LittleMissPerfect
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WHY this keep happening to me?
Posted by tiziani
How do you find out they're in a relationship?
When he reached up and put a hand on her cheek to kiss her, his wedding ring scratched her face. 😱
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
Posted by tiziani
"Methods" of finding out their relationship status, that is...
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.click to expand
So much for "methods of finding out", lol.
I think it must be your work environment.
Do you have any hobbies? Maybe try to meeting people with similar hobbies and interests as you?
Do you have any hobbies? Maybe try to meeting people with similar hobbies and interests as you?
*try meeting
😡
😡
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
...but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Damn it.
Way to crush that fantasy 😢
Posted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by tiziani
"Methods" of finding out their relationship status, that is...
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
So much for "methods of finding out", lol.click to expand
if you read properly I didn't get involved with the guy, my "methods" work just fine.
But I do appreciate your advise about meeting people through hobbies and not my work enviroment, I guess is time to join a couple of clubs, thanks!
Posted by LibraSidPosted by LittleMissPerfect
...but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Damn it.
Way to crush that fantasy 😢click to expand
well you guys have crushed the "prince charming" fantasy for decades.... we are even
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by LibraSidPosted by LittleMissPerfect
...but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Damn it.
Way to crush that fantasy 😢
well you guys have crushed the "prince charming" fantasy for decades.... we are evenclick to expand
Haha fair enough.
However, show me a princess and you'll get prince charming. 😛
Posted by tiziani
Lol it's a serious question though. Because you mentioned you take it slow, and maybe you have "methods" in which case you're walking into relationships with zero trust. People who don't trust always attract untrustworthy types. Funny how life works.
in the past my friends have called me naive because I find this situations shocking instead of normal... if I had trust issues it would be the other way round... right?
I just look around fb which is public space and get to know them BEFORE removing my panties
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by tiziani
"Methods" of finding out their relationship status, that is...
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
So much for "methods of finding out", lol.
if you read properly I didn't get involved with the guy, my "methods" work just fine.
But I do appreciate your advise about meeting people through hobbies and not my work enviroment, I guess is time to join a couple of clubs, thanks!click to expand
I read it properly and you're misunderstanding. My joke was pointing at your misfortune (which I'm genuinely sorry about), not at your "methods" because after reading your post it was clear to me that there were really no such "methods of finding out" like Tiziani suggested.
I thought it was funny and decided to post it, but I really didn't want to come of as a jerk.
My bad.
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I meet a man, he starts flirting and asks me out. I ask if he is single, he says yes. I flirt back but take things slow. thanks that I took things slow I find out they are indeed married/in a relationship. WTF?! and this happend more than once. is more than obvious to say that once I found out I stopped talking to them.
I don't start flirting, I don't dress in revealing clothes and most of the time keep to myself. there are a lot of women in my city who would be more than ok to date a guy in a relationship but certainly not me, there is a reason why I asked in the first place!
You aren't the only one. It happens. Some are at least honest & tell you upfront that they are in a relationship. It makes me wanna slap them in the face for even daring, but I have respect for honesty so I just tell them no. I can't stand the spineless ones that lie & trick you into a relationship. Like how mentally ill can you get?
I met a guy, but quickly found out he lived with someone. I broke it off. Soon after that I met another one. What makes me sooo angry about the 2nd one is that I asked him the very 1st day we met if he was in a relationship or married & he said "NOPE". I even told him about my legal issues with the one before him & he still didn't come clean. Liar #1 was a little coo-coo so I needed the law to make him reason. He acted sympathetic, reason I don't think I'll ever stop having some degree of anger towards him, #2. Plus it went on for quite some time & my feelings were involved. Hard lesson.
Maybe dating should involve private investigators & background checks with all these two-timing rats trying to score extra arse on the side.
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by tiziani
Lol it's a serious question though. Because you mentioned you take it slow, and maybe you have "methods" in which case you're walking into relationships with zero trust. People who don't trust always attract untrustworthy types. Funny how life works.
in the past my friends have called me naive because I find this situations shocking instead of normal... if I had trust issues it would be the other way round... right?
I just look around fb which is public space and get to know them BEFORE removing my pantiesclick to expand
Maybe that's it. Maybe you LOOK naive and trusting, so they think they can do one over on ya.
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by tiziani
Lol it's a serious question though. Because you mentioned you take it slow, and maybe you have "methods" in which case you're walking into relationships with zero trust. People who don't trust always attract untrustworthy types. Funny how life works.
in the past my friends have called me naive because I find this situations shocking instead of normal... if I had trust issues it would be the other way round... right?
I just look around fb which is public space and get to know them BEFORE removing my pantiesclick to expand
It always shocks me how common it seems. I actually had someone tell me before that it is the secret to all those long marriages. They've cheated and forgiven. That offends me on a deep level lol.
When I was first divorcing I went out to this bar in San Antonio. I'm always friendly and flirty, add alcohol and it can be funny. I joked about the ring earlier because I had a woman hitting on me still wearing hers. I pointed the ring out and reminded her she was married. She laughed it off, said it was okay. Then she moved in for a kiss. I dodged, and told her go home to her husband.
Some people have no shame.
Posted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by BlueSandCacoonPosted by tiziani
"Methods" of finding out their relationship status, that is...
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
So much for "methods of finding out", lol.
if you read properly I didn't get involved with the guy, my "methods" work just fine.
But I do appreciate your advise about meeting people through hobbies and not my work enviroment, I guess is time to join a couple of clubs, thanks!
I read it properly and you're misunderstanding. My joke was pointing at your misfortune (which I'm genuinely sorry about), not at your "methods" because after reading your post it was clear to me that there were really no such "methods of finding out" like Tiziani suggested.
I thought it was funny and decided to post it, but I really didn't want to come of as a jerk.
My bad.click to expand
thank you for the clarification 🙂
Posted by WaterCupPosted by LittleMissPerfect
I meet a man, he starts flirting and asks me out. I ask if he is single, he says yes. I flirt back but take things slow. thanks that I took things slow I find out they are indeed married/in a relationship. WTF?! and this happend more than once. is more than obvious to say that once I found out I stopped talking to them.
I don't start flirting, I don't dress in revealing clothes and most of the time keep to myself. there are a lot of women in my city who would be more than ok to date a guy in a relationship but certainly not me, there is a reason why I asked in the first place!
You aren't the only one. It happens. Some are at least honest & tell you upfront that they are in a relationship. It makes me wanna slap them in the face for even daring, but I have respect for honesty so I just tell them no. I can't stand the spineless ones that lie & trick you into a relationship. Like how mentally ill can you get?
I met a guy, but quickly found out he lived with someone. I broke it off. Soon after that I met another one. What makes me sooo angry about the 2nd one is that I asked him the very 1st day we met if he was in a relationship or married & he said "NOPE". I even told him about my legal issues with the one before him & he still didn't come clean. Liar #1 was a little coo-coo so I needed the law to make him reason. He acted sympathetic, reason I don't think I'll ever stop having some degree of anger towards him, #2. Plus it went on for quite some time & my feelings were involved. Hard lesson.click to expand
+100, I'm sorry it happened to you too 😢
Posted by truecapPosted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by tiziani
Lol it's a serious question though. Because you mentioned you take it slow, and maybe you have "methods" in which case you're walking into relationships with zero trust. People who don't trust always attract untrustworthy types. Funny how life works.
in the past my friends have called me naive because I find this situations shocking instead of normal... if I had trust issues it would be the other way round... right?
I just look around fb which is public space and get to know them BEFORE removing my panties
Maybe that's it. Maybe you LOOK naive and trusting, so they think they can do one over on ya.
click to expand
As soon as I posted that I thought the same as you
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by WaterCupPosted by LittleMissPerfect
I meet a man, he starts flirting and asks me out. I ask if he is single, he says yes. I flirt back but take things slow. thanks that I took things slow I find out they are indeed married/in a relationship. WTF?! and this happend more than once. is more than obvious to say that once I found out I stopped talking to them.
I don't start flirting, I don't dress in revealing clothes and most of the time keep to myself. there are a lot of women in my city who would be more than ok to date a guy in a relationship but certainly not me, there is a reason why I asked in the first place!
You aren't the only one. It happens. Some are at least honest & tell you upfront that they are in a relationship. It makes me wanna slap them in the face for even daring, but I have respect for honesty so I just tell them no. I can't stand the spineless ones that lie & trick you into a relationship. Like how mentally ill can you get?
I met a guy, but quickly found out he lived with someone. I broke it off. Soon after that I met another one. What makes me sooo angry about the 2nd one is that I asked him the very 1st day we met if he was in a relationship or married & he said "NOPE". I even told him about my legal issues with the one before him & he still didn't come clean. Liar #1 was a little coo-coo so I needed the law to make him reason. He acted sympathetic, reason I don't think I'll ever stop having some degree of anger towards him, #2. Plus it went on for quite some time & my feelings were involved. Hard lesson.
+100, I'm sorry it happened to you too 😢click to expand
I'm actually glad it happened. It got me 2 extra eyes. One in the centre & another one at the back of my head. Super intuitive now lol.
how f*cked up a society we have became that people expect lies and deception, thats mainly the reason why I keep to myself.
but even though I have been lied to and tried to get screwed over I refuse to expect the worst in every single person I meet, at least now I know why this happend in the first place, thanks to you guys I can keep taking things slow and don't feel like a complete alien.
Posted by Infinite8Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
It's the environment in which you work. I have a friend that works as a flight attendant and he told me the environment is crazy between co-workers and between passengers/FA... A lot of sleeping around.
All that traveling in close quarters and passengers that travel a lot for work sometimes have same mentality.
It's funny bc if I travel with my husband... We are in our own world and not approached by others, but almost every time I travel alone, some guy sitting next to me has to aggressively start up a convo. Then the compliments start and their inquiry of you, where you come from etc. it's annoying as hell. I just want to be left alone, but answer some questions just to be polite... 😐
If I were you, I'd completely stay away from finding a guy in that type of environment. Again... Not telling you what you should do, but just saying what I would do.click to expand
It's prolly this. People are sluts at bars too, customers, employees
Posted by Infinite8Posted by LittleMissPerfect
I'm grateful, I just find it insulting that men in relationships think they can actually have a chance with me once I find out the truth or that I'll never find out. I meet them at work, I'm a flight attendant, some were passengers and other colleagues. I know what you are thinking, but I would like to believe that anybody with two brain cells would realize that not all flight attendants are sluts that sleeps around the globe.
Once I found out because his wife got into his skype account and called me a whore, when in fact nothing had happend not even a kiss. the other two through facebook.
It's the environment in which you work. I have a friend that works as a flight attendant and he told me the environment is crazy between co-workers and between passengers/FA... A lot of sleeping around.
All that traveling in close quarters and passengers that travel a lot for work sometimes have same mentality.
It's funny bc if I travel with my husband... We are in our own world and not approached by others, but almost every time I travel alone, some guy sitting next to me has to aggressively start up a convo. Then the compliments start and their inquiry of you, where you come from etc. it's annoying as hell. I just want to be left alone, but answer some questions just to be polite... 😐
If I were you, I'd completely stay away from finding a guy in that type of environment. Again... Not telling you what you should do, but just saying what I would do.click to expand
yes there is a lot of sleeping around between people that WANTS to sleep around, thats why it bothers me sooo much, there are a lot of fa that sleeps around, go and ask her out not me.
Blue SandCacoon already suggested to get out of that enviroment and met people through hobbies and I will do just that.
^Yep
My work environment consists of the types you are talking about. Are you domestic or international? My friend travels A LOT and sometimes I think the only piece of sanity she has is with her crew seeing they end up doing everything together and that in itself has an effect. Looking for 'love' in the wrong place perhaps?
I'm not saying I know too much about the FA culture, but I do know my friend has been in a relationship for over 5 years and the last time they made a stop back home all they did was hit the night club and grind on me like I'm some sort of sacrificial lamb while they pray to the 'land' god.
Maybe just look else where? I never date or see anyone near work.
My work environment consists of the types you are talking about. Are you domestic or international? My friend travels A LOT and sometimes I think the only piece of sanity she has is with her crew seeing they end up doing everything together and that in itself has an effect. Looking for 'love' in the wrong place perhaps?
I'm not saying I know too much about the FA culture, but I do know my friend has been in a relationship for over 5 years and the last time they made a stop back home all they did was hit the night club and grind on me like I'm some sort of sacrificial lamb while they pray to the 'land' god.
Maybe just look else where? I never date or see anyone near work.
oops sorry that was a Yep to LibraSid
Posted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by truecapPosted by LittleMissPerfectPosted by tiziani
Lol it's a serious question though. Because you mentioned you take it slow, and maybe you have "methods" in which case you're walking into relationships with zero trust. People who don't trust always attract untrustworthy types. Funny how life works.
in the past my friends have called me naive because I find this situations shocking instead of normal... if I had trust issues it would be the other way round... right?
I just look around fb which is public space and get to know them BEFORE removing my panties
Maybe that's it. Maybe you LOOK naive and trusting, so they think they can do one over on ya.
As soon as I posted that I thought the same as youclick to expand
There is nothing wrong with it though. I find it refreshing and wonderful there are still people like that in the world. Being aware that it could attract the lecherous type of men will help you learn how to determine their sincerity. Just don't become cynical - wouldn't want to misjudge the truly good guys.
International, last time I went home I went to sleep at 10 pm and woke up at 7 am every day even on weekends which I never did in my life, and my friends kept asking me for dinner and drinks and I changed all the plans to lunch and tea because I knew I would start yawning at 11 pm. I'm so sleep deprived in my every day life that having a "normal" sleeping pattern is one of the best things of being on holidays.
in your work enviroment would you say everybody behaves the same? so why would all fa be party people that sleeps around? I truly love my job, the view of the clouds in the sky is like prozac to me but the prejudice and misconception that people have really pisses me off. the sad part is that some fa specially straight men think that since they sleep a lot the can sleep with anyone.
what happend to "there is more than meets the eye" people?
in your work enviroment would you say everybody behaves the same? so why would all fa be party people that sleeps around? I truly love my job, the view of the clouds in the sky is like prozac to me but the prejudice and misconception that people have really pisses me off. the sad part is that some fa specially straight men think that since they sleep a lot the can sleep with anyone.
what happend to "there is more than meets the eye" people?
My theory is our work environments are generally more multicultural and given limited time to communicate (a very up and go feel) people tend to want things fast. I usually hear stories of who's sleeping with who on a daily basis at my bar job :\ It has this very attachment free feeling. Couple that with 'modern' views or shall I say 'trending' views, I feel sex is slowly accepted as part of the checklist in potential partners or even just as an enjoyment even when in a relationship. It's not my cup of tea but I can understand why and how seeing sex is enjoyable.
I think there's always more underneathe, sex or not. Physical attraction is just one part, the hurdle is trying it out and then try to get to know the person underneathe but as I said it's probably not everyone's cup of tea.
If you do find a gem in this work environment, it'll be totally worth it though! But yeah take it slow, real slow!
I think there's always more underneathe, sex or not. Physical attraction is just one part, the hurdle is trying it out and then try to get to know the person underneathe but as I said it's probably not everyone's cup of tea.
If you do find a gem in this work environment, it'll be totally worth it though! But yeah take it slow, real slow!
"in your work enviroment would you say everybody behaves the same? so why would all fa be party people that sleeps around? I truly love my job, the view of the clouds in the sky is like prozac to me but the prejudice and misconception that people have really pisses me off. the sad part is that some fa specially straight men think that since they sleep a lot the can sleep with anyone."
I know it sucks, but unfortunately that's just the way it is. Most people (me included), contrary to popular belief, use common sense and tend to assume and judge very quickly without an actual logical thought process. Why? Because it's quicker and cheaper. It's practical and the margin of error is reasonably low anyways. So why bother? *shrugs*
I know it sucks, but unfortunately that's just the way it is. Most people (me included), contrary to popular belief, use common sense and tend to assume and judge very quickly without an actual logical thought process. Why? Because it's quicker and cheaper. It's practical and the margin of error is reasonably low anyways. So why bother? *shrugs*
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
in your work enviroment would you say everybody behaves the same? so why would all fa be party people that sleeps around? I truly love my job, the view of the clouds in the sky is like prozac to me but the prejudice and misconception that people have really pisses me off. the sad part is that some fa specially straight men think that since they sleep a lot the can sleep with anyone.
what happend to "there is more than meets the eye" people?
It depends where you work. The bar was the worst of anywhere I've worked. Only myself and one other guy weren't sleeping our way around the staff. Turnover was high so we regularly had new pretty women coming in. It was a party environment. I know of coworkers having sex at work. I'm pretty sure I could have if I tried. I had a few customers that wanted me to take them anywhere and do things to them. One bartender had naked pics of several of the waitresses on his phone. The guys at the bar knew but someone the women didn't. Working in an accounting office isn't nearly as much fun.
Somehow* the women didn't
It's the flight attendant thing. Too many social stigmas related to hooking up and/or them being available because of some fantasy of theirs.
Posted by LibraSidPosted by Infinite8
It's the environment in which you work. I have a friend that works as a flight attendant and he told me the environment is crazy between co-workers and between passengers/FA... A lot of sleeping around.
All that traveling in close quarters and passengers that travel a lot for work sometimes have same mentality.
It's funny bc if I travel with my husband... We are in our own world and not approached by others, but almost every time I travel alone, some guy sitting next to me has to aggressively start up a convo. Then the compliments start and their inquiry of you, where you come from etc. it's annoying as hell. I just want to be left alone, but answer some questions just to be polite... 😐
If I were you, I'd completely stay away from finding a guy in that type of environment. Again... Not telling you what you should do, but just saying what I would do.
It's prolly this. People are sluts at bars too, customers, employeesclick to expand
+1
Restaurants are just as bad. Especially if there are hotels nearby. I've had a few coworkers who were handed a room key after the check was paid for, as an invite to join the customer later after work.
Then of course the sleeping around amongst the restaurant employees is atrocious. The next time you're out to eat, look around- several of those servers/managers/bussers have hooked up with eachother, haha.
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
I know it sucks, but unfortunately that's just the way it is. Most people (me included), contrary to popular belief, use common sense and tend to assume and judge very quickly without an actual logical thought process. Why? Because it's quicker and cheaper. It's practical and the margin of error is reasonably low anyways. So why bother? *shrugs*
I always found the exception waaay more intresting than the rule, so I tend to look each situation as unique even if the only change is my point of view *shrug*
again thank you everyone for your advise and experience, even though I love my job from now on I will keep it very separetely from my personal life
You're constantly attracting men who are taken b/c you are partly/subconsciously emotionally unavailable. This is especially the case for the women who don't even have aspirations to be the side chick or mistress lol
This is mind blowing, especially to those who assume that 100% of who they attract has everything to do with outsiders and not themselves. Not true.
Women are known for their good intuitions. Well, men are known for being masters at deciphering their prey long before they've even approached her. There are subconscious signals that women put out. The way they carry themselves. Even if a man isn't able to put his finger on it or put it into words, a man with a motive can almost always sniff out the women in the crowd who he believes will help him fulfill that motive/goal.
And then of course, there's the warning signs after the initial exchange of interest has happened. Perhaps you are not paying as much attention as you think you are. Perhaps there are some signs you're missing purposely or unintentionally. Sometimes what a person doesn't realize is a red flag is actually indeed a red flag. But they won't see that b/c their perception of the other person's behavior isn't in their "red flag" category.
The reason their wives call you whores & assume you knew about them is b/c even they assume that there's no way you didn't see certain red flags that would've given it away that he was taken. And to an extent, that's a fair assumption, especially considering a lot of women admit that in hindsight 20/20 there were in fact red flags all over the place at some point
Notice any patterns? Any common denominators? Are they all traveling business men? Do they try rushing you or pressuring you to be vulnerable real fast? Are these men who swear they're always busy 24-7 (he's not the busiest man in the world, he's just married lol)? Somewhere or another, there's a pattern. There's a cycle. You've just gotta identify that. Only you can though
This is mind blowing, especially to those who assume that 100% of who they attract has everything to do with outsiders and not themselves. Not true.
Women are known for their good intuitions. Well, men are known for being masters at deciphering their prey long before they've even approached her. There are subconscious signals that women put out. The way they carry themselves. Even if a man isn't able to put his finger on it or put it into words, a man with a motive can almost always sniff out the women in the crowd who he believes will help him fulfill that motive/goal.
And then of course, there's the warning signs after the initial exchange of interest has happened. Perhaps you are not paying as much attention as you think you are. Perhaps there are some signs you're missing purposely or unintentionally. Sometimes what a person doesn't realize is a red flag is actually indeed a red flag. But they won't see that b/c their perception of the other person's behavior isn't in their "red flag" category.
The reason their wives call you whores & assume you knew about them is b/c even they assume that there's no way you didn't see certain red flags that would've given it away that he was taken. And to an extent, that's a fair assumption, especially considering a lot of women admit that in hindsight 20/20 there were in fact red flags all over the place at some point
Notice any patterns? Any common denominators? Are they all traveling business men? Do they try rushing you or pressuring you to be vulnerable real fast? Are these men who swear they're always busy 24-7 (he's not the busiest man in the world, he's just married lol)? Somewhere or another, there's a pattern. There's a cycle. You've just gotta identify that. Only you can though
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What does a hug with a squeeze mean? Or a resting hand on the knee/thigh? Or both resting hands on the forearms?
i'm posting about the guy iv been friends with for the past few years..(check the old threads)..i know some of you are g
I don't start flirting, I don't dress in revealing clothes and most of the time keep to myself. there are a lot of women in my city who would be more than ok to date a guy in a relationship but certainly not me, there is a reason why I asked in the first place!