any sagittarius sun with capricorn moon guys here? i have a question...or 2:D

how do you behave when you like someone and how does capricorn moon affect you fiery nature? i read that you tend to do things like disappear now and then, is it true?🙂

@ayra
I just posted not so long ago about my friend a sag sun and cap moon. First he used to talk to me every single day. But after that we are still friend but he talks to me from time to time. One every 3 days u can say. And probably in future he will talk to me once a month. But we are just friends. I guess he had feelings for me but it faded cuz also I'm in a different country. Or maybe he found someone else. God knows. I can't figure it out.
But he did mention to me before that he pulled the disappearing act on his ex

"Honestly I do not consider myself a sag. I think I am in peace with my moon"

I've noticed this multiple times. Cause Sag is a mutable sign it gives the control passed to other controling chart parts like Cap and Scorpio in your case. Venus and Moon are not to underestimate.

As far as the disappearing, I'm really bad at keeping in touch with anyone that I'm not around on a daily basis (friends, family, former co-workers, etc). It's not that I'm stuck up or stop caring & wanting those relationships, I just get so focused on other things that before I know it it's a week or so later when I return a call.
But in relationships it's different, I've disappeared after trying to compromise & work things out, & I see that it's not going to be better. And by disappearing that way, I mean leaving behind a dear john letter if I live with the guy or just ignoring all calls & texts if I don't. Again it's not because I stopped caring about him, just dealing with the whole break up talk is too messy & scary.

Thanks everybody for writing your thoughts on this.... made it easier for me to understand this guy ....i guess😄

@Nouran20, it's like you said, i talked to this guy for two weeks, we hang out and it was fun, i liked that he was always joking (so am i) and was easy to talk to......and then he just stopped writting........ i didn't know what to think of it, or how to act.....the last time we talked i was the one who wrote him and he appeard to be ....not in the mood for talking 🙂) i guess he'll initiate contact if he wants to because i don' like to be pushy...

@DwellingOnMove...it think you are pretty right on that

Posted by LittlePieces62

Posted by DwellingOnMove
"Honestly I do not consider myself a sag. I think I am in peace with my moon"

I've noticed this multiple times. Cause Sag is a mutable sign it gives the control passed to other controling chart parts like Cap and Scorpio in your case. Venus and Moon are not to underestimate.

Hey Dwelling! Thank you for the clarification i understand being mutable better now. When I compare myself with younger years i was more a sag i think almost totally. So does that mean that most mutables develop with age in something way different than the sign they were born under? Depending on the signs of other planets.

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The only thing I know is:

- after 30 or more you come across more like your AC.

- according to your progression (depends on how we see progressions at all) you act like the next sign. For example I am Sag 3° natal. This theory says after 27 until 57 I act like Cap (oh god I'm waiting for it. this cappious negative thinking is killing me). Then like Aqua. etc. Not sure if this is the right interpretation of progression though. (should they be used for predictions that is as triggers for events, or as new character?)

Posted by LittlePieces62
I am a sag sun and cap moon but female though.

I am bad at expressing in words what someone means to me but I will put in effort to meet you or do things for you. Cooking or buy things etcetera. I do want to feel secure with you as in if you are not flaky or inconsistent. If you are inconsistent I will dissapear to rethink what I am getting into. If something happens that has hurt me I will dissapear but usually come back if minor hurt and might give you a chance if for a reason it does not change I will fade. But I can also be quiet because I have some priorities that need to be done first but usually I tell you in advance. I like calm and collected people that offer stable warmth without being to attached to me.

I am not as fiery or as upfront as people say sags are. I can be but I rather not confront. Honestly I do not consider myself a sag. I think I am in peace with my moon because it lets me think cool and objective and then pick my words what to say.

I actually have a question to sag sun cap moon. What do we do when u just disappear. Like me and my friend r fine and he talked to me few times and things r going well. He even started conversations which is an indication everything is ok?
But about 4 days ago I felt the conversation died a little so I asked how r u how's ur life. He didn't reply since 4 days ago. But he keeps liking my pics though. So I dunno why he disappeared and would it be sensible to try and speak again. Or since he didn't reply then maybe I should just leave him to reply whenever?
Btw I have stopped liking every single pic of him. I might like one pic once a in while cuz I don't Wana seem like I'm stalking him or that I'm too needy. But he went back to liking my pics. So I guess it's better to keep a distant with u sag sun cap moon?

Posted by Ayra
@Nouran20, it's like you said, i talked to this guy for two weeks, we hang out and it was fun, i liked that he was always joking (so am i) and was easy to talk to......and then he just stopped writting........ i didn't know what to think of it, or how to act.....the last time we talked i was the one who wrote him and he appeard to be ....not in the mood for talking 🙂) i guess he'll initiate contact if he wants to because i don' like to be pushy...

Has he initiated contact??

Posted by LittlePieces62

I actually have a question to sag sun cap moon. What do we do when u just disappear. Like me and my friend r fine and he talked to me few times and things r going well. He even started conversations which is an indication everything is ok?
But about 4 days ago I felt the conversation died a little so I asked how r u how's ur life. He didn't reply since 4 days ago. But he keeps liking my pics though. So I dunno why he disappeared and would it be sensible to try and speak again. Or since he didn't reply then maybe I should just leave him to reply whenever?
Btw I have stopped liking every single pic of him. I might like one pic once a in while cuz I don't Wana seem like I'm stalking him or that I'm too needy. But he went back to liking my pics. So I guess it's better to keep a distant with u sag sun cap moon?

Good to hear that things are going okay now. Ok let me think. I am now trying to see this as just a friendship. Live your life as you always do. I personally like consistency but also in your behaviour. Example. I do not have a schedule when I speak to my friends sometimes we do not speak for 2 weeks or longer but with no judging why so long silence because I know that they are my friend and would still be there even if we do not speak for a year. Same applies to me. If I start conversations with you then it means you are important or else I do not bother. It does not mean anything bad that you have not heard from him. Did he not call you the other day so it was his initiative which is a good thing.

I am not so much in social media and the picture things but if you would not like my pictures I would not make a big deal or think you are stalking. It is when you would bombarding my phone every 15min is when I will worry hehehe.

About distant. Tricky one. Do not make a game out of keeping distant on purpose to get on my nerves or get a reaction because then I am not sure of your intentions.

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Thanks for the reply I find it useful. Well I really Wana talk to him I got a few stories to tell him. But he didn't reply back to my last message when I asked him how's ur life bla bla. So I dunno if it's a good idea to initiate contact with him now since he didn't reply. Or should I wait a little bit more till perhaps he will get back to me? I just don't Wana seem needy or cheap.
The thing that is mostly bothering me is the shift of change in our relationship. Before he always talked and initiated contact. If he didn't reply the next day he would apologise and say he got busy or slept. He also would ask me out, not a date but to hangout with friends and family.
Now we r still friends but he does things like not reply and disappear a bit. If he was like that from beginning I would get it but...ahh men!

@littlepieces62 I'm sure he liked me more than a friend in beginning. And everyone was noticing it especially my mom. I mean ya would he tell me that he doesn't invite just anybody to meet his mom and family unless in his head he had a thing for me.
I didn't have anything for him at that time. But I was starting to like some things about him but at same time I'm really afraid to commit, I need my time I need to think and get to know him first before actually deciding if I want to be more than friends with him. Plus he always said he's not ready for a new relationship and that he's not good enough for a relationship cuz his ex really messed him up.

I stayed quiet and just supported him. And said yeah take a break and be single and if u meet the right girl you'll want a relationship. Just don't rush.

But now I feel like I'm not as important to him as before. Even though he did initiate contact with me and we talked smoothly but I still feel like it's cold compared to before. I feel like there is no friendship nor relationship potential here. I wish I could know what's going on in his head. All I'm doing is just giving him space and living my life. I hope I'm doing the right thing. I wonder if he's waiting for me to talk him or if he just doesn't care. I'm scared to talk to him.

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@littlepieces62
I didn't have anything for him at that time. But I was starting to like some things about him but at same time I'm really afraid to commit, I need my time I need to think and get to know him first before actually deciding if I want to be more than friends with him. Plus he always said he's not ready for a new relationship and that he's not good enough for a relationship cuz his ex really messed him up.

I stayed quiet and just supported him. And said yeah take a break and be single and if u meet the right girl you'll want a relationship. Just don't rush.

I'm scared to talk to him.

How is it going is there some progression?

What I am wondering is from your other post about social media and that other girl he liked pictures of . Personally it seems like a mixed signal to me. Like it comes across like you do not want to share him even as a friend but same time you tell him to take his time and if he meets the right girl he can settle. Do you know what i mean?
You could leave some time in between and then contact him ask how he is doing or what he has been up to. He will know you are still there and want to be there.

Which is something I have to correct from what I wrote in other post. I was talking about not speaking friends for a year but that was mistake. That is way too long.

Also is he same age like you?

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I'm 23 and he's Gona be 26. Well I spoke to him and turned out he injured his arm from playing football and I told him I'll talk to him everyday to make sure he's ok. And we spoke really well. But now he appears online talking to someone and keeping me n the wait on the other side then when he's done taking to that other unknown person he replies. And it seems like he's talking to someone all the time all day long. So I reckon he's replaced me with another close girl. I mean he's fine with me but I don't feel like he has something to say to me, unless if I open up a conversation. He doesn't seem as interested to come speak to me like before. Hence keeping my convo on the side. Before he used to ignore everyone to speak to me. It upsets me 😢
But the funny thing is that he says he will come to london where I live now from Cairo for an internship and he will stay in london for about a month. Dunno if he's coming for me or if he's really coming to work.
Honestly i don't understand anything. I'm just upset for not having what I had with him before.
Ofcourse I'll support him when he comes here. But sometimes I feel I should disappear a bit from his life maybe he'lol miss me or forget me.

Oh and btw he says he's coming to london but then he adds "I'm not sure yet I'm still Gona send my cv and I'm not worried to come cuz london is depressing"
I told him no don't worry me and my sis will guide u and it'll be a new experience.
But In the end I tell him it's your choice think carefully and if ur not comfortable to travel to london then u shouldn't. I try to give him space and not seem too needy for him to come.
I just don't know how to deal with him. im travelling next month to Cairo and probably I'll meet him. I dunno maybe I shouldn't meet him that often.