Sagitarius Man Hoodini Act

Hey so have been seeing Sag guy casually for a year. We got together regularly over a 6 month period, hanging out, doing fun activities, getting physical. Chemistry is amazing! At least I thought that's how he felt too. Said he thought the world of me, I thought he was falling for me. Holding my hand, hugging, kissing. I thought it was going somewhere.

After 6 mos he starts making excuses not to hang out anymore. Tired, too busy, got family stuff, helping friends. I asked him what was wrong but he wouldn't be straight with me. He would be hot & cold like no tomorrow.

Since then he still is in contact by text alot and by phone, being open about things he is up to. Even telling me his sister was terminal and texting to say that moments ago she lost the fight.

Says he has other female friends and brings up when he has done things for them like fixing things around their homes. Some of these ladies are married.

Anyway he cut out seeing me for anything physical without an explanation. Seems he wants me around for texting mostly. I got fed up & slowly started to fade out, keep texts short, then finally stopping all contact. Two weeks later he texts out of the blue offering to pick me up from work & drive me home (??). Said he was on his way without asking my permission. This guy is weird. Two weeks of silence and then this. I was moving on. Needless to say I declined his offer for a ride.

Can anybody explain this dude's behavior? I am no longer interested.

That’s just how we are 🤷🏾‍♂️

Just keeping his rotation strong.

Honestly probably better sex other places and reprioritized due to sister OR he felt guilty until he dropped another one.

You both were silent for 2 weeks.....

But good move being done with this.

He sounds like he has alot going on

Posted by Goddessgirl

Hey so have been seeing Sag guy casually for a year. We got together regularly over a 6 month period, hanging out, doing fun activities, getting physical. Chemistry is amazing! At least I thought that's how he felt too. Said he thought the world of me, I thought he was falling for me. Holding my hand, hugging, kissing. I thought it was going somewhere.

After 6 mos he starts making excuses not to hang out anymore. Tired, too busy, got family stuff, helping friends. I asked him what was wrong but he wouldn't be straight with me. He would be hot & cold like no tomorrow.

Since then he still is in contact by text alot and by phone, being open about things he is up to. Even telling me his sister was terminal and texting to say that moments ago she lost the fight.

Says he has other female friends and brings up when he has done things for them like fixing things around their homes. Some of these ladies are married.

Anyway he cut out seeing me for anything physical without an explanation. Seems he wants me around for texting mostly. I got fed up & slowly started to fade out, keep texts short, then finally stopping all contact. Two weeks later he texts out of the blue offering to pick me up from work & drive me home (??). Said he was on his way without asking my permission. This guy is weird. Two weeks of silence and then this. I was moving on. Needless to say I declined his offer for a ride.

Can anybody explain this dude's behavior? I am no longer interested.

I went through something very similar with a Sag and ended up the same - I think he stopped calling finally - he would call like twice a year and I treated it like a friendly call to catch up but he would try to start up again like come over we'll go out blah blah ... the last time I was like whatever dude ha he hasn't called in a year so I hope he gave up finally.

Posted by Goddessgirl

Even telling me his sister was terminal and texting to say that moments ago she lost the fight.

Ummm he lost his sister to some kind of terminal disease and your mad he hasn't been hanging out with you as much?

I can't even imagine how hurt, depressed, and alone he feels right now having to watch her health decline and then losing a family member like that. The least you could do is be understanding of why he is mia.

And look, he is now making the effort.

But if your ego is more important than your affection for him, ghost him completely and be done with it.

Sounds like it's over