Aries Man help

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Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.

I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx


I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.

Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.
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Thanks for your reply hun. Well I am suspicious of him cheating and that's the only thing I've ever gone nuts over lol

He's convinced me it's in my head and I love him so I'll just see over time if it's me or not.

Can I ask why it didn't work with you and your aries? Was he April one too? Are you a December sag xxx
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Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.

I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx


I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.

Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.


Thanks for your reply hun. Well I am suspicious of him cheating and that's the only thing I've ever gone nuts over lol

He's convinced me it's in my head and I love him so I'll just see over time if it's me or not.

Can I ask why it didn't work with you and your aries? Was he April one too? Are you a December sag xxx


Ah. I never had that worry, mine was completely loyal always. Yes he’s April and I’m December. It’s complicated. We were together for 20 years & have 2 kids together, I’m not sure I’d call it not working out. Lol He refused to deal with some things and it took its toll. I couldn’t do it for both of us so I ended up needing to choose myself. It broke my heart to leave but it was the right decision. We still have a bond and he has my back if needed.
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That's good then hun. I hope things will be ok for us. We get on so well I guess I just have to curb my emotions and be more balanced. Did you have the same issue then? I'm just trying to learn basically.
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Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx


I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.

We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.

Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.

Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.

You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.
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Dude now that I'm in some legal trouble I wish I was still dating that lawyer Aries lol but also not really because he was so fucking annoying and kept trying to tell me what to do to all the time.

The one before that was hot but also pushy and we had one night together I left in the morning and than he never called me again HA HA!

Than there was one in my early 20's who I was on and off with. He was cool but not boyfriend material. We tried a few years ago to rekindle and go to a movie. He ended up ditching me right before it started and after I had already bought tickets and sat there waiting for him at the theater like a fucking idiot. Who does that in this day and age right?? I was pissed I refuse to forgive him. Than he showed up at my apartment and begged me for an hour too. I never did and told him to leave lol

I like Leo men. Aries are hot from afar and that might be all they ever are to me.
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Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.

I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx


I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.

Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.


Thanks for your reply hun. Well I am suspicious of him cheating and that's the only thing I've ever gone nuts over lol

He's convinced me it's in my head and I love him so I'll just see over time if it's me or not.

Can I ask why it didn't work with you and your aries? Was he April one too? Are you a December sag xxx


Ah. I never had that worry, mine was completely loyal always. Yes he’s April and I’m December. It’s complicated. We were together for 20 years & have 2 kids together, I’m not sure I’d call it not working out. Lol He refused to deal with some things and it took its toll. I couldn’t do it for both of us so I ended up needing to choose myself. It broke my heart to leave but it was the right decision. We still have a bond and he has my back if needed.


That's good then hun. I hope things will be ok for us. We get on so well I guess I just have to curb my emotions and be more balanced. Did you have the same issue then? I'm just trying to learn basically.


What’s your moon? And what’s his?

Yes for me balance is key. I will let things go to long & then become overwhelmed and then blow. If I stay more balanced, focus on processing things and then responding instead of reacting it’s better. I learned that in counseling later in the marriage but it sure could’ve been useful earlier on. He didn’t do very well with emotions.. he’s a Cap moon & im an aqua moon.
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I'm Leo sun cap moon and sag rising xxx I think we go together well but the mistrust I feel is horrible daily x
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Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx


I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.

We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.

Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.

Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.

You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.
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We have only ever argued over women. I'm a chilled girl but being lied too is horrible and he's terrible at it. I've two choices. I turn a blind eye or stay. Other than that it's been amazing
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Let's see the rest of his chart please.

Yes. Messed around with several.

Both had a venus in Taurus and vindictive.

What makes you think hes cheating?


you think an Aries with Taurus venus are prone to cheating?

only ask cause the fucked up Aries I was with, is the biggest loser/liar/cheater alive. Had V in Taurus
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Nope. That placement isnt prone to cheating but they will do the following

1. Keep a harem for attention reasons. Feeding an ego. Insecurity. Keeps them from forming real attachements.

2. Use other women or people to make the person they really want jealous.

This placements is also spiteful. Think of them like a venusian scorpio scorned.
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Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx


I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.

We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.

Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.

Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.

You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.


We have only ever argued over women. I'm a chilled girl but being lied too is horrible and he's terrible at it. I've two choices. I turn a blind eye or stay. Other than that it's been amazing
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So he lies?

That's a character flaw.
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What should I do if I suspect the cheating again? I can't keep going off at him..What would you do?


You have to do more than suspect. Cause right now, you sound a bit looney tunes just going off an astro placements and you havent said what is leading you to come to that conclusion and pick a fight about it.

Liars do not equal cheaters.

Did u find DMs, panties, condoms.

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Let's see the rest of his chart please.

Yes. Messed around with several.

Both had a venus in Taurus and vindictive.

What makes you think hes cheating?


you think an Aries with Taurus venus are prone to cheating?

only ask cause the fucked up Aries I was with, is the biggest loser/liar/cheater alive. Had V in Taurus


Nope. That placement isnt prone to cheating but they will do the following

1. Keep a harem for attention reasons. Feeding an ego. Insecurity. Keeps them from forming real attachements.

2. Use other women or people to make the person they really want jealous.

This placements is also spiteful. Think of them like a venusian scorpio scorned.

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Yeah he did all that to. He just a shitty person. Karma has no expiry date so he will get whats coming one day.
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Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx


I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.

We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.

Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.

Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.

You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.


We have only ever argued over women. I'm a chilled girl but being lied too is horrible and he's terrible at it. I've two choices. I turn a blind eye or stay. Other than that it's been amazing
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“Only argued over women”

Well, can we have an example? Is this a “crazy gf” kind of controlling thing, or a legitimate concern that he warranted?