why are he avoiding me ?

We met this year January.We was the only two in the class that time.We did not talk to each other.Later on,I saw him in History class which have a lot of people.He hi to me so i hi.Then later on we keep hi,bye.I fall in love then.He was very friendly,nice and polite.I ask him for his fb in the add maths class.Then i gave him my phone so he could add.But the search doesnt have his name.so i gave him mine and he did not add me.Later on,we are still okay untill this week.he's like avoiding me.we saw each other at th train station and he did not hi me and i rush into him.btu nth happen.Then yesterday science class,he sit in front me,i didnt know and he didnt know that i was behind him too.when he turn around,he saw me and quickly turned back.i wave my hand but he did not see it.there's few time he's trying to avoid me,like he's planning to change his schedule and more.i'm sure i did not annoy him as we dont always talk.so why ?i didnt give him any obvious hints too.can anyone explain why and whats my nxt step ?thanks
we only see each other on wed-fri.
,there's once in account class.He was sitting behind wif one of his friend.i was sitting infront then his friend ask him if he want to infront to sit for few times.
Oh,in my country we're not so ope to ask hp number.And we not are too close.we know not many things from each other

I'm not sure what they was saying about me but it's not a good nor bad things.His friend was saying i was looking at him that day.Then he say says we know each other by hi + bye.I'm not too sure because I happened to hear abit
What should i do now ?does he noes i like him?

Kid —

You do not love him.... you barely know him. It is possible he is shy, but it is also possible he does not want to talk with you since you say he is avoiding you. Smile politely when you see him. If he doesnt respond, forget about him.
I didn't really understand everything else you were saying, sorry.

I don't think he likes you in the same way. Sorry.
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Posted by LittleRainbow

He hi to me so i hi.

I fall in love then.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by LittleRainbow

He hi to me so i hi.

I fall in love then.

Lmao!

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Reading this thread made me feel old. Ancient even...but happy to be that way

She lost me at "class"

Idk why he are avoiding you

LOL @ this thread. OP, what country are you from? Just curious.

Posted by TURNDOWNFORWHAT
Idk why he are avoiding you

hey now. English is obviously not her first language.

He's not that into you.

If he was, he would've made a move. Being shy is completely different than not being truly interested in someone.

Shy people may not come off as strong, but they'll def. do enough to showcase their interest. And if they don't, the problem wasn't that they were shy, but instead that they weren't that interested.

Did you all forget what middle school was like? This is clearly going to be THE love of her life. If she likes... no, loves him vas she claims, she should be chasing him around the playground during recess. When she catches him she should alternate between punching his arm, pushing him to the ground, and kissing him. Just chase, catch, and give alternating response.

Once again, yet another situation where a person irrationally chases someone who clearly doesn't want to be caught.

It's a dead end street when a person uses another person's resistance as more fuel to keep chasing. It seems fun, like a challenge & like the ultimate thrill during the chase, but once you realize that all this time later, they're STILL running from you, then reality sets in & the feelings of rejection & time wasted start to seep in.

A little bit of effort & chase is ok b/c both are required for interest to be expressed. However, when the pattern of 1 person always doing the work starts from the very beginning, that's an indication that it'll always be that way. And in that case, just let it go & make the logically AND emotionally safe decision to move on...I mean there are billions of us on earth. Surely, it'd do the self-esteem some good to remember that what one won't like, another will love.

Butttttt people are hard-headed. And b/c they're hard-headed they'll continue to use counterproductive tactics to chase someone that doesn't want to be caught.

Only in middle school does "treating you like sh***t" translate to "I really like you." In the real world...in the adult world, "Not making the effort & not showing enough interest" translates to "I'm not that interested."

And if "I'm not interested" is written all over their forehead, that's NOT code for keep trying. That's code for goodbye.