Why does 34 year old wife flirt with older neighbo

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Mark715 on Saturday, July 25, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@Mark715
11 Years

For a couple of months now I have been watching my 34 year old wife and my 67 year old neighbor flirting with each other! I think it's weird that she would even want too. Any advice maw3622715@yahoo.com

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Posted by Mark715
For a couple of months now I have been watching my 34 year old wife and my 67 year old neighbor flirting with each other! I think it's weird that she would even want too. Any advice maw3622715@yahoo.com

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lol and you just sit there watching??

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you are a voyeur!!

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@Mark715
11 Years

Posted by seraph
No, I won't e-mail you. Any advice you get can be given right here.

Sketchy.

But anyway, to address the issue generally... old men (as in, elderly) tend flirt mindlessly (and *sometimes - though really, really not often*) endearingly with younger women. They're having fun, sometimes verging on creepy but harmless.

If by your estimation she's spending an inordinate amount of time in his presence, then she's getting a *payoff* from it. She's getting the kind of (I assume just verbal) attention from him that she's not getting from you. And she enjoys the flattery. So that's one really distinct possibility.

Or she's got a grandpa fetish. The upside being that relationships arising from that don't last very long.

Thank you for sharing that with me, I put my email in because I didn't know how the site worked and I'm still figuring it out
Mark