Being Called Annoying

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Echo on Monday, February 19, 2018 and has 21 replies.

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@Echo
8 Years1,000+ Posts

If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

I'm curious how every zodiac acts upon this situation

When it's on the phone: I don't answer the text or phone calls I just do whatever I have to finish or take a nap.

If it's in person: I stay quiet, don't talk to them and mind my own business while doing my own thing.

Cause in my head I think, "Alright, if I'm that annoying, then deal with my silence"

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Echo
If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

I'm curious how every zodiac acts upon this situation

When it's on the phone: I don't answer the text or phone calls I just do whatever I have to finish or take a nap.

If it's in person: I stay quiet, don't talk to them and mind my own business while doing my own thing.

Cause in my head I think, "Alright, if I'm that annoying, then deal with my silence"

Pay close attention to the tone,does he say it when you banter ie. playfully shittalk or is he serious? Is it part of playful friction, the kind of friction you have between opposite people or does he mean it?

Because if he means it, I would ask for honest feedback, maybe you do something that pisses him off.

If its not, I would just playfully keep on annoying him.

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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by Echo
If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

I'm curious how every zodiac acts upon this situation

When it's on the phone: I don't answer the text or phone calls I just do whatever I have to finish or take a nap.

If it's in person: I stay quiet, don't talk to them and mind my own business while doing my own thing.

Cause in my head I think, "Alright, if I'm that annoying, then deal with my silence"

Pay close attention to the tone,does he say it when you banter ie. playfully shittalk or is he serious? Is it part of playful friction, the kind of friction you have between opposite people or does he mean it?

Because if he means it, I would ask for honest feedback, maybe you do something that pisses him off.

If its not, I would just playfully keep on annoying him.

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😯😯 I'm not sure about the tone, when they're annoyed or piss off they sound the same to me

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by Echo

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by Echo
If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

I'm curious how every zodiac acts upon this situation

When it's on the phone: I don't answer the text or phone calls I just do whatever I have to finish or take a nap.

If it's in person: I stay quiet, don't talk to them and mind my own business while doing my own thing.

Cause in my head I think, "Alright, if I'm that annoying, then deal with my silence"

Pay close attention to the tone,does he say it when you banter ie. playfully shittalk or is he serious? Is it part of playful friction, the kind of friction you have between opposite people or does he mean it?

Because if he means it, I would ask for honest feedback, maybe you do something that pisses him off.

If its not, I would just playfully keep on annoying him.

😯😯 I'm not sure about the tone, when they're annoyed or piss off they sound the same to me

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then provoke him and see if he jokes back or blows up

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@Echo
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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by Echo

Posted by Parkourler

Posted by Echo
If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

I'm curious how every zodiac acts upon this situation

When it's on the phone: I don't answer the text or phone calls I just do whatever I have to finish or take a nap.

If it's in person: I stay quiet, don't talk to them and mind my own business while doing my own thing.

Cause in my head I think, "Alright, if I'm that annoying, then deal with my silence"

Pay close attention to the tone,does he say it when you banter ie. playfully shittalk or is he serious? Is it part of playful friction, the kind of friction you have between opposite people or does he mean it?

Because if he means it, I would ask for honest feedback, maybe you do something that pisses him off.

If its not, I would just playfully keep on annoying him.

😯😯 I'm not sure about the tone, when they're annoyed or piss off they sound the same to me

then provoke him and see if he jokes back or blows up

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😂😂😂😂 oh crap, I have to test this out?!

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@Echo
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Posted by Cheesecake

Posted by Cheesecake
"Alright."

Not really going to debate their irrelevant opinion.

I remember I went to some packed party only knowing the host, and there was this hot chick with a mob of men surrounding her, just mesmerized by her..

And she was going on and on about how "the friend zone" is b.s. made by men to try to guilt trick a woman into a relationship. She wasn't saying anything wrong and said it very well.

I tried to respond with something and she came back with some more awesomeness, and then I pathetically gave up and wanted to say something that projects my frustration and disappointment that she was right, without being vulgar or rude

So I said " I don't like you Ms. XYZ".

She looked me dead in the eyes and said, "Alright". She didn't walk away or anything after that.

I died a little inside.

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😯😯 awww

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

I say I am a women and I am reserving my rights to be annoying.

But when I know I am feeling like I want to BE annoying I just ask ‘may I be annoying and ask stupid question?..’ this usually ends with laughter. Like...go ahead...and deep sigh...like ‘here she goes...’

Lmao

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Posted by Echo
If your love one calls you annoying all the time, what do you do?

Simply say "Okay" and continue whatever I was doing.

The only reason someone feels the need to say something like that is because they expect you to do something to make them feel better about the current emotional state they are in. It's completely within that person's power to stop being annoyed (e.g. stop interacting with me).

It's not my job to make someone feel comfortable with who I am.

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@aquarius09
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I’ve never been called annoying and I don’t know why anyone would call me annoying because I know the art of shutting up at the right time and I’m not one to rant on and on like some people.

The more you jabber, the more your chances of being called annoying.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by nano

Posted by brianafay
Omg I live to annoy him

It’s gratifying to hear my work has paid off

Super weirded out and confused by 99% of this thread being upset and offended by this

Whenever I reach my goal of being called annoying for the day, I back off and pick it up again tomorrow where I will find a new and improved way to be a bigger nuisance

We are with Scorpio moons though. They are constantly moody and annoyed 24/7, so they make our jobs easy.

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It’s too easy really 😂

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@coldwateryvirgo
9 Years500+ PostsVirgo

I was called petty by my bf

I said I wasn’t aware I was being petty so in that case you should be with someone who isn’t petty like me if it is bothering you . I can’t change being petty if I don’t think I was being petty to begin with . In that case the problem is me then you should decide if you like that or not about it .

My cancer bf: you’re actually not petty , it’s just annoying when you always assume stuff

Assume stuff, now that is something I do . So I can work on that .

Sometimes annoying is a world people use to describe something else that’s bothering them. . If you’re personality is actually annoying then I would just say this is me, if you don’t like that about me then what are you doing here?

But if you know you did behave that way and see where he’s coming from, try fixing your behavior