Has this Sag moved on?

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Lissanth
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16 Years

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So I broke up with Sag man a few weeks ago. In that time at first he was angry with me. I had hopes he would come back. Then last week i asked to see him, he came over immediately and i still felt an attraction between us and that he cared. He embraced me several times and kissed me on the mouth and said he would call. Our time was cut short because of an emergency he had. He messsaged me that night saying he was sorry he had to leave and that it was nice seeing me and he would be in touch. He went out of town for the weekend with friends. He called me both nights he was gone and we were on the phone for a long period time both times. I messaged him the day of his return to ask how his drive over went, no reply. He then calls me 2 days later but i was upset and i didn't want to talk to him so that i wouldn't take my anger out on him. So we didn't speak. He told me to call when I wanted to talk then. I called several days later, but he missed my call as it was late and he was sleeping. He called me the next day and we spoke for a bit. I felt disappointed because he sounded so happy and carefree unlike me who has been missing him and wanting to see him. He said he would call me later. That was today.

So, i feel jealous and a bit sad because i have been missing him and wanting to see him, yet he has not asked to see me or even included me in any plans that he has.

Should I take this that he's moved on and I am now in the friend's zone? Someone he doesn't really have romantic feelings for anymore and has moved on with his life?
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lookoutbelow84093
@lookoutbelow84093
15 Years

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Liss again im not a Sagittarius, im a libra so might want to take what I say as such. But to me, it sounds like he is still interested. I know when there is someone im into it generally takes me some time to really get "over" them. You said you waited a few days to get back to him once? If I saw that I would interpret it as your not interested or playing mind games, and would distance myself some. However, your still talking, he still kissed you, he still is putting some effort in. For me at least... I dont really care what kind of effort, but if I can see some thats a big encouragement. Effort=calling, texting, communicating in any way, grabbing my pants (I like have my gluteous massaged, left preferrably), throwing soft things at me, getting mad at me, sex, good looks, dirty looks, sex, sexting, massaging my other glutious, sex, really whatever works for them.... Its when I see nothing that I finally scoot.
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DMV
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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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saggis move lovers to the friend category better and quicker than any other sign. geez saggis are so good at blurring the lines.

i still feel the same LOYALTY, caring, and love for my exes. but its not with the same intensity or degree.

since were talking, why are you still talking to him this much after the breakup? if u want to get back together, say so. you cant get pissy at him because hes didnt talk to you when you wanted to talk. your broken up. he'll call when he gets around to calling "his friends." you cannot expect the same level of commitment and attention.

maybe he is starting to feel like why are you guys talking so much..your supposed to be broken up.

who broke up with who?