why would i put myself in a position of weakness? they are going to leave, so it's obvious the feeling is not mutual.

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@Fleshpot
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It's pointless to contact an ex (much less, confess your love) unless you're absolutely sure you want to get back together and you think s/he might feel the same way. If you can't see the two of you getting back together and hope to move on with your life, it's best to keep these feelings to yourself.