I met this guy a year ago. We went on one date and I never heard from him again. The following summer I ran into him at a Harley event. He stayed by my side the entire night as if we were on a date. He asked if I was going to a school reunion at this bar that we both know people at. I went. We talked and he asked me to go on the MDA ride. I saw him a couple of times before the ride. We had a blast. The ride came....we had an absolute great time then I had a party after. He stayed til 2:00 am. He was attentive, but a little reserved I think. We are so much alike it is scary. I kept asking who his father was! We have the same ideas about almost everything...disciplining kids, life, attitudes, fun, leisure time...I am very independent and don't like to be told what to do, he is the same....someone told us that we made a great looking couple. He said yes, we did and that we were so much alike and had so much in common. I have never felt like this with any guy. We click in every way and I don't know how to handle it! He doesn't call a lot and he doesn't really date. He said he is terrible at dating because he works out of town a lot. He said a lot of women can't deal with him not being around a lot. Well, for me, I don't want a man up my butt 24/7! However, I do need to know that a man is interested in me or I get all insecure and think he isn't interested. How can I NOT blow this with this wonderful man? I don't call him. I let him call me. I figure if he wants to see me he will call. He does have my camera from the MDA ride. He told me we will get together during the week and have a few cocktails so he can get it to me. I felt he was doing it during the week because he didn't plan on seeing me on the weekend. My friends think it is because he wanted to see me before the weekend....hmmmmm. How do I let him know I care without pushing him away? I am very affectionate, but not the clingy, gross type. I am a fun affectionate type. From what I have read on Aquarians I feel this may turn him off.
