do sags nag by nature

My mother is a sagitarius and she really gets on my nerves about stupid little things. Like for instance yesterday she told my dad that she would no longer make any dinner or meals for me and my little bro/sis b/c I am 18 and I should be able to cook.

The country where she comes from a girl should be able to cook meals for her family around age 15+ . The thing she doesn't realize is that it's not like that in america. Not only that but I dont' care to cook. I get distracted so easily so cooking, especially a big meal, isn't something I should be doing. NOw if I burn a boiled egg what makes you think i can cook up a 3 course meal? She just nags about everythign and doesn't accept the fact that I'm me and she can't change me. Any advice?

Hey Pisceschica!! Well....Nags would not be the word I would use for all of the Sagi's I know... including myself :o), but I do know we can be very impulsive and blunt...it's a fire sign trait. I know for me I've said things out of being upset or feeling pushed to the limit and then regretting what I said later ...after I've calmed down a bit. Maybe she's stressed out or something is bothering her?? Or she's feeling underappreciated—

NO NOT AT ALL. This has been an ongoing thing but now she's taken it to the point of nagging everyday about it and saying that she's not going to cook anymore. She's just difficult for me to deal with. And when she tells me to do things she always wants it done right then and there I don't care as long as it's done and it's not time sensitive like getting the laundry done before the weekdays.

She has alot of energy at 40. I'm a lazy ass fish at the young age of 18. She gets mad when I laz around and do nothing all day and keeps lecturing me about how i should be more repsonsible since i'm 18. now that she's lost her job temporarily she's doing it even more now than before. That's why I won't be home during the summer :-P

Good advice Parallax!! :o) I know when I was 18 and living at home....my mom's rule was ...as long as you live in this house and I'm paying for mostly everything then you gotta follow by my rules. It doesn't help that she lost her job too. Deal with it for now and later when you move out you'll be able to be the lazy ass that you want to be. HA!! Funny cuz a really good friend of mine is a Pisces and she likes to laze around too, but she's also a clean freak so she's the one who ends up picking up after her mother! Good luck to ya!!

If you're living at home, you should be helping out around the house. She's your mother, she raised you, now she doesn't have a job (whether temporarily or not) and I'm sure that's just one more thing she has to stress about. Because I am still living at home, I do most of the cleaning (but little of the cooking, only because pretty much none of us cook around here anyway and we usually get takeout). I also pay rent. In addition to paying my bills. So, if you're getting to be lazy and all that good stuff, I'd say your mother is pretty easy to live with after all, wouldn't you say? I don't know, I was always made to do lots of chores growing up and nothing's changed about that, if anything I've willingly taken on more responsibility as I've gotten older, seeing as how I actually feel guilty that I'm even still at home. I think your mother should stop cooking, then you will have to see what she goes through to keep you fed. Anyway, my parents would be mad at me too, if I lazed around all day. Do you have a job? Are you a college student? If not, perhaps the two of you would annoy each other less if you picked one or both of those avenues in life (at least you wouldn't be around her as much). If you are already working and/or going to school, you should still help out around the house if you're living at home. Remember, technically she could kick you out at any moment if she wants to - you're of the legal age.