Help a heartbroken taurus =(

Hi Everyone,

i have a pretty bad situation. My ex girlfriend is a saggitarian and we were going out for a month and a half and it was all going good until she found a letter i had open on my computer before i went to work. I had strong feelings for a girl about 2 months before i met amy and the letter pretty much said how sad i was without her, how much i missed her and how hollow i feel. I know taurus' loves HARD when they do, and i coulden't agree more, she was a libra and broke my heart, went through the whole "first love phase". I know i'm only 20, but i'm old enough to know what true love really is.

In the letter it pretty much said that i was frightened that i might not find a girl like her again, she moved away back with family and it was a very strange love/hate relationship. She far too social and demanding of me, i felt so drained for the 4 months that i knew her but at the same time i was deeply in love. The day i said my final goodbye to her, i coulden't goto work because i was so depressed, i cried and cried for weeks, completely heartbroken. I'm such a softie i know but i really loved her.

Now with amy having read the letter just saying final goodbyes to jennifer, i feel so horrible for hurting her, she was starting to fall in love with me and i was still so cut up about jennifer. It all happened so so fast and now that Amy is heartbroken and no longer trusts me, i feel so alone and depressed. I wrote her a long letter telling her that i miss her so much and i didn't realise what i had with her until i lost her...cruel i know but sometimes you don't know what you truly have until it's gone.

I feel i could fall in love with Amy, i was just so cautious and scared that i woulden't be able to open up. How can i win her back? How do you win back a Sag? I know trust is so important to them and i scared that i have shattered it all towards me.

Thanks,

Hi,
I feel for you, i've been there before.
Speaking as a Sagittarian my suggestion to you is that you persisently try and win Amy back through telephone calls, flowers etc. Otherwise if you dont she will think that you were never sincere about her at all, and i'm sure you were. Do not give up on her.
Good luck.

Angela

Davezor....she found your letter on your computer......how come?
Had you forgot to close your screen or was she going through your stuff?
See, how my cynical mind is working.........but there are areas of private stuff in a person's life that are almost sacred and shouldn't be entered into by anyone such as with computers and mobile phones!!as I know to my cost.

Seriously though, I can feel how hurt you are and how genuine you are.
What you've got to make Amy see is that your feelings then for Jen - well they were in another time and another place - yes, you still have fond memories but what are memories—?....you can't hug or kiss a memory in the present moment and in this moment in your life you want Amy.......both of you are so young and vulnerable - I remember being twenty - the world stopped spinning when I found out the guy I thought loved didn't love or want me.....
I've always foung sags forgiving esp. when you speak from the heart to them - there will be little huffs and puffs but ultimately they come back and all is forgiven....so like Angela says.....be persistant but without being clingy.....be bold without being naive, do what you have to do - if you had only one action left in your life to melt her heart, what do you think that would be—......you know deep down and so does she - reflect....then go for it.

Good luck D.

A x