He doesn't want to be friends, does he?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by LivingOnPorpoise on Friday, September 12, 2014 and has 6 replies.

Understanding If He Wants to Be Friends

He may not want a friendship if he stops responding and doesn't pursue further contact. This often indicates disinterest or a desire to move on, especially if he reaches out and you ignore him. Respecting boundaries is key, and it is unlikely you are closing the door to friendship if he chooses not to engage.

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@LivingOnPorpoise
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So say you're pinning on a particular relationship sagg's you aren't as patient in your attempts so you lose the person and many memories. It's like a game of tug and war for the attention, you give up pursuing but you get reeled in the idea of friendship although you want more. You and this person go separate ways. They reach back out and you don't reply. Are you closing the avenue for friendship? Getting payback? or simply don't care to be bothered?

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Lol ok makes sense, I for one have a low attention span, he was one of my coolest friends though. I don't think it's worth it working to get his attention.

But yeah you sagg's are awesome!

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Oh no it was on my part I kept asking to just be his friend, he told me it wasn't possible if you know how much I really liked you. From then on we just kinda drifted. Lhasa you are right though it was getting complicated.

I wish I had took a shot at it, but he claimed too many guys wanted my attention and I was indecisive to just try.

I got lots of fire/air in my chart which works both for me and against me.

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Thanks, I will note this wisely. I feel now I will wait to see what happens. I just really hoped for friendship more than anything as I know we clicked like no other person I had met before, memorable to this day.
I've always attracted saggs and they would pop back up this one seems different.