How to win back a sag man

I am a Scorpio and dated a sag guy for about 5 months. Although not exclusive, it seemed like it. We would spend about 3 days/nights a week. When he hold me he had met someone and wanted to also date her, I said no, I will not date you then. I went off on him. He apologized and just sat there as I ranted as to why he was wrong to do that. I let him be for couple of days but I can not seem to let him go. I sent him several long texts telling giving him reasons why he is making a mistake. He finally responded with wishing me the world but that it was too much for him and to let him be. He had preciously told me that he wanted to be friends and enjoyed my company. I know our sex was great. What do I do? Should I let him be? I do not want to lose him, we truly had great times and this is only bad situation that happened. My Scorpio qualities came out and I let him have it verbally. Can I win h back, even of it is for friendship? Sag guys help me understand....

Thank you, you make total sense and you are not talking too much. I questioned our future many times.The way he treated me when we were together was great. I guess i miss that. He led me on and that is why I am so upset. I had moments of revenge and opportunities, but I restrained myself _— He said he wanted to maintain a friendship but makes no attempts to reach out. I need to realize that I may have never meant anything to him. Or I scared him away with my verbal rants. He had just divorced a Scorpio and may possibly displaced those feelings on me and did not want that drama he experienced. Who knows. I do miss our quality time talking and enjoying our company. Part of me hates him, other part still wants him in my life.

Lol _??_ please clue me in on Sag divorcees!

You are right, I love a challenge_—

devorcees in general.

hello I just read your post. I'm sure you pretty over him now however I can put my two cents in. If he doesn't treat you well then he's not the one. Don't let anyone take your happiness from you life is to short. He sounds like a real jerk. Just saying🙂

@Paz:

Just responding to your post and I'm not criticizing you. Just saying the truth. You made the mistake I often see women make...not getting a commitment up front before you get intimate. While this may not prevent cheating(an asshole always remains that way), it makes it less likely it would happen...especially for a Sag.

You yourself said you weren't exclusive, so by going off on him you justified his decision...rightly or not. Lastly, as with most divorcees regardless of sign, he wanted companionship but he just left a commitment and wasn't going to jump right into another one...especially with a Scorp. I'm not at all saying you're a bad person but you have to look at the dynamics and history and be real about it. You may have reminded him about the good things with his ex but he's now afraid to commit because of the bad as well. Flip it around. If a Sag pushed you to the point of divorce, how likely are you to jump into a relationship with another one. The friendship thing is a ploy to make you feel better and relieve himself of guilt. Oh you'll hear from him again but don't make anything of when you do.

Good luck to you.