My Aries Bf sleeps with escorts

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Dontworrybehappy on Thursday, January 17, 2019 and has 29 replies.

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@Dontworrybehappy
7 Years

My bf sleeps with hookers behind my back. He denies it of course but I know he does because of evidence. Mainly change in our sex life and other things.

How on earth can I get him to admit it. He still sees me whenever I want but I want him to come clean. I think he has a sex addiction..

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

How is this not a ‘new phone who dis’ situation for you

It’s going to be a lot of hard work if this is indeed true.

And if you have proof- producing it will probably induce him to admit what you want to hear...

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@Boots1313
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dontworrybehappy

I showed him the evidence and nothing.....I'm sure it's hookers as he has a history of using them and he is available every evening as we all know you can sneak away for an hour and go unnoticed. I can pretty much get hold of him all the time.

It's hurting me so badly. The change in sex is the most obvious along with many factors.

I mean you know n

Better than anyone. But a change in sexual behavior isn't really evidence enough...it doesnt mean hookers...it could be anything.

why cant you tell the details in an open forum?. We all share a lot of pretty raunchy stuff here.

You said he always sees you and you can always reach him...so why you tripping?

If you know for sure, leave him. No reason to stay. Youre just Being foolish then.

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@starlord
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dontworrybehappy

Posted by PostHuman

Is that your most damning evidence? Change in sex?

No there are sex pills disappearing for an hour or so. Ticking money into wallet. Talking about local brothels. Suggesting to friends to use brothels. Cheating on me before. Not replying to texts in front of me. Change in sex. Excuses why he is getting too old for it when we were fine a week ago.

No contact at night to keep options open to name afew

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Since you are clearly not okay with this, why makes you stay?

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@Boots1313
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dontworrybehappy

Posted by PostHuman

Is that your most damning evidence? Change in sex?

No there are sex pills disappearing for an hour or so. Ticking money into wallet. Talking about local brothels. Suggesting to friends to use brothels. Cheating on me before. Not replying to texts in front of me. Change in sex. Excuses why he is getting too old for it when we were fine a week ago.

No contact at night to keep options open to name afew

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I read in another thread you've only been togther 4 months.

Leave his ass, you have been through all that in 4 months, and havent left him yet?

Wtf is keeping you there, you havent invested anything.

Oh and get yourself to a clinic.

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@Ram416
10 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

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@Sag898
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

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He is gay. Trust me

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@Sag898
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

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It was a long time coming in a way....

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@Sag898
8 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

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Thanks tho. Life can be brutal

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@RamOfPeace
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dontworrybehappy

My bf sleeps with hookers behind my back. He denies it of course but I know he does because of evidence. Mainly change in our sex life and other things.

How on earth can I get him to admit it. He still sees me whenever I want but I want him to come clean. I think he has a sex addiction..

“And other things” - like what? Be specific. Change in sex life alone can mean many things, and you’re drawing a pretty strong accusation with no real tangible evidence examples.

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@RamOfPeace
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Dontworrybehappy

Honestly it's true. I can't say all the evidence on an open forum but it's true.

I just want the truth. Nothing I have said will make him admit it. Our sex life is so different and I can pin point it to the weeks it changed. The things he says he almost catches himself out

So, you’re afraid of posting evidence on a random forum full of anonymous astrology geeks. Cool. Go get your attention dose somewhere else. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Sag898

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

👀👀👀😲

Right? I was gonna make a thread lol just to update you guys

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You should. Like how do you even process information like that?! I mean, you can't help who you like but still...you have to be in some type of shock finding out?!

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Posted by Ram416

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

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Pre op or post op tho...

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Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

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What the fuck is the point of being gay if you're into men who look like women? Might as well be straight for god's sake. I want my man to LOOK like a man, with meat and muscles and short hair. Not "that".

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Posted by Dontworrybehappy

My bf sleeps with hookers behind my back. He denies it of course but I know he does because of evidence. Mainly change in our sex life and other things.

How on earth can I get him to admit it. He still sees me whenever I want but I want him to come clean. I think he has a sex addiction..

Uh, DUH, isn't this your tag line?

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by Ram416

Posted by Sag898

Yeah. This is how I found my ex Leo was gay last Saturday. It was a trans. 22 years old. He's love with "her". It's how some people live....

Straight man with transwoman is still considered straight.

Transwomen don't identify as male.

But yeah, go ahead and think what you want.

Sorry for your loss though.

And? If they got a penis they still male

Even after really

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No.

The only thing that determines gender is the person themselves regardless of genitals.

Also if the dude is gay he's gonna be disappointed when she fully transitions...

Or maybe he's bi?

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by tastemy

I have had a Sag ex whom I had suspicions of seeing prostitutes/escorts.

He would deny it, tell me stupid ass shit. That he was calling them to mess with them. That he sets up appointments but doesn't show up.

Eventually I left him. And he didn't admit it until we were broken up for a few weeks.

Even though I knew. It still felt good to hear it, because he kept making me feel like I was crazy.

It really does help with closure and it helped me realize I made the right choice.

A mf trying to make me think I'm crazy is the worst offense.

Stickya dick where you want. Just keep it away from my head cause ain't no whole in it.