Posted by FeistyAquarian
Maybe the best thing I have done with my relationship was be honest from the get-go. I put him through some tough times in the beginning and vice-versa! Who says the honeymoon phase needs to end anyway?? Sometimes, it just needs a vacation too!
Posted by Ferghus Clydelover
Frequency... when me and Cancer gal started out, we did it three times a day on average... but after a year or so together... once each lovemaking session was all I could muster... tho she still had 5-7 orgasms per.
When I fooled around on her in 1997, I was able to do it three times a day again with that gal... tho we only met once or twice a month. That ended in 1998.
Now I'm with this new Taurus gal, I'm amazed that again... I not only want to, but my body responds... that I can easily do it once a day, and would like to do it twice or more, but have to go easy on her since it's been a LONG time ... (two years) for her... but wow... where does all this stamina come from???
Ok... about now, the original poster is saying... "all you can talk about is sex??? I meant the relationship as a whole!!!". Ok, here's why I'm focusing so much on sex... it's because once I feel comfortable with a woman, it's all good... I know pretty much from the start what her faults are... what mine are... if she snores, farts, is a poor house keeper etc.... but tho I may seem to be very sex driven... if I have accepted her from the start... those annoying things are not what ends the honeymoon for me. If I like her, I'll continue to like her... maybe forever. I still like my Cancer ex... she's a nice lady -shrug-. What ends the honeymoon for me, is when I start to lose sexual interest... and I wish I didn't.. couldn't... never .... I wish there was some way to keep it always fresh. But I think it has something to do with evolution. Our bodies rule us... we try to force our minds to rule, and are sometimes successful... but other times, our bodies win. Our base nature, our bodies do what they have to do to spread our genes around and propagate the species. Our minds battling our bodies is the source of most of our inter-relationship problems as humans...
Posted by buttercupSG
i'm gonna talk about love - L.O.V.E. k? lol
there is always this pain mixing with happiness when i think of him. it can be a real pain sometimes it's like something i cannot touch or scratch away it's always there every waking sec. it's driving me nuts at times especially when i need to concentrate to get things done. it does not make sense. it does not matther whether i just saw him him or how often i see him even when my independent nature tell me clearly that i need alone time when we spend too much time together as soon as he walks out of the door i feel the damn pain again.
i'd be concerned if this pain lasts. the weird thing is i miss him more and more each day. a P.A.I.N.