I'd rather be castrated than posting this topic on the Aquarian boards, as my fellow aquas would give me advice that I've already thought of. I need a saggi POV. It's nothing too personal but needs attention, and the demons in my head need quietening.
Well, ive known this saggi girl online for weeks now. Shes quite charming and we've spoken over the phone often. She keeps saying she looks 'forward to our next conversation' and that she dreams of me etc. She knows how i look and how i sound. All good so far, shes not in my city though so it'll be tough. I've been in an 'online relationship' before, thats somewhat made me a hard headed realist, but she's still somewhat young and naive. She loves when i talk to her about philosphy,ethics and a whole range of topics yada yada, she thinks i'm different .
I'm an aqua guy with a saggi ascendant xD, libra moon, (mum was a saggi too). So, i think I understand her more than anyone could. I'd rather have saggi people (having a saggi asc. doesn't count) reply to this. And yeah, I dont need to be told that online shit doesnt always work out, I've been through that and understand the intricacies of it, which are painful at times.
My question for your saggi people is, how do you keep a saggi's interest from waning without sounding over enthusaistic about anything? I don't wanna disappoint her, but money problems on both sides means I can't travel to her city yet. As an aquarian, you should know that I have to check her irl anyway.
Thanks for any input and for reading. You have no idea how much I love you saggi guys n gals. They're all like cute lil puppy dogs that need coaching *cough* and cuddling (the girlz i mean) 😛.
damn, editing posts is impossible here... *twiddles fingers* I'd like to add at times I feel burnt out keeping things exciting for her, even though we both know its impossible for anyone to be interesting or quirky ALL the time. That's how i show her that i care and I dont mind it, even if I have to spend every air molecule in my system keeping the saggi fire alive yeeehaw!
Thats for ur input guys, @ cal, yeah i'm gonna do just that. Its gonna happen sooner or later, the silent phase i.e. WHat will be harder is to ignore her, cuz shes charming. Funny thing is, she said she's a lil bit 'intimidated' by me cuz she's usually the blabber mouth and being the lively one. So, anyway I make sure i give her space and dont drown her with all my blahblahness.
"I bet you will come together and she will be jeleous how many contacts you have and she will leave you." 😢 she will leave? wtf, so much for all that optimism hahah. I know she can get jealous but i can easily make it clear to her where they stand in my 'social books'. No problem there, i can read her well. Talking of more friends, we've started this new competition 2-3 days back, of getting to know new people every day or two. I'm leading with 5 and she's trying to keep up. Poor thing xD
I have certain things planned and one of them is showing her this webpage in the future; depends how things turn out of course. Or it might just get relegated to another useless experiment and this thread catching dust years from now or whenever the internet dies. SHhh, but dont tell her that. Time for HOOKAH!
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Well, ive known this saggi girl online for weeks now. Shes quite charming and we've spoken over the phone often. She keeps saying she looks 'forward to our next conversation' and that she dreams of me etc. She knows how i look and how i sound.
All good so far, shes not in my city though so it'll be tough. I've been in an 'online relationship' before, thats somewhat made me a hard headed realist, but she's still somewhat young and naive. She loves when i talk to her about philosphy,ethics and a whole range of topics yada yada, she thinks i'm different .
I'm an aqua guy with a saggi ascendant xD, libra moon, (mum was a saggi too). So, i think I understand her more than anyone could.
I'd rather have saggi people (having a saggi asc. doesn't count) reply to this.
And yeah, I dont need to be told that online shit doesnt always work out, I've been through that and understand the intricacies of it, which are painful at times.
My question for your saggi people is, how do you keep a saggi's interest from waning without sounding over enthusaistic about anything? I don't wanna disappoint her, but money problems on both sides means I can't travel to her city yet. As an aquarian, you should know that I have to check her irl anyway.
Thanks for any input and for reading. You have no idea how much I love you saggi guys n gals. They're all like cute lil puppy dogs that need coaching *cough* and cuddling (the girlz i mean) 😛.