Fell for the wrong person

I just need express my feelings to some fellow sag. Back in July I met a Capricorn that I bonded with well. Over time I have fallen head over heels for him, I always loved his company, but I had just got out of a 10 year relationship and offered no strings attached with cappy. Ever since than he went weird. He went into his man cave a lot, I let him be, he always came back, but he would just be a dick. I don't usually have patience, but for him I just took it and dealt with it. Almost 2 months ago we went to a soccer game together.....after that I never heard from.him again, other than an odd comment on a video of mine on social media. I'm still thinking about him hard, but things can never be with us. Ever since we stopped talking my life has flipped upside down . Things haven't been well for me at all. I want to let go and I need to let go of him, but I CAN'T ??. There is something that is just not allowing me to let go. 2 months, usually feelings start to fizzle. I hate that I'm thinking about someone who gives no craps about me.

Has anyone here experienced this?

Posted by Chupka
I just need express my feelings to some fellow sag. Back in July I met a Capricorn that I bonded with well. Over time I have fallen head over heels for him, I always loved his company, but I had just got out of a 10 year relationship and offered no strings attached with cappy. Ever since than he went weird. He went into his man cave a lot, I let him be, he always came back, but he would just be a dick. I don't usually have patience, but for him I just took it and dealt with it. Almost 2 months ago we went to a soccer game together.....after that I never heard from.him again, other than an odd comment on a video of mine on social media. I'm still thinking about him hard, but things can never be with us. Ever since we stopped talking my life has flipped upside down . Things haven't been well for me at all. I want to let go and I need to let go of him, but I CAN'T ??. There is something that is just not allowing me to let go. 2 months, usually feelings start to fizzle. I hate that I'm thinking about someone who gives no craps about me.

Has anyone here experienced this?

The story of my life...well sort of......

if you truly can't let go....usually there's a reason.....and sometimes the reason is that the relationship will come around again...at least in some other form.

also

sometimes it's because you haven't learned what you're supposed to learn from that person/relationship

Thanks for both your responses. Letting go is hard. I've apologized to him for the whole fwb. I do love him, I really do. So I just need to be patient with myself, I know eventually I will let go. But right now my heart is in pain ?

Posted by tiziani
I'm not sure why you feel the need to let go, or that "things can never be" with you? No doubt I have no idea about the full story but wouldn't it be easier to approach it from a more practical level? I mean every time you don't talk with each other, you feel worse off. So take better care of yourself and do what makes sense for you, rather than just telling yourself hurtful thoughts that aren't doing you any favours. My 2 cents.

More like like things will never be with him. Too much damage has been done. I'm just going to see what time has to bring. I'm holding from approaching him because when this stuff comes up he ignores me or responds with sarcasm. No point.