Confusion sucks, please help me out of it

Here is the Deal, I finally got the guts to tell this girl how I feel about her and I sort of asked her out. She did not exactly give me an answer I could comprehend, she said that I was really sweet and she gave me this look that only girls know how to give that makes you wish time would freeze. She also told me that I had guts because I went up to her myself. But she said she was sort of involved in a relationship right now. I do not think she is TOO serious with the guy though, but than again, what do I know. Than on the last day of school, I gave her a little "happy summer" present, than she said I really was a sweetie and that I had restored her faith in mankind. I felt really good hearing that, but I do not know if she has any interest in me in a love romantic way or if she only wants to be my friend. I think she is still with her (lucky) boyfriend, and I am still so completely in love with her that I cannot seem to get her off my mind. I need some guidance and some advice on what to do about this, I have never been in a situation like this one. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

-Grandmaster B

I saw your post under Taurus and I responded. In case you didn't see it, I will copy it for you. Here it is..."Here is a true story for you and perhaps it will help. My ex-husband (and still very, very close friend) pursued me relentlessly (he is a Taurus) while I was engaged to someone else. He never gave up. We worked for the same company and he took me to lunch (what I thought was just as friends), sent me roses, made me things, etc. I had no real idea he was after me in that way. After about 4-6 months of this, one day I woke up and realized I had strong feelings for him. To make a long story short, I married him instead (for seven years). It all depends on how much you want someone. Don?t give up. She may not look at you more than friends right now BUT who?s to say how she will look at you down the road"...If you need any more advice or want to know the cute things he did to grab my attention, I will be more than happy to tell you.

To the lady who responded, please tell me what your husband did to get your attention, I'll beg you If I have to!Please Please Please!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thankyou for your response!

-Grandmaster B

I'd be happy to. I will work on it today and send it to you as soon as I can.

This could get lengthy so I will send it in sections.

Section I This began @ the end of the summer and I was living with my boyfriend. Here we go?at first I didn?t like him at all. I thought he was cocky and obnoxious which is something I dislike very much in men. He is a large guy, i.e., 6?6? and about 260 lbs. I am 5?3? and 118 lbs. In any event, he started by just joking around with me @ work, would poke fun at me. For instance, I have very, very long blonde hair (can almost sit on it) and he nicknamed me ?Cousin It? from the movie The Adams Family. He found a picture of ?cousin It?, cut it out and taped it to my desk. That?s how the friendship started, making fun of each other. Like one of the guys I suppose. I was having a really bad day once so he TOLD me (not asked me) that he was going to make the next day ?Debi?s day?. He said, ?We are going out to lunch and I will be nice to you all day?. I liked that kind of control and confidence he gave off. I said OK and so we did. He took me to a nice restaurant and was so sugar sweet to me (on purpose of course) for the entire day. The next day he was obnoxious again. We worked for a very casual company so when the boss wasn?t around he?d come up behind me, throw me over his shoulder and walk around the building like that. It was fun. He started taking me out to lunch more often or should I say ?Debi?s day? turned out to be a couple of times a week. It went from lunches to Happy Hour after work. He traveled @ times for the company and would buy me little things and ship them from where he was to work. This was still a friendship but I started looking forward to seeing him very much and my feelings were changing. Thanksgiving weekend my boyfriend decides to propose. Confused about my feelings I said yes. When I got to work Monday I told him and showed him the ring. He congratulated me and did not let me see his disappointment (I heard about it later from a friend). Let me end this chapter by saying he didn?t care that I was engaged. He wanted me and kept pursuing me. I?ll give you more details about that later. Have to do some work now.

Hey I think the only thing you can do Grandmaster B is sit back and wait for a while. This chick you like might like you too. Give her a chance to think over things about you.

Well Grandmaster B , first of all is this woman a Sag? and if she is , I'll start by saying, A Sag girl is pretty forward so if she's interested she will let you know when she feels it appropriate, you really never know with a sag woman, I would need a little more details to help you? What is your sign?

I am a taurus guy, yeah she is a sag. I dont know if I give her too much space or what. I really like her, but if she DIDN'T like me, wouldn't she have told me? I mean i can take it if she doesn't. She has confused me a lot. Maybe I should talk to her more or something, I honestly dont know what to do, i wish she would be blunt like sag girls are known for. It did seem like she had a little interest in me sometimes, but I dont know if she was just being friendly. So ummm yeah whats up with that? I dont want to put her on the spot and give off a bad answer because she wasn't ready. Please help me if you can.

-Grandmaster B

She has already told you she isn't interested and you are just not listening. She said she was involved with someone else. Until that status changes you are only her friend and if you want to get under her skin just be around her in the way any friend would, make it fun to be with you not a worry. If she feels happy in your prescence she will look forward to your company. But ultimately you cannot force her to have feelings she doesn't and she will probably still be nice to you which doesn't mean she is interested. She will let you know when and if she is now that she knows you are available to her. Until then, be a buddy and go out with other girls so you seem don't seem desperate.