Dontworrybehappy
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Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Dontworrybehappy
Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.
I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx
I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.
Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by DontworrybehappyPosted by RooSagicornPosted by Dontworrybehappy
Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.
I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx
I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.
Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.
Thanks for your reply hun. Well I am suspicious of him cheating and that's the only thing I've ever gone nuts over lol
He's convinced me it's in my head and I love him so I'll just see over time if it's me or not.
Can I ask why it didn't work with you and your aries? Was he April one too? Are you a December sag xxx
Ah. I never had that worry, mine was completely loyal always. Yes he’s April and I’m December. It’s complicated. We were together for 20 years & have 2 kids together, I’m not sure I’d call it not working out. Lol He refused to deal with some things and it took its toll. I couldn’t do it for both of us so I ended up needing to choose myself. It broke my heart to leave but it was the right decision. We still have a bond and he has my back if needed.click to expand


Posted by DMV
Let's see the rest of his chart please.
Yes. Messed around with several.
Both had a venus in Taurus and vindictive.
What makes you think hes cheating?


Posted by Dontworrybehappy
Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx

Posted by RooSagicornPosted by DontworrybehappyPosted by RooSagicornPosted by DontworrybehappyPosted by RooSagicornPosted by Dontworrybehappy
Hi Saggies xx Have you ever dated an Aries Man and what were your experiences with them? Mine is an April one.
I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx
I was married to one long term. He was actually calm must of the time, but when he got really angry it was scary!! He didn’t take it well when I ranted, so had to learn to be more balanced. Respond vs. react. In the end, that wasn’t too good for me. Well, reacting calmer yes, but not that my emotions weren’t allowed to fly lol.
Why are you getting so upset to rant? I didn’t do this until years into the relationship actually.
Thanks for your reply hun. Well I am suspicious of him cheating and that's the only thing I've ever gone nuts over lol
He's convinced me it's in my head and I love him so I'll just see over time if it's me or not.
Can I ask why it didn't work with you and your aries? Was he April one too? Are you a December sag xxx
Ah. I never had that worry, mine was completely loyal always. Yes he’s April and I’m December. It’s complicated. We were together for 20 years & have 2 kids together, I’m not sure I’d call it not working out. Lol He refused to deal with some things and it took its toll. I couldn’t do it for both of us so I ended up needing to choose myself. It broke my heart to leave but it was the right decision. We still have a bond and he has my back if needed.
That's good then hun. I hope things will be ok for us. We get on so well I guess I just have to curb my emotions and be more balanced. Did you have the same issue then? I'm just trying to learn basically.
What’s your moon? And what’s his?
Yes for me balance is key. I will let things go to long & then become overwhelmed and then blow. If I stay more balanced, focus on processing things and then responding instead of reacting it’s better. I learned that in counseling later in the marriage but it sure could’ve been useful earlier on. He didn’t do very well with emotions.. he’s a Cap moon & im an aqua moon.click to expand
Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by Dontworrybehappy
Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx
I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.
We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.
Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.
Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.
You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.click to expand

Posted by Dontworrybehappy
Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx

Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by DMV
Let's see the rest of his chart please.
Yes. Messed around with several.
Both had a venus in Taurus and vindictive.
What makes you think hes cheating?
you think an Aries with Taurus venus are prone to cheating?
only ask cause the fucked up Aries I was with, is the biggest loser/liar/cheater alive. Had V in Taurusclick to expand

Posted by DontworrybehappyPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Dontworrybehappy
Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx
I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.
We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.
Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.
Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.
You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.
We have only ever argued over women. I'm a chilled girl but being lied too is horrible and he's terrible at it. I've two choices. I turn a blind eye or stay. Other than that it's been amazingclick to expand

Posted by Dontworrybehappy
What should I do if I suspect the cheating again? I can't keep going off at him..What would you do?

Posted by DMVPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by DMV
Let's see the rest of his chart please.
Yes. Messed around with several.
Both had a venus in Taurus and vindictive.
What makes you think hes cheating?
you think an Aries with Taurus venus are prone to cheating?
only ask cause the fucked up Aries I was with, is the biggest loser/liar/cheater alive. Had V in Taurus
Nope. That placement isnt prone to cheating but they will do the following
1. Keep a harem for attention reasons. Feeding an ego. Insecurity. Keeps them from forming real attachements.
2. Use other women or people to make the person they really want jealous.
This placements is also spiteful. Think of them like a venusian scorpio scorned.
click to expand

Posted by DontworrybehappyPosted by RamOfPeacePosted by Dontworrybehappy
Alot of things. He has gem moon and venus aries xx
I am an Aries sun/Gem moon, my long term ex partner was too. And he also has Aries venus.
We both hate dramatic, loud, outwardly anxious people. Sags often are all those.
Reading your non-stop stream of overworrying thought in original post has turned me off.
Learn to be more chill, or figure out outside stressors that agitate you - work, family, birth control pills, substances, whatever.
You have no problem with your Aries dude atm. You more sound like you have a problem with emotions/stress imo.
We have only ever argued over women. I'm a chilled girl but being lied too is horrible and he's terrible at it. I've two choices. I turn a blind eye or stay. Other than that it's been amazingclick to expand
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I had a big argument last night with mine but he was so calm back to me. Feeling abit bad. Do Sag ever get annoyed and rant or is it just me? I'm usually pretty cool but this is my second one in 3 months at my bf xx