Did I really say that?

Had 3rd date with sag cop man. We've spoken daily, multiple times for weeks. Live 100 miles apart so seeing each other often not too easy. He's been a little fearful at times, as if to self-sabotage only to come back around quickly. Actually told me in the beginning he has a tendency to do that when getting close to a woman.

So, today Im showing him my city, mini sightseeing after breakfast date. Pass by the church I got married in, I make a comment how beautiful it is. Here's what was said:

Me: This is the church I married in
Him: How'd that work out?
Me: Wedding was great, marriage not so great
Him: Do you see yourself getting married again, do you want to re-marry?
Me: (Without having given it one iota of thought) Yes! absolutely I do. for sure.

Hours later, I'm thinking..."What in hell?" Where did that answer come from? Normally, I take at least a few minutes to think about it, or at least think about WHO was asking the question. Truth is, I dont know if I want to remarry. I do know I want a partner/relationship and eventually live together. I'm just wondering why I answered so unequivocally in the affirmative.

And of course, my scorp moon now wonders why he asked that? Or if it was his scorp venus "testing"? He has asked what appear to be several test questions lately. What would I think about living in Tennessee (Where he wants to retire one day). Am I going to be such a challenge to him 20 years from now when we're married? Will he have to wait till our honeymoon till I give him some lovin? (LOL) We had already had plans for him to come here next Friday with his 15 yr old son for a basketball game,(dinner only before he and son attend game). At the end of the date, he asks if Id like them to sleep over in my city so the next day we can so some more sightseeing, beach stuff during the day. 🙂

I like him. He treats me well, but it's not love for me yet. Im just wondering why I let the remarrying answer out as I did. Hmmmm.....

i think the answer is instinctive to whomever is asking tbh. there's only one man i did what you did with and you know who that is.... 😉 anybody else asks me and i'm absolutely adamant i will never marry again. you meet some people and they make you feel more open to the idea. that's not to say you're in love with them or that you're anywhere near making a commitment even...but they have you thinking ahead in a way you wouldn't with someone else 🙂

tbh though, I think he was just asking generally...as you would when getting to know someone. you seeing the church you married in opened the topic. as for the other little marriage 'hints', i think he's just besotted with you 🙂

Thanks, lady friends 🙂

I think MeToo speaks the truth....I do want to remarry. I guess I want that commitment, security or whatever it is Hallmark keeps trying to sell me. 😛

Roxi, I hear ya. And I hope he is besotted with me 🙂 As you know, he and his son are coming here next weekend so I can show them Miami. It's nice to find a man who wants to include me with his children.