Are Sag Women Really This emotional?

Hey Sag's!
1st and Foremost--Ive had a few negative run ins with you guys and gals...But here I met a Sag.

Although I am still trying to heal over my Aqua ex, This Sag is REALLY OUT to prove that the UNIVERSE has a plan and this is why we met.

This lovely Sag is alot of fun, sweet, smart, kind and an artist. Shes trying to make it big with her music career. Not only that, shes ALSO trying to win over my heart.

I told her numerous of times im NOT ready...BUT unfortunately her company is enjoyable...She has even said that she KNOWS shes not ready either. BUT then for the past few days shes been telling me shes falling in love and doesnt want to fall alone.
She recently lost her dad and says I was the 1st brush of happiness she has had in a long time.

I think shes awesome...But Im not able to commit to her and 1 minute she understands that, nxt minute shes telling me she loves me, and doesnt want much but wants me all to herself. Next minute shes tellign me shes going to leave me alone because it hurts too much not to have me...-_-
I NEVER seen you guys this emotional.

Shes constantly telling me she loves a challenge.
I think shes enjoying this "winning my heart" over the aqua...But I think this is all too sudden.
I love evrything about her, except her inability to slow down with the emotions...

Is this normal behavior Sag ladies?

WE already DID the DO and its GREAT! WE are extreamely COMFY With one ANOTHER ALREADY!
But I think shes enjoying me not being fully available!

Sags aren't emotional people...check out her moon. But as she told you, we LOVE challenges. If she's telling you that she loves you and wants you all to herself, but you're not ready to be in a relationship AND you're finding the more you distant yourself, the more she wants you, you should be honest with her and tell her that she's doing too much.

Posted by saggyrl
Sags aren't emotional people...check out her moon. But as she told you, we LOVE challenges. If she's telling you that she loves you and wants you all to herself, but you're not ready to be in a relationship AND you're finding the more you distant yourself, the more she wants you, you should be honest with her and tell her that she's doing too much.

Must be her Cancer MOON.

But I do admit I am into her much as well. Just not looking to commit or anything right now.

Maybe this might help you understand her better...
I'm more emotional these days...many reasons but mainly: increased responsibilities (do not have a day off since Sept.), questioning life path, and someone close to me passed away last year. All these things combined makes me feel like not wanting to be alone even though I'm tired (go out almost every night to do something), but also knowing I need time to think and figure it out. On the outside I'm sure it seems like a lot too because I'm doing too much. These days I just want to be around people I am comfortable with.

Yes, learning how to slow down the emotions or even talk less is good. Maybe if she can find one or two people she can trust (family?) to pour her heart out to, that might make her focus less on you.

What is your sign?

Posted by Ssasy


Must be her Cancer MOON.

But I do admit I am into her much as well. Just not looking to commit or anything right now.

I'm a Sag with a Cancer moon as well, so sometimes it leaves me a little torn. I have a great need for independence, but I also have a need for attachment...something of my own. Maybe that's where she's at with you, she's just going about it in an aggressive manner.

Have a heart to heart with her.

Im a Cancer with a Scorp moon.


@SunMoonStars- You sound exactly like her. Staying up late, working hard for her gigs. Over thinking about life, her goals, her family...and NOW me.


@Saggyrl- WE HAVE HAD MANY! But I just wont pay attention.
I do care about her, and in fact i have a love for her too. But im not falling in love because Im still in love with my ex. And she is aware. But she says I should focus on her because shes here and not ex.

Then maybe it's best to leave her alone, at least until you're over your ex. Otherwise, someone's going to end up hurt. Distance could help the heart grow possibly...

Yes, I'm trying to turn over-thinking into critical thinking. Also working on my philosophy (values and beliefs) so I can live my life according to them and not get side tracked.

With you, I think she's trying to secure this aspect of her life so it's one less thing that's up in the air. If you care about her, try to be there and openly communicate. Try not to be moody if you are. She will appreciate your stable nature. At times like this, I miss my Taurus, he was a constant in my life, never moody and always just there.

Good question. I will have to think about my emotional state now, for awhile.

Posted by Iwill
😄 Sassy! You a cancer right?

I used to tell this cancer guy, I was like in looooooooooooooooooooove with (really!), that I loved a challenge!! Because he really didn't want me but had a hard time letting me know or making up his mind.

I do like a challenge, usually turn guys down if they are all up on me right away. I always told him, just to let him know, that to me love is not easy and I'm ready to fight for it. And like I said, I was in love with him! I would have done anything basically, and did everything wwhen I think about it. But he still didn't want me.

Seems like she really likes you!!!!! Just wanted to point that out!!

BUT sags are known to change their mind quickly. I am not a typicle sag - in love at least. I am VERY emotional, even too emotional or "thinking too much" for a cancer. I think most people are emotional, but we show it differently. Sags wear their feelings on their sleeve, but you wont always know, what they are about. Depends..... Most sags have it hard in the love department, is my experience.

---YUP I am a CANCER! 🙂

Dont get me wrong I really really enjoy being with her, speaking to her..BUT shes soooooooooooo perssitent with changing my mind.

Posted by bnr7013
I feel the need to answer this because I am going through something similar. I am NEVER emotional - until recently. This past year has been awful...when it rains, it pours! For the first time in my life I've managed to 'cling' to someone just as you described. I also feel way too emotional but I think it's because of everything I am going through. I know what it's like to have that 'challenge' but also feel so 'comfortable' - I think that is how she is feeling.

Sags DO love a challenge & I will agree with everything said here. If you 'string' her along long enough, she will eventually get 'bored' and maybe even move on. I don't say 'string along' in a rude way....it's just what it may feel like to her. We get bored really easily & if we can't have what we want, we move along to something else that challenges us. It's rare that we have to 'give up' but it does happen. Unfortunately, you can't help the way you feel right now but I admire your willingness to admit you don't want to commit. To finally answer your question, this is NOT typical behavior. I didn't even know I was capable of this many emotions. For now, enjoy the attention 🙂

I am very much so being very very supportive. I do enjoy the attention but i am afraid of someone getting hurt.

Posted by Iwill
I CURSE THIS QUOTING SYSTEM TO HELL!!!!! DEVIL!

HAHAH I hate it too.....BUT
you sound JUST like her...
"COME ONNN"

well I have trust issues and im just not ready to settle...
And im still missing my Aqua.
Thats all...smh (ok thats alot but still) why cant we just enjoy the now?

Posted by Iwill
Well u as well as I know, that when we really like somebody, Therese is No 'here and now'..
if she is anything like me, she probably just have a hard time realizing, there is someone else in your heart. If you tell her this, she Will probably stop pursuing. The "I'm not ready" Will just make her think, there is something to be done - by her, so now she 's gonna give it All she got!!

SHE IS GIVING IT ALL SHES GOT!

😢
I feel terrible about it sometimes because shes very very expressive about her feelings.
She says im worth fighting for.
and she knows if she lets go, someone else will get to love me....sighhhhhhhhh

Thanks for the comments guys~!
Shesh i think this was the nicest column ive ever posted in.

She is aware of all the things that I am going through emotionally.
Shes grieving herself with the lost of a loved one....and shes focused on her music. Im just an added bonus to it all, or her muse as she says.

But i do have trust issues. I also dont want a relationship. I like what we have going. BUT i came here to jus gt an understanding as to what was oing on.
Ive never met a sag like this.
A good male friend at work is a sag and hes alot of fun too. I know they can be fun BUT didnt know they were like ths. LOL

Thanks every1!