Advice. Sagitarrius girl dating Capricorn Male.

Hi I'm a 21 year old Sag female with a moon in cancer and rising in Leo. I have never dated a Capricorn male but something about this year has made me less attracted to the usual Gemini, Aries, Leo group. I met Sean on tindr, he is a handsome brilliant guy who loves travel, go to shows and plays in a band. He is 24 and works way to much at his job. As I'm getting to know him I'm realizing that most of his life consist of work. He seems up tight and selfish and no matter how hard I try I can't help but feel like I'm walking on egg shells. I'm not used to his "my way or the highway" attitude when we first met he pushed sex until I gave in, it was absolutely magical I have never had sex with someone like that before . But deep down I was a little annoyed, he pushes sex even when I already say no. I also noticed that he hides things. I showed up to his house three days ago to bring him his medication. He was so drunk , while driving he told me some good and bad things I could tell he'd been holding inside for a while. He told me he valued that I cared so much , and that his family likes me a lot but then he told me that a while back when I ignored him for a week he had sex with someone. :/ the thing is I gave him plenty of chances to tell me this but only when he was drunk did the truth come out. The next morning he was short and grumpy with me , he told me he'd make things up to me but spent the whole day doing what he wanted to do and told me he'd call me when he was ready, around 5 I called him saying I really wanted to see him he seemed just grumpy and careless and said he'd call me back in a few minutes... I never got a call... His excuse 4 words "sorry I fell asleep" he also explained hes very busy but damn what a harsh capricorn . Anyways I do see a future with this man and assume he's not willing to give me all of him just yet. I know that capricorns can be like that but I'm starting to wonder if he sees me as a side chick, since something's telling me he's not over his ex, (still says they're in a relationship on fb) which is the reason we fought. His excuse was he never goes on fb and that he hates his ex and that she's a bitch. I just don't ever want to be a stupid girl so please be as brutally honest as possible , i got so mad I have not messaged him back and he has not hit me up again. What do you guys think? Any advice is helpful.

First things first.You kinda messed up, once you gave in towards the sex. You should have stood your ground, no matter how hard he was pressuring you.Secondly, you don't ever have to put up with a man's his way or the highway BS,cause it now seems that he will be callinfg the shots from now on, If you decide to carry on with this lopsided relationship. Capricorn men like to work for their women,So I believe that if you fall back, and let him initiate the conversation, and grow a back bone, you will do alright.He is bossing you around, do not give him total control of the relationship, make him compromise, or you hit the road.

Posted by Ashdogchic
Hi I'm a 21 year old Sag female with a moon in cancer and rising in Leo. I have never dated a Capricorn male but something about this year has made me less attracted to the usual Gemini, Aries, Leo group. I met Sean on tindr, he is a handsome brilliant guy who loves travel, go to shows and plays in a band. He is 24 and works way to much at his job. As I'm getting to know him I'm realizing that most of his life consist of work. He seems up tight and selfish and no matter how hard I try I can't help but feel like I'm walking on egg shells. I'm not used to his "my way or the highway" attitude when we first met he pushed sex until I gave in, it was absolutely magical I have never had sex with someone like that before . But deep down I was a little annoyed, he pushes sex even when I already say no. I also noticed that he hides things. I showed up to his house three days ago to bring him his medication. He was so drunk , while driving he told me some good and bad things I could tell he'd been holding inside for a while. He told me he valued that I cared so much , and that his family likes me a lot but then he told me that a while back when I ignored him for a week he had sex with someone. :/ the thing is I gave him plenty of chances to tell me this but only when he was drunk did the truth come out. The next morning he was short and grumpy with me , he told me he'd make things up to me but spent the whole day doing what he wanted to do and told me he'd call me when he was ready, around 5 I called him saying I really wanted to see him he seemed just grumpy and careless and said he'd call me back in a few minutes... I never got a call... His excuse 4 words "sorry I fell asleep" he also explained hes very busy but damn what a harsh capricorn . Anyways I do see a future with this man and assume he's not willing to give me all of him just yet. I know that capricorns can be like that but I'm starting to wonder if he sees me as a side chick, since something's telling me he's not over his ex, (still says they're in a relationship on fb) which is the reason we fought. His excuse was he never goes on fb and that he hates his ex and that she's a bitch. I just don't ever want to be a stupid girl so please be as brutally honest as possible , i got so mad I have not messaged him back and he has not hit me up again. What do you guys think? Any advice is helpful.

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Drop him and never look back.

I agree, when we did have sex he acted like I hurt his feelings I don't know I he truly felt this way or if he was just being selfish I think he was being selfish thanks for the advice

Fuck my life :/

Sounds clich?, but this the age of making bad decisions. Your 20s are mad for bad decisions. Lick those wounds and go explore my young horse. Youve got plenty more bad decisions to make, get living!

Posted by Ashdogchic
Fuck my life :/

Just wait till you start dating Cancers 😆

I've dated two cancers lol let's just say it didn't work out and yes I have so much to learn to bad we could've worked something but I can tell he doesn't take me seriously, damn people need to understand tht sagitarrius are some of the smartest signs we know a lot .... And can handle even more

Dude I better so far I've gotten dbags, wimps and dbags and aholes uhggg

@OP: Sit back, work on yourself and actually develop a list of traits as to what type of man you want...and make sure its realistic and not built on fantasy. Men will charm you...sell you that dream to lure you in. In all of your situations, you're at the center...so, and not to be mean, it's you not them. They are who they are. You choose to accept this behavior behind only someone's potential...but ignore who they are. When you change that about yourself, then things will change.

Question about the wimps. Are they truly wimps or are they simply good guys you friendzone because you're not used to them? Perhaps, you should take another look

@beautifulsoul74 I have heard this before I have had an issue going after the more "powerful" and "strong" men. This is embarrassing but I actually started this relationship thinking it was going to be serious and that I'd finally found a supportive rock. I actually feel like this was a big step in The right direction since I truly thought there was a chance at an awesome relationship. I do beleive this is mostly Sean's fault. I have shown Who I am without getting lost in the whole relationship , he has shown me how lame he is choosing to act and I realized he was lying when he said he cared, there fore I am choosing to walk away from a potentially disappointing situation. Wimps, yes I've legit dated wimps, a wimp to me is a man who is not okay with his current situation yet does nothing but complains about it, I like men who strive to be the best they can be but I think I need to be focused on myself so I can have a future with someone special!

Posted by bnr7013
Bless your heart for getting involved with a Capricorn. All signs point to you moving on from this relationship - not because he is a Capricorn but because this guy is a total jerk. As a sag, I know we try to figure things/people out. Take this for what its worth and mark it as lesson learned.

Thank you so much for this, that is my problem i truly do see his potential and my potential together. I see it clearly. He has messaged me since then but can't even write back. It just hurts . I'm erasing him out of my life today...

Posted by DMV
Sounds clich?, but this the age of making bad decisions. Your 20s are mad for bad decisions. Lick those wounds and go explore my young horse. Youve got plenty more bad decisions to make, get living!

This!!!!

Although it didn't seem so at the time, my 20s, though full of bad decision making, was the best of fun. My friends would always tell me how they wished they had an exciting dating life like mine. I didn't appreciate that at the time though, because deep down I really just wanted something normal like them. Most of them were getting into long term relationships, marrying and/o having kids and I was just dating (and still am and even still I don't envy them)...looking back, I always had and still have the best stories to tell. If one of them had to try dating in their 30's they probably wouldn't be able to handle it.

So, I say this all to say enjoy it! You're going to make mistakes and kiss some toads, but bad decisions make the best stories and you'll be more equip when your time comes 🙂

Posted by aquavita2
Capricorn is tricky business and no fun for sag fine fun woman. I was almost raped by a dog trainer a Capricorn who has 9 children now with his wife at the time he decided that I needs a boyfriend and the would fix my dig I thought he was just joking but behind closed doors he attack ed me and I barely got away. he managed to sprinkle his seen AL over my head while I was crawling away . while he was doing that he kept on repeating the he was the only leader in this world.

Am I reading this right? You escaped the Cappys grip, and he ended by ejaculating all over your head whilst declaring himself king of the world?

Girl run...