You & your current/future partner a work in progress or the full package?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by atearth on Saturday, January 7, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@atearth
13 Years

So ladies & gentlemen, when it comes to romance between yourself & your current/future partner;

Do you see yourself and or your current/future partner a work in progress or the full package; as an individual and a couple?

What do I mean by a work in progress? Is the persons in question have qualities that need more experience/maturing? such as personality, career, education background, attractiveness, good dresser, etc.

What do I mean by the full package? Is the persons in question have qualities that need no improvements, such as personality, career, education background, attractiveness, good dresser, etc.

I have always believed that an individual no matter stage or age in their life, will always be a work in progress or they'll stagnate. And it would be unacceptable to expect others to change/evolve and for the self to be stubborn and not change/evolve.

What are your thoughts?

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@clippityclop
10 Years1,000+ Posts

In my current relationship, we are both working on ourselves. We are at different points in our lives.. I have a lot more catching up to do in terms of adult stuff. But I'm trying and he makes me want to try. I feel motivated to have a good life together.