Calling ALL SAGs I Need help!

So I'm talking to this guy Who's born Dec 15 that's all I know so far ... We instantly clicked .. I'm a Taurus and I don't usually get along with sag men but I'm willing to try this guy out he seems so much more mature then the other sags I've talked to . We saw eachother before he left on vacation but he will be back in June . I like him a lot but I'm a little worried about some things .. He don't really initiate conversation but when I text him I get a response back withthin 3 mins all the time . Is he just being nice or he just not interested ? Also we have t talked since he left on vacation which was last week . I decided to give him space until he gets back but idk if it's a good idea or not but I also don't wanna keep initiating conversations with him .. Any advice?

I def do agree .. & im not into chasing . If he don't reach out when he gets back then that's a clear sign for me to just move on .

You can reach out asking him how his vacation went.

Then let him do the chasing to gauge his interest in you.

I appreciate both responses ... I'll figure it out ... My sister is dating a sag and I noticed how he's chasing her .. Surprising her at work , good morning texts . Blah blah we both met our sag guys around the same time they've been talking two weeks and he's already asked to be more .. And she never had to initiate conversation .. for the past few days we've talked I've initiated everything I've chased now I'm done .. He is a very open person and blunt so I feel like if he wanted to talk to me he would ...

Posted by sagscorpcusp
Yes give him space. This would be really difficult but you know it . Woman having to initiate is not a healthy sign.

So you wouldn't take a chance with a bull because why?

Posted by FyzaGememiee
@sagscorpcusp

It's not arguing, that's call debating skills. 😆

Maybe you're a Sag who have lots of water in your chart? I am a Gemini dominant and the Sag I was with, previously is also a Sag dominant.

We do have arguments and can be ugly sometimes but me having Libra mars and lots of Libra placement really helps alot in those hard times.

So for me, Geminis are capable of loving and be faithful once they found them a true soul connection. The thing is that other signs always think we are flirting with the others when we were just being friendly and polite.

If you're talking about cheating or going after married men, all signs are capable of doing that buddy. You're generalizing. 😢

Muahz.

Posted by DMV
You can reach out asking him how his vacation went.

Then let him do the chasing to gauge his interest in you.

I agree with this. Just some light conversation, especially since he's on vacation. Let him enjoy it.

I'm a libra with a Sag. He initiated quite a bit to get with me. So I agree, let him do the chasing. If he doesn't, he may not be as interested as you think.

Sidenote OP, I know about 4 Sag men (not a large amount) but the ones I do know are with Libra or Taurus women. So just see what happens. I wish the best for you.

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
So I'm talking to this guy Who's born Dec 15 that's all I know so far ... We instantly clicked .. I'm a Taurus and I don't usually get along with sag men but I'm willing to try this guy out he seems so much more mature then the other sags I've talked to . We saw eachother before he left on vacation but he will be back in June . I like him a lot but I'm a little worried about some things .. He don't really initiate conversation but when I text him I get a response back withthin 3 mins all the time . Is he just being nice or he just not interested ? Also we have t talked since he left on vacation which was last week . I decided to give him space until he gets back but idk if it's a good idea or not but I also don't wanna keep initiating conversations with him .. Any advice?

first he may have needed some time to decide how much he liked u . But going on vacation without u means he s not that intersted or he d be contacting u telling u he was thinking of u. I would not be " initiating " contact with him

Posted by jane84

Posted by DMV
You can reach out asking him how his vacation went.

Then let him do the chasing to gauge his interest in you.

I agree with this. Just some light conversation, especially since he's on vacation. Let him enjoy it.

I'm a libra with a Sag. He initiated quite a bit to get with me. So I agree, let him do the chasing. If he doesn't, he may not be as interested as you think.

Sidenote OP, I know about 4 Sag men (not a large amount) but the ones I do know are with Libra or Taurus women. So just see what happens. I wish the best for you.

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I wouldnt ask how a vacation went ..where I wasn't invited or nothing shared along the way with me. That almost seems already controlling

I wouldn't even try. It's a frustrating combination.

Posted by jane84

Posted by DMV
You can reach out asking him how his vacation went.

Then let him do the chasing to gauge his interest in you.

I agree with this. Just some light conversation, especially since he's on vacation. Let him enjoy it.

I'm a libra with a Sag. He initiated quite a bit to get with me. So I agree, let him do the chasing. If he doesn't, he may not be as interested as you think.

Sidenote OP, I know about 4 Sag men (not a large amount) but the ones I do know are with Libra or Taurus women. So just see what happens. I wish the best for you.

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Agreed. I know a sag/taurus couple. 10 years and counting.

I happen to like taurus men

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Posted by jane84

Posted by DMV
You can reach out asking him how his vacation went.

Then let him do the chasing to gauge his interest in you.

I agree with this. Just some light conversation, especially since he's on vacation. Let him enjoy it.

I'm a libra with a Sag. He initiated quite a bit to get with me. So I agree, let him do the chasing. If he doesn't, he may not be as interested as you think.

Sidenote OP, I know about 4 Sag men (not a large amount) but the ones I do know are with Libra or Taurus women. So just see what happens. I wish the best for you.

Agreed. I know a sag/taurus couple. 10 years and counting.

I happen to like taurus men

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My cousin is a Taurus and his wife is a Sag. My coworker is a Taurus female and her husband is a Sag.

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Posted by Wynter
I wouldn't even try. It's a frustrating combination.

I still don't know why taurus and cancer love us ugh

I hate my self with them”

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Why?

He's on vacation to visit his family since he only gets to visit once a year ... We haven't even known eachother not even a good month why would any man take me on a family vacation that early ..as for him
Not contacting me while he's on vacation saying he misses me I dont feel like we have invested enough time with eachother for him to miss me .. I don't even miss him ..That's not my concern . My concern is just getting him to intiate conversation or say and give me something to show he's interested .. That's what bothering me .. & I understand how me and sag men clash .. We are either really good or really bad & this one feels different. How many sag men do you know that will sit home & chill & watch TV on the weekends ? I don't know ANY .. They are usually always out doing something ! Use to drive me nuts ! That they were always on the go ! Lol

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
So I'm talking to this guy Who's born Dec 15 that's all I know so far ... We instantly clicked .. I'm a Taurus and I don't usually get along with sag men but I'm willing to try this guy out he seems so much more mature then the other sags I've talked to . We saw eachother before he left on vacation but he will be back in June . I like him a lot but I'm a little worried about some things .. He don't really initiate conversation but when I text him I get a response back withthin 3 mins all the time . Is he just being nice or he just not interested ? Also we have t talked since he left on vacation which was last week . I decided to give him space until he gets back but idk if it's a good idea or not but I also don't wanna keep initiating conversations with him .. Any advice?

Girl I haven't read your thread. But, if he is sincere and responds then trust in that. Do not lose hope. Have faith. Give him some faith and go to bed.

Posted by sagscorpcusp
If sags don't initiate then i don't know who will .

I'm a Sag moon, and I'm definitely always ready to get it done. Even if I look like a fool.

OK I haven't read the responses here so sorry if it's been said.

This is a delicate balance because since he's a man, you need to let him miss you and want to reach out to you, but, since he's also a sag he might get distracted by something else that catches his interest. Not saying he's not interested but if you go too long not being in his life, he might forget you at some point.

I HIGHLY recommend not putting so much energy and effort into staying in touch by texting, but use texting to make plans to do things with him in real life! Sagis love action, and being upfront, no BS. If you text him specifically asking him if he's interested in doing something (suggest something active), he'll either be all about it, in that case he's interested, or have other plans already. If he has other plans but wants a rain check, he's interested. if he has other plans, and just says sorry, or something like that, he might have lost interest.

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
He's on vacation to visit his family since he only gets to visit once a year ... We haven't even known eachother not even a good month why would any man take me on a family vacation that early ..as for him
Not contacting me while he's on vacation saying he misses me I dont feel like we have invested enough time with eachother for him to miss me .. I don't even miss him ..That's not my concern . My concern is just getting him to intiate conversation or say and give me something to show he's interested .. That's what bothering me .. & I understand how me and sag men clash .. We are either really good or really bad & this one feels different. How many sag men do you know that will sit home & chill & watch TV on the weekends ? I don't know ANY .. They are usually always out doing something ! Use to drive me nuts ! That they were always on the go ! Lol

it ia YOU wo ritkles this post " need help". U must have some doze of leo in u don't u? U don't stand by yiur words and rhen twist mine ( for exmaple). I didn't write " missing u", i said "thinking of u" or sharig in his own. U seem to have posted a huge post about nothing techically . " your main CONcERn being. .. "..." how to MAKE h i m inititate". Jesus. He ll have sex with u don't worry.

U " don't usually click with sags" but " willing tp TRY this guy". SO... The "trial "has BEGUN. . U ll persist like a stubborn taurus.u want to MAKEhim" " inititate"... Very " mature" approach. 🙂. Then go and ask for " help" even ir s been " only a a monrh and " u don't miss him ". U " instantly clicked " yet... u " would like him to give u a sign he was interested". Go figure.

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Posted by BeautyandTheBull
He's on vacation to visit his family since he only gets to visit once a year ... We haven't even known eachother not even a good month why would any man take me on a family vacation that early ..as for him
Not contacting me while he's on vacation saying he misses me I dont feel like we have invested enough time with eachother for him to miss me .. I don't even miss him ..That's not my concern . My concern is just getting him to intiate conversation or say and give me something to show he's interested .. That's what bothering me .. & I understand how me and sag men clash .. We are either really good or really bad & this one feels different. How many sag men do you know that will sit home & chill & watch TV on the weekends ? I don't know ANY .. They are usually always out doing something ! Use to drive me nuts ! That they were always on the go ! Lol

it ia YOU wo ritkles this post " need help". U must have some doze of leo in u don't u? U don't stand by yiur words and rhen twist mine ( for exmaple). I didn't write " missing u", i said "thinking of u" or sharig in his own. U seem to have posted a huge post about nothing techically . " your main CONcERn being. .. "..." how to MAKE h i m inititate". Jesus. He ll have sex with u don't worry.

This is how i used to type when i used to skype with my gf (if you know what i mean ) !

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well not in my case, though i suspect what u " mean" . U are a monkey beater right? . Nowadays everyone takes pride in spelling "correctly". Thanks to the.... Spell checker. I am a sagittarius and like to be different. I don't need a spell checker when it truly matters.

Younowho. Hope u dont need skype Amy more and yOUr giRl is safely with you 🙂.

Posted by Wynter
I wouldn't even try. It's a frustrating combination.

I had a Taurus with all other planets in Aries. Plus Moon in Cancer.

We had a peaceful and joyful time together. I'm still trying to pin down why we ended it.

Unfortunately enough I have Uranus square Mercury to make things worse.
And Moon square Venus. So maybe for that reason.

"you can't be too intense on a Sag"

I have no problem with intensity. But density over time. And demanding/expecting behavior. If somebody calls me twice without waiting for my callback, then he's lost it. Or calling multiple times on the same day.


The number one channel through a Sag's heart is friendship. As long as you find reasons and subjects to initiate conversations (or going to places together), you have a big chance to take his/her heart. That is even if at the beginning he/she said no, her/his heart will change.

^^^^^^ That is if you are focusing on usual dating themse and signs and flags, then you are doing it wrong. Be and show a window o new worlds and advantures, there you have the key.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
"you can't be too intense on a Sag"

I have no problem with intensity. But density over time. And demanding/expecting behavior. If somebody calls me twice without waiting for my callback, then he's lost it. Or calling multiple times on the same day.


The number one channel through a Sag's heart is friendship. As long as you find reasons and subjects to initiate conversations (or going to places together), you have a big chance to take his/her heart. That is even if at the beginning he/she said no, her/his heart will change.

^^^^^^ That is if you are focusing on usual dating themse and signs and flags, then you are doing it wrong. Be and show a window o new worlds and advantures, there you have the key.

The last sentence is crucial.

Even if it means a different movie out the redbox

^^^^^^^^^agreed.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
^^^^^^^^^agreed.

i think the lady is trying find a way to " MAKE him INITIATE". Ir s an oxymoron... o 🙂

lol

Agreed, if you can show me something new and interesting, I'll pack my bags and hop on the next train with ya 🙂 The Saggy thirst for adventure and freedom is real! My Taurus ex was great because he was always willing to come with me and check out new things. He was easy going and that's what made us click.

With my Cap, he isn't that adventurous (snobby and stubborn sometimes), but he's great in bed, and cool/fascinating.

So I guess...be fun or be mindblowing in the sack! 🙂

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
So I'm talking to this guy Who's born Dec 15 that's all I know so far ... We instantly clicked .. I'm a Taurus and I don't usually get along with sag men but I'm willing to try this guy out he seems so much more mature then the other sags I've talked to . We saw eachother before he left on vacation but he will be back in June . I like him a lot but I'm a little worried about some things .. He don't really initiate conversation but when I text him I get a response back withthin 3 mins all the time . Is he just being nice or he just not interested ? Also we have t talked since he left on vacation which was last week . I decided to give him space until he gets back but idk if it's a good idea or not but I also don't wanna keep initiating conversations with him .. Any advice?

There is no such thing as a mature sag.

No! True story. They're all like a bunch of spoiled snotty little brats.

Except Wynter, of course.
LOL, Wynter

Have a nice day and don't forget to smile.

🙂