So say you're pinning on a particular relationship sagg's you aren't as patient in your attempts so you lose the person and many memories. It's like a game of tug and war for the attention, you give up pursuing but you get reeled in the idea of friendship although you want more. You and this person go separate ways. They reach back out and you don't reply. Are you closing the avenue for friendship? Getting payback? or simply don't care to be bothered?
