ignoring a sag woman = kiss of death

so i met this sag man last week. he came on strong, a bit too much, but i dug the attention. this was tuesday night. everything was cool, then he chose to tell me he'd call me back when i spoke to him on friday. nothing the entire weekend from him. i called him this morning (monday), and he answered. he sounded busy in his car or something. i was fed up at this point so i asked him did he need to call me back. he said yes. i thought it over and i texted him about 15 min later telling him not to call back, i get it, and to stay sweet (lol...i meant that). he texted back like, wow...really? i texted back saying i was just following his lead.

honestly, it's no love lost. i am sure i could have enjoyed someone like me, if he acted right. but the one thing men should never do with us is ignore us. ESPECIALLY if they start with pouring on the attention.

i read this book called sexstrology or something. it described me to a t, being a sag woman and all. just wow!

oh, well...i guess i am the best woman he'll never have 😉

Posted by msX
so i met this sag man last week. he came on strong, a bit too much, but i dug the attention. this was tuesday night. everything was cool, then he chose to tell me he'd call me back when i spoke to him on friday. nothing the entire weekend from him. i called him this morning (monday), and he answered. he sounded busy in his car or something. i was fed up at this point so i asked him did he need to call me back. he said yes. i thought it over and i texted him about 15 min later telling him not to call back, i get it, and to stay sweet (lol...i meant that). he texted back like, wow...really? i texted back saying i was just following his lead.

honestly, it's no love lost. i am sure i could have enjoyed someone like me, if he acted right. but the one thing men should never do with us is ignore us. ESPECIALLY if they start with pouring on the attention.

i read this book called sexstrology or something. it described me to a t, being a sag woman and all. just wow!

oh, well...i guess i am the best woman he'll never have 😉

Lol

Have you ever had someone on your mind and really had the greatest intention to call but shit comes up that distracts you and then when you do remember to call its too late and you'll have it on your mind till they call you?

And he is a sag after all.

Posted by MzSag1201
I'm with you on being ignored, but geeeeez. You didn't even give the man a chance! It's only been two days. I could understand your logic after a week, but certainly not two days. It was the weekend. He probably had shit to do.

And then you have the audacity to call him on a Monday MORNING. Wtf?

It seems as if you did him the favor, IMO.

bish, please.

Posted by lonesag80
Have you ever had someone on your mind and really had the greatest intention to call but shit comes up that distracts you and then when you do remember to call its too late and you'll have it on your mind till they call you?

nah...but i am learning to not project my character onto others.
i do believe that you should keep your word when starting out, though.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by msX
so i met this sag man last week. he came on strong, a bit too much, but i dug the attention. this was tuesday night. everything was cool, then he chose to tell me he'd call me back when i spoke to him on friday. nothing the entire weekend from him. i called him this morning (monday), and he answered. he sounded busy in his car or something. i was fed up at this point so i asked him did he need to call me back. he said yes. i thought it over and i texted him about 15 min later telling him not to call back, i get it, and to stay sweet (lol...i meant that). he texted back like, wow...really? i texted back saying i was just following his lead.

honestly, it's no love lost. i am sure i could have enjoyed someone like me, if he acted right. but the one thing men should never do with us is ignore us. ESPECIALLY if they start with pouring on the attention.

i read this book called sexstrology or something. it described me to a t, being a sag woman and all. just wow!

oh, well...i guess i am the best woman he'll never have 😉

Lol

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ooooo...i'ma get you!
hahhahaaaa!!!!

@MaX:

You know you were wrong lol.

Sorry for the typo lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@MaX:

You know you were wrong lol.

ugh...i know.
i just don't know how to date anymore.
i should apologize. he'll accept it. he had better.

i did fail to mention that i called him saturday and it went to voicemail and a text kicked out that aid he'd call back in a few minutes. the text came so quickly, i thought it was automated. my calling him was totally out of character, but i thought i'd see what was up with him just because.

i forgot about that.

i thought it was rude of him not to call back.

Posted by msX
i did fail to mention that i called him saturday and it went to voicemail and a text kicked out that aid he'd call back in a few minutes. the text came so quickly, i thought it was automated. my calling him was totally out of character, but i thought i'd see what was up with him just because.

i forgot about that.

i thought it was rude of him not to call back.

Man ya gotta learn patience lol. You can't just charge up into someone's life. Be friends first and then send where it leads.

i guess.
sigh.
i've never been good with patience.
but i've never been good with flakes.

Posted by msX
i guess.
sigh.
i've never been good with patience.
but i've never been good with flakes.

How did the dude flake? I don't like flaky behavior either but you're judging him without him having the benefit of knowing his situation. Heck, I get bombarded with crisis all the time because people depend on me and I may not be able to call right back or text right then. It doesn't mean I don't care.

if you say you will call me right back on friday, don't take my call and say you will call me back in a few minutes on saturday, then don't call at all on sunday, i'd say that's pretty flaky.
put it this way - it's not a good start.



i welcome you to please convince me that i am unreasonable.
i could be jaded, but i am thinking not so.

I was never good with patience, either.
But us Sags do tend to overreact at times..ive heard from guys before.

Im talking to a Taurus man and he's pretty honest and blunt with everything he says..so when i got mad because either he didnt call back or text right away he said 'you overreact at times and it confuses me'.lol. Now ive stopped and act like it doesnt phase me, and now he calls back and texts right away..if he doesnt he apologizes and makes up for it with good old fashion make-up s**.lol

Posted by GalacticFun89
I was never good with patience, either.
But us Sags do tend to overreact at times..ive heard from guys before.

Im talking to a Taurus man and he's pretty honest and blunt with everything he says..so when i got mad because either he didnt call back or text right away he said 'you overreact at times and it confuses me'.lol. Now ive stopped and act like it doesnt phase me, and now he calls back and texts right away..if he doesnt he apologizes and makes up for it with good old fashion make-up s**.lol

girl!
my venus in scorpio makes it all the more tuuuuurible, lol!
now, if there was sex in the mix, i wouldn't be so uptight.
that always mellows me out.
makeup sex is thee best.

blahahah your like me i get pissed if someone doesn't txt me back in a few hours.

i totally get that we don't have a lot of time on this earth dragging out a txt back or trying to play it cool in the bigger picture is fucking pointless.

i wanna live in the here and now and quickly fiya man fiya

Posted by Sag89
blahahah your like me i get pissed if someone doesn't txt me back in a few hours.

i totally get that we don't have a lot of time on this earth dragging out a txt back or trying to play it cool in the bigger picture is fucking pointless.

i wanna live in the here and now and quickly fiya man fiya

Yep, same here.

I'm impatient too. Don't stir me up, then flake! Grrr!

Posted by Wynter

Posted by Sag89
blahahah your like me i get pissed if someone doesn't txt me back in a few hours.

i totally get that we don't have a lot of time on this earth dragging out a txt back or trying to play it cool in the bigger picture is fucking pointless.

i wanna live in the here and now and quickly fiya man fiya

Yep, same here.

I'm impatient too. Don't stir me up, then flake! Grrr!

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+10000

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by msX
if you say you will call me right back on friday, don't take my call and say you will call me back in a few minutes on saturday, then don't call at all on sunday, i'd say that's pretty flaky.
put it this way - it's not a good start.



i welcome you to please convince me that i am unreasonable.
i could be jaded, but i am thinking not so.

I get this, but why blow up his phone, why not allow the man to be a man and chase you?

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because fuck depending on people to anything about anything. if you can't do something that simple it's a waste of time.

lol, some Sag females have no problem doing the chasing 😛

I kinda like chasing, I guess its the animal side of me

I agree with the OP

It isn't that he didn't call/text; it's that he didn't call/text when he said that he would.

Don't blame you-- only difference is I would never had called.

Nope. No way, Josie. smh

i find this all to be a bit comical and ironic.

lets no kid ourselves saggis, how many times have we all said "i'll call you right back." to only forget to call back. i feel like in our minds, we called, but it actually didnt happen. im sure our friends and family have countless stories about trying to get us successfully on the phone.

how many times have we flaked out on people?

i was so very right to dump this loser.
no matter what, if a person does not have the common courtesy to respond to communication within a few hours to a day, even to say that they are busy, then they are not to be depended upon.
i do find that younger people tend to let these things slide, but i also feel that many younger women are much more accommodating than women used to be (maybe out of desperation or hopelessness?) and the men feed into it and encourage it.

stand strong, sag ladies!
we do not need to settle...ever!

Posted by Wynter

Posted by Sag89
blahahah your like me i get pissed if someone doesn't txt me back in a few hours.

i totally get that we don't have a lot of time on this earth dragging out a txt back or trying to play it cool in the bigger picture is fucking pointless.

i wanna live in the here and now and quickly fiya man fiya

Yep, same here.

I'm impatient too. Don't stir me up, then flake! Grrr!

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y'all are a hoot!
hahahahahaaa!!!!!
but it is all so true

Posted by DMV
I kinda like chasing, I guess its the animal side of me

pow. you and wynter hit it spot on.

Posted by lualibra
sextrology's a good book. the list of each sign's kinks is pretty spot on

omg, it IS! i have highlighted damn near the entire sag woman section...lol!
it is a guide of sorts to keep me on point regarding what i really should be looking for.

Posted by DMV
i find this all to be a bit comical and ironic.

lets no kid ourselves saggis, how many times have we all said "i'll call you right back." to only forget to call back. i feel like in our minds, we called, but it actually didnt happen. im sure our friends and family have countless stories about trying to get us successfully on the phone.

how many times have we flaked out on people?

lol! preach!
i am a super flake a times, but not in a relationship, however.
it's weird...because this person is about to know me more and better than anyone else, i tend to try to establish and maintain a high level of dependency so they will open up and feel free to be as vulnerable and transparent as i will be.
and if you are flaky and trying to get some ass, i won't even entertain you because i will feel like i can't get as filthy mcnasty as i wanna be.