I think only Sag girls are truly honest!!!

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Hi all,

I am a Sag girl. My friends think that I am toooooo honest, sometime they got "hurt" from me by my honesty 😢
I used to try not talking about the truth, but it is so hard for me BS around...just feel like lying...hate that way. So I prefer being myself---easy for me to be honest anyway.

Is there any buddy feeling the same? I hope all people can be honest as Sag girls...no lying, no cheating...then our lives would be much happier :-)
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I think sags are known for "opening mouth before engaging brain", honest to a fault I am, but I wish I can temper that with thinking about HOW I would say something before saying it..for example..my boss asked me once if I would be interested in doing some "administrative" work which is basically cracking the whip on everyone else including my colleagues, I immediately said "no way, I would have to be a serious b*tch to be able to do that", the look on his face was priceless and I just started laughing..looking back, it was not such a good idea to say so 🙂
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Sure, sweet-talk can make people feel good...but I prefer having a straight talk rather than being cheated by such BS.

My huddy is Sag, but he is very good at sweet-talking. After I married him, I found everything that he told me is NOT true... that cause my extremely mad at him, so I call him Mr. liar. That's why I would like to warn all girls BE CAREFUL while you dealing with a sag-guy!

I hate to be cheated, I am going to divorce him. He regretted for what he has done to me, but it is too late since he already hurt me by his lying.
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Hi my sister luckystar :-)

I don't know how to make that little cute yellow smiling face here... :-)

You are lucky to have a really honest Sag...you should keep him then.

I don't really know about chart...neither of us...

We got too many fights, he said he has never seen anybody so stubborn like me... maybe it is true.


I just heard about Sag girl is best with Leo man. Is there anyone has such experience with a Leo? How does it feel like?
I would like to try...after I become free again...
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I think some signs just can't take it, but there are some things I really need to work on so I don't offend.

Like when I was dating someone I kept mentioning my exes. I mentioned them so casually, but it was because I was completely over them and just associated different things with them.

I'm working on trying not to talk about it tho cus it sours a relationship real fast
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Posted by happykitsune

Like when I was dating someone I kept mentioning my exes. I mentioned them so casually, but it was because I was completely over them and just associated different things with them.

I'm working on trying not to talk about it tho cus it sours a relationship real fast



I also have MAJOR issues with this aswell!! I just can't control what comes out of my mouth sometimes.

An ex of mine of 6 years (an Aries) only told me towards the end of our relationship how over the years I had hurt him so bad with my words? I was totally unaware of this. I wish he could have told me as and when it happened cause I'm sure none of it was meant maliciously. I really felt bad for him.
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Posted by happykitsune
I think some signs just can't take it, but there are some things I really need to work on so I don't offend.

Like when I was dating someone I kept mentioning my exes. I mentioned them so casually, but it was because I was completely over them and just associated different things with them.

I'm working on trying not to talk about it tho cus it sours a relationship real fast



interesting. with my moon in scorpio, i am very hush hush with ex talk. ive only had 1, but even the guys i just fuck around with, mums the word. i am just not a talker when it comes to personal things.

neither me or my twin, even my dad whose also a lunar scorp.

there have been a select group of people who ive shared with. when i do share, i like to do it face to face, that way i can look them in the eye to let them know the seriousness of the conversation.

when im forced to share, ugh...i hide
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Posted by luckystar007
Hi my sister luckystar :-)

I don't know how to make that little cute yellow smiling face here... :-)

You are lucky to have a really honest Sag...you should keep him then.

I don't really know about chart...neither of us...

We got too many fights, he said he has never seen anybody so stubborn like me... maybe it is true.


I just heard about Sag girl is best with Leo man. Is there anyone has such experience with a Leo? How does it feel like?
I would like to try...after I become free again...



With the Leo man, I can say I get along with them very well until a certain point. I was with a Leo for many years. We developed an awesome friendship. So good, I wish the relationship could have worked. But...he was super controlling. It was awful for my adventurous Sag spirit. But as a friend, very loyal, very generous. But still controlling. Even as friends,it starts all out war between us. Leos are in a funny place with me.
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Posted by size zero superhero
Sags are not 'naturals' in the game of lying(for the most part)which includes being unskilled at harmless lying, as in sparing feelings etc--but like anybody else--would spare the truth to keep themselves/someone they care for out of trouble.

For instance...if you know damn well an unflattering outfit makes you look large, don't go asking a Sagittarius for reassurance. lol.



Lol. At work I was trying to think of this guy's name but couldn't. So my co-worker said describe him. I said, "The bald dude with the huge head.". She said I was mean, but knew just who I was talking about. I said,"Well if it's true, why is it mean?". Lmao!
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I agree. It seem like... People would not like to know the truth that we talk about... so sometime, I have to be silent rather than give lies that may make me feel guilty...

The "feedback" I got here is different than I thought --- most of you think sag guys are honest as well.

I guess I just got the worst "dishonest" sag guy as my husband...unfortunately, I had such bad luck 😢

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Posted by size zero superhero
Sags are not 'naturals' in the game of lying(for the most part)which includes being unskilled at harmless lying, as in sparing feelings etc--but like anybody else--would spare the truth to keep themselves/someone they care for out of trouble.

For instance...if you know damn well an unflattering outfit makes you look large, don't go asking a Sagittarius for reassurance. lol.



I agree!

If we don't have to think we can't help but be honest...it just comes out! We say whatever we're thinking.
But in instances where we have to think about a response...we may better choose our words.

Lying by omission is what I have been guilty of most...

Ex: I came home completely obliterated one night in high school and my mom was soooo mad at me. I told her I had one beer.
I did. But I also had 4+ shots of Tequila. I may have not mentioned that.

In my eyes I wasn't lying. I did have one beer.

*shrugs*
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Posted by happykitsune
I think some signs just can't take it, but there are some things I really need to work on so I don't offend.

Like when I was dating someone I kept mentioning my exes. I mentioned them so casually, but it was because I was completely over them and just associated different things with them.

I'm working on trying not to talk about it tho cus it sours a relationship real fast



interesting. with my moon in scorpio, i am very hush hush with ex talk. ive only had 1, but even the guys i just fuck around with, mums the word. i am just not a talker when it comes to personal things.

neither me or my twin, even my dad whose also a lunar scorp.

there have been a select group of people who ive shared with. when i do share, i like to do it face to face, that way i can look them in the eye to let them know the seriousness of the conversation.

when im forced to share, ugh...i hide
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It's deffo your moon...my Libra and my Aqua sis are Scorp mooners too and they're very private.
They both get so irate with me when I start running my mouth. They're like Why do you offer so much information to people?!?!
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Posted by size zero superhero
Sags are not 'naturals' in the game of lying(for the most part)which includes being unskilled at harmless lying, as in sparing feelings etc--but like anybody else--would spare the truth to keep themselves/someone they care for out of trouble.

For instance...if you know damn well an unflattering outfit makes you look large, don't go asking a Sagittarius for reassurance. lol.



I agree!

If we don't have to think we can't help but be honest...it just comes out! We say whatever we're thinking.
But in instances where we have to think about a response...we may better choose our words.

Lying by omission is what I have been guilty of most...

Ex: I came home completely obliterated one night in high school and my mom was soooo mad at me. I told her I had one beer.
I did. But I also had 4+ shots of Tequila. I may have not mentioned that.

In my eyes I wasn't lying. I did have one beer.

*shrugs*
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we tend to focus on the big picture and not the small details.
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Right. Libras are very gentle... I have never seen my Libras friends got mad.

Honestly, I have a quick temper... I often regretted for what I have said to others while I became mad... for some friends who knows me better would forgive me anyway because they know I would not like to hurt them on purpose.

Most of time when I am in peace (not in mad)...I am just as good as "normal" people 😉

Wish all Sags can live in Peace 🙂
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The only times I really ever lie is 1.To spare someones feelings being totally shattered and 2.When I get the most hideous present for Christmas or a birthday. I pretend like it's lovely but I just can't hide that disgusted expression on my face, so usually the present giver just 'knows' how I hate it...Ughh I hate upsetting people!!

I even took Drama and got an A* so god knows why I can't bring that 'Oh I love it look' to my face. I need to work on that- lol
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Posted by size zero superhero
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Lying by omission is what I have been guilty of most...

Ex: I came home completely obliterated one night in high school and my mom was soooo mad at me. I told her I had one beer.
I did. But I also had 4+ shots of Tequila. I may have not mentioned that.

In my eyes I wasn't lying. I did have one beer.

*shrugs*
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LMAO
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Hey everyone, my opinion .......I dated several sag guys and I had some sag friends, and I have a sag sister, also I been working with some sag coworkers for a few years now. I think that the ones I known was very blunt in there own way.

For example I was act work and I made some jewelry for myself and sag coworker was excited to see my handmade jewelry she said, omg u have to make me some ,so when I got to the point of about to do her jewelry she pick out the ones she wanted ,the ones she didn't like she said O not that ,that look a mess lmao ,she tryes to fix her words but it was too late ,I thought it was funny.

My sister always tell u when she don't like something. We shop to gather and I pick up a shirt , she would say quick of her opinion.

Sags make bad liars, and I know some that lie sadly. Also I seen sags tell the truth about random things but lie about important matters. Or will edited the truth.
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Sags make bad liars, and I know some that lie sadly. Also I seen sags tell the truth about random things but lie about important matters. Or will edited the truth.




That's true!!! My Sag husband lied to me many things in order to marry me.....makes me feel I was soooooo stupid to believe his BS sweet-talks......that cause super mad at him as well 😢 Hate liars!!!
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I seen this in sags I new. The ones that didn't really lie was the ones that was real quiet. But the only reason y I think I didn't catch them lieing is because they didn't say much. Also. The ones I new that lied would hold truth back by not saying nothing act all , my sister do this, I would say to her ,how was school today ? Note I already new she didn't take her ass to school cause her teacher called me. It was fine she said. Then change the subject , I said what y'all do today did u finish everything that u needed to finish? (note she had a project that she need to complete ) Yea she said. Then I said to her. Ooooo that wat up ,u manage to finish everything although u did go to school. She pulse not saying nothing then she said I did go ,I just didn't stay the whole day, I said how long day u stay? Note I already new she was going to say something stupid. She said just for alil bit. I said what a lil bit , she said for about a half of a hour. I said yea to get something out of your locker and then leave right. She said nothing else. Editing the truth. To deal with my sister I have to ask her things head on . Or I have to question her in details. Now the only y I deal with her cause she's my sister but this behavior can get on your nerves.

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I seen this in sags I new. The ones that didn't really lie was the ones that was real quiet. But the only reason y I think I didn't catch them lieing is because they didn't say much. Also. The ones I new that lied would hold truth back by not saying nothing act all , my sister do this, I would say to her ,how was school today ? Note I already new she didn't take her ass to school cause her teacher called me. It was fine she said. Then change the subject , I said what y'all do today did u finish everything that u needed to finish? (note she had a project that she need to complete ) Yea she said. Then I said to her. Ooooo that wat up ,u manage to finish everything although u did go to school. She pulse not saying nothing then she said I did go ,I just didn't stay the whole day, I said how long day u stay? Note I already new she was going to say something stupid. She said just for alil bit. I said what a lil bit , she said for about a half of a hour. I said yea to get something out of your locker and then leave right. She said nothing else. Editing the truth. To deal with my sister I have to ask her things head on . Or I have to question her in details. Now the only y I deal with her cause she's my sister but this behavior can get on your nerves.




I can understand your sister 🙂 For Sags, going to school is the most boring thing above all... I had escaped from school a few times while I was in middle-school 😉






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sister, and I'm really seeing her in this thread!

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Lying is not in sag nature, when we try to lie we cant really even do it with a straight face.



She is absolutely incapable of lying without giving it away by her facial expression! I think she just finally gave up.

When I get the most hideous present for Christmas or a birthday. I pretend like it's lovely but I just can't hide that disgusted expression on my face, so usually the present giver just 'knows' how I hate it.
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Omigosh...she does this! Except she doesn't even try to pretend she's interested in the gift. She'll tell you precisely what she wants as a gift from you, right down to the size, the color, and the store where you can find it. If she gets something she didn't request or doesn't like, she'll get a look on her face like she's weirded out, ask "what IS this?", and just sort of toss it to the side. I've never gotten used to this, and still go completely pale with embarrassment whenever she does it to someone.

My husband's family doesn't like my sister. They say she is incredibly rude and says nasty things to me. I don't really know what they mean (other than the example above), because I don't see what they're seeing. I think maybe they're just not used to people who are so blunt. Or it could be that she makes jokes without changing her facial expression, and maybe they think she's serious.
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@Whimsy, haha!! Well your sis defo sounds like a Sag.

Every year for my birthday/Christmas I make a 'list' I write down all the things I want and allocate it to the people who usually buys me present. It's in everybodys best interest to stick to the list cause when they don't they know they're bang in trouble unless on the off chance they buy me something that I love that isn't on the list! The whole list thing has become a big part of my life as I have been doing it since I was 5. Spoiled much? Errrmmmm yah, just a tad-lol

I only lie to the people who didn't know about the list and got me somemthing random but the people who are fully aware of it will feel the wrath of my honesty- MUHAHAHAHA
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Every year for my birthday/Christmas I make a 'list' I write down all the things I want and allocate it to the people who usually buys me present. It's in everybodys best interest to stick to the list cause when they don't they know they're bang in trouble unless on the off chance they buy me something that I love that isn't on the list! The whole list thing has become a big part of my life as I have been doing it since I was 5. Spoiled much? Errrmmmm yah, just a tad-lol

I only lie to the people who didn't know about the list and got me somemthing random but the people who are fully aware of it will feel the wrath of my honesty- MUHAHAHAHA



I've traditionally been the only family member allowed to deviate from The List, because I'm pretty good with coming up with interesting things. I slipped up once, though, and her expression was doubly priceless because she's used to getting good stuff. Later, I saw that she had just left the gift sitting there, at our mom's house, when she went home! It still sits there to this day.